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Sorry to say everyone but i'm seriously thinking of dropping off the scene,
if i don't come back thanks everyone xxxxx i just don't know what i want at the
I know that feeling. We took a month out recently and to be honest it was the most boring month we've had for a long time. Still not completely into it again though.
Sure you'll be back, but if not then take care, look after you and thanks for the banter xx
Good luck Wally you have to go with how you feel and we hope that whet ever you decide to do its the right choice for you
I think after the Wigan Munch I will be off as well....
Not getting anything from the site (in any context) so I can't see the point in remaining :-(
Have break, have a kit kat bolt dave
Quote by Steve
I think after the Wigan Munch I will be off as well....
Not getting anything from the site (in any context) so I can't see the point in remaining :-(

I'm using the Wigan munch to see if any kind of spark can be re-ignited.
Quote by Kaznkev
i was told i had outgrown the site,i see what was meant,but i have friends on here i like to meet in chat.T
he forum is not the place it was a year ago,but untill i can get all my friends on the same cam on msn the site has its uses.

:laughabove::laughabove::laughabove:
That almost sounds like one of those flouncy things.
You do leave yourself wide open to ridicule at times sweet pea. :twisted:
Quote by essex34m
I think after the Wigan Munch I will be off as well....
Not getting anything from the site (in any context) so I can't see the point in remaining :-(

I'm using the Wigan munch to see if any kind of spark can be re-ignited.
I think sub-consiously I am doing the same...
Quote by Steve
I think after the Wigan Munch I will be off as well....
Not getting anything from the site (in any context) so I can't see the point in remaining :-(

I'm using the Wigan munch to see if any kind of spark can be re-ignited.
I think sub-consiously I am doing the same...
I'll bring a can of petrol and a lighter for you two lol
Dave_Notts
Quote by Dave__Notts
I think after the Wigan Munch I will be off as well....
Not getting anything from the site (in any context) so I can't see the point in remaining :-(

I'm using the Wigan munch to see if any kind of spark can be re-ignited.
I think sub-consiously I am doing the same...
I'll bring a can of petrol and a lighter for you two lol
Dave_Notts
What, if you don't get lost? :lol:
Now I could use that petrol can to fire up a beacon. Look out for it and guide me in lol
Dave_Notts
what is petrol we have not seen any over here for a while
Quote by dsfrancetoo
what is petrol we have not seen any over here for a while

France is perfect, as I have been told on here many a time. Surely there must be plenty around for everyone.........do you want to borrow a can lol
Dave_Notts
would't say perfect but we love it errr can you make it a big can please lol
Shall I re-instate PLUTO? lol
Dave_Notts
Awww Joe, will miss ya....and as sum1 said dont delete ur account, u might just wana pop on now and then and if ur account still here u can do that, if u delete it uv got no choice. Be happy watever u do babe :inlove:
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I'll bring a can of petrol and a lighter for you two lol
Dave_Notts

What, if you don't get lost? :lol:
Dave still getting lost I take it??? Some things never change. :twisted:
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I'll bring a can of petrol and a lighter for you two lol
Dave_Notts


That's Dave in the middle, trying to set me and Steve on fire....
Why is everyone so down, I don't get it. Has something gone wrong with the site?
Quote by duckandbunny79
Why is everyone so down, I don't get it. Has something gone wrong with the site?

As is being discussed in another thread I dont think its the site its the forum. The forum makes up a very tiny % of the site users. I have met more than one site member in chat and by PM that did not even know a forum existed. The forum seems to have taken a downturn in number of people posting over the last 8-10 months in my opinion. I doubt that the site its self is any worse off member wise than it was 8-10 months ago. Best of luck I say to anyone who is considering the big push off. I dont try to be in their shoes as an old free member its a bit hard to contemplate if I would pay for this service or not.
Fair enough.
I think forums tend to be on the down slide.
When the net first started forums where all over the place. But real time experiences seam to be what everyone is about nowa days. Twitter, IM, chatrooms etc.
Why wait for a response when you can get instant gratification. Humanity has always been the same, faster faster faster. You can't stop progress.
Why do people open a thread saying there taking a break when actually they don't?? dunno
Quote by Lilmiss
Why do people open a thread saying there taking a break when actually they don't?? dunno

Attention.
Quote by Freckledbird
Why do people open a thread saying there taking a break when actually they don't?? dunno

Attention.
Only sometimes though Fb, other times circumstances change. :smile:
Quote by flower411
Why do people open a thread saying there taking a break when actually they don't?? dunno

To see if anybody cares :dunno:
Possibly......Sometimes people need a little reassurance ......Nothing wrong with that....
Also when they do go on a break they never tell us what to do whilst they are away, or in the event that they never come back.
It seems a bit one sided nay slightly irresponsible to leave us to our own devices when they swan off doing exactly what pleases them. Which in this case is nothing more for the time being.
I mean we are left to assume something which may not necessarily be what they want us to assume. having made an exit of sorts, it seems contradictory to come back almost immediately to put us right in our imaginings.
Although many do return having had a break and soon take up their old roles and status as if they had never gome away.
So I wonder if having a break or simply not joining in are any different?
Quote by Lost
Why do people open a thread saying there taking a break when actually they don't?? dunno

Attention.
Only sometimes though Fb, other times circumstances change. :smile:
Some people actually do take a break though - nothing wrong with that.
However, some just say they're going to but continue to post and add their names to munch lists etc.
Quote by flower411
Why do people open a thread saying there taking a break when actually they don't?? dunno

To see if anybody cares :dunno:
Possibly......Sometimes people need a little reassurance ......Nothing wrong with that....
Never said there was ! Just answering the question . Seemed like a valid answer.
I was agreeing with what you wrote...
i think its unlikely that the originators of these type of threads simply walk away. in fact their use of the site becomes more intense as they keep checking the thread to see the results.
equally everyone else is fascinated by the variety of responses, thus creating more traffic to the thread. which you would imagine the op had actually wanted not to happen, as they had tired of the site and its peculiar ways.
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i think its unlikely that the originators of these type of threads simply walk away. in fact their use of the site becomes more intense as they keep checking the thread to see the results.
equally everyone else is fascinated by the variety of responses, thus creating more traffic to the thread. which you would imagine the op had actually wanted not to happen, as they had tired of the site and its peculiar ways.

Nah i don't believe that. If you don't want this to happen and are that tired of the site then just take a break without posting to see if anybody is bothered. We all get fed up of certain matters on here so could you imagine if there was a 'Cafe' full of this kinda post. Genuin people wanting to have a break isn't a problem but don't post for attention. Plus you can still read this forum without signing in 12 hours after opening a 'Taking a break' thread.
Joe.. where are you? Why you not posting on this thread seeing as your here?? Fancy abandoning your own thread but posting on other peoples lol wink