Was it wonderful?? Was it a dissapointment?? Do you wish it had stayed in your head or are you now in your element having bought it into a reality?? Me personally... Have lived a few of mine but never yet been totally fulfilled by them. Im now beginning to think it should have all stayed in my head... What about you?? Minxie :rascal: xx
I would say it depends on the kind of fantasy, and the person who has it. Different horses, for different courses. Mrs777 has had a few fantasies of which a lot we have tried, and not on any occasion has she said she wishes that they should have stayed a fantasy. How does one know if it should have remained a fantasy, unless they try it?
I guess some fantasies are harder to organise than others. If you take you're time to plan it right and let eveyone know exactly whats in your head then you have more chance of it being right than if you just throw yourself in.
peronally i have enjoyed fulfilling my fantasies, they did take some planning and were well worth taking this time, they were even better in reality than imagination, and its nice to have new fantasies . i recently helped fulfil a friends fantasy which was very exciting
Quote by kentswingers777 How does one know if it should have remained a fantasy, unless they try it?
Exactly I do have a couple of fantasies which will stay just as that, but I also have fantasise which I really want to try (sooner rather than later). We did try out one thing which we had been wanting to do for a long time and have to say it wasnt as good as I expected, but at least now I know that either not to try it again, or to plan it better next time. Only you know if you fantasis are for living out of if they are like one or two of mine, which are better kept for naughty thoughts only
The word fantasy in the swinging community is often thrown about. You ask a child what she/he wishes for and they will reply "I wanna be a fire engine" or some other out of reach answer. You ask a 17 year old guy what his sexual fantasy is he may reply "a threesome with two hot blondes". You ask my Mrs what her fantasy is and she will say " a threesome with Jonny Depp and Anthony Kedis. A fantasy by its very nature should be unattainable. What we all talk about in here (SH) are not fantasies (except for the more extreme, gag master for instance ) they are to do with our wants and desires and we are lucky enough to be members of a community where if you are brave enough to ask, your sexual appetites can be fed. My advice, if your hungry for something then ask to be fed. If you like it great, if not pick something else off your menu to try!
I have recently had one of my fantasies fulfilled by stealth.....which in fairness was part of the fantasy itself. My gawjus lover had listened to my fantasy and asked many questions about how it worked in my head then sneaked it on me when i had called round to do a bit of DIY for her. It was awesome! It really lived up to my expectations and i still keep having a little smug chuckle to myself........ I just need to think of a new fantasy now
Quote by twiceasmuchfun The word fantasy in the swinging community is often thrown about. You ask a child what she/he wishes for and they will reply "I wanna be a fire engine" or some other out of reach answer. You ask a 17 year old guy what his sexual fantasy is he may reply "a threesome with two hot blondes". You ask my Mrs what her fantasy is and she will say " a threesome with Jonny Depp and Anthony Kedis. A fantasy by its very nature should be unattainable. What we all talk about in here (SH) are not fantasies (except for the more extreme, gag master for instance ) they are to do with our wants and desires and we are lucky enough to be members of a community where if you are brave enough to ask, your sexual appetites can be fed. My advice, if your hungry for something then ask to be fed. If you like it great, if not pick something else off your menu to try!
I dont agree with that bit. A fantasy is where you go when you close your eyes and dream. Whether you can actually be lucky enough to play it out one day doesn't make it any less of a fantasy. I have fantasies, loads of them. I put mine in stories. Some I've done, others I never will. But when the hand and mind take a wander it can end up anywhere. I've been lucky enough to realise some of my favourites recently. And I still fantasise about doing those things again.
How does one know if it should have remained a fantasy, unless they try it?
Exactly I do have a couple of fantasies which will stay just as that, but I also have fantasise which I really want to try (sooner rather than later). We did try out one thing which we had been wanting to do for a long time and have to say it wasnt as good as I expected,but at least now I know that either not to try it again, or to plan it better next time. Only you know if you fantasis are for living out of if they are like one or two of mine, which are better kept for naughty thoughts only yep same for me too...was a disappointment but not the be all and end all......but better to have grabbed the bull by the horn so to speak, done it and found out rather than wondered what if, what if, I think!
I have found it to mostly be fantastic, and only rarely a disappointment. I would wholeheartedly recommend people get out and fulfill fantasies... as long as they're safe (ish!) sane (ish!) and consensual! :giggle:
How does one know if it should have remained a fantasy, unless they try it?
Exactly I do have a couple of fantasies which will stay just as that, but I also have fantasise which I really want to try (sooner rather than later). We did try out one thing which we had been wanting to do for a long time and have to say it wasnt as good as I expected,but at least now I know that either not to try it again, or to plan it better next time. Only you know if you fantasis are for living out of if they are like one or two of mine, which are better kept for naughty thoughts only yep same for me too...was a disappointment but not the be all and end all......but better to have grabbed the bull by the horn so to speak, done it and found out rather than wondered what if, what if, I think! Dont get me wrong, we have had fun living our our fantasties and one particular one, which I had wanted for ages (meeting a couple for out first full swap, naughty fun) was out of this world, ok the location wasnt the best as it happened at a party, but the event more than made up for it :twisted: It was my main fantasy (that I mentioned above) which was just a bit of a let down, but if I hadnt tried it, I would not have known :wink:
i did forget to say that having been with the same man all of my sexual life, and often fantasised what it would have been like had I done the usual before settling down, I have MORE than lived that fantasy and some of the experiences have been amazing....some not so. ..like the guy who started a quickie spot of afternoon delight by deciding to spit his chewy out and stick it on my hearth before getting down to business as it were!!! :shock: I have only ever regretted one fantasty and wish I had kept it at that, but you live and learn....but as for stumbling on this site...I have to say its been avery positive experience and a definate plus in my life! Lost my mojo at the minute and swinging is out as I would find it a HUGE chore to be a sexual being and not a mum, but I do fantasise from time to time about my fantasies that came true and have a secret smile while doing something mundane and mumsy! :twisted:
Thankyou so much for all your views... made for interesting reading Im yet to find the right man for my biggest fantasy :twisted: But I doubt it'll happen lol Cos he has to be 'just right' cant live it out with just anyone Mind you.. if I did find him I may just not wanna let him go again Minxie :rascal: xx
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