As a small young guy I tended to find my conquests with the girls were few and far between; though if truth be told I would only aim for taller women.
Its a kind of inferiority complex thing that wanted to ensure if I had kids they be taller than me, and not the subject of bullying like I experienced as a kid!
Anway thing is 25 years ago I struck gold with Mandy. Man does she still tick boxes; I am one lucky guy, and I know it!
As a possesive Scorpio she would not tolerant me seeing another women, so realising how good I've got it, never have.
Sexually she is more woman than I can handle; although I can go at for ages 70% of the time I cum first (dammit).
Anyway in my late forties now guilt kind of prompted me to encourage her to have a 3some with another guy before she hits the change of life and maybe loses her appetite for sex.
After a few years she finally takes me seriously and we start swinging and low and behold both enjoy it.
Until that is we get a few strange suggestions (so I thought) about cuckolding.
A little research and I'm turned off totally, but the thing is some of the things mentioned apply to me.
Monogamy to her whilst she's fucking guys, pleasure at seeing her being pleasured and seeing her enjoying being pleasured.
Her being turned on whilst watching me Bi experiment sucking a guys cock.
She was riding me at the time and really rode me harder, which of course prompted me to suck him harder.
My getting harder was brought about by her enjoyment rather than me enjoying the guy.
Lastly last night after 10 long days without sex I came far too early and try as I might just could not gain erection again.
So time to experiment again, I went down on her and cleaned her up.
She enjoyed it; I've always enjoyed eating her and this time was no exception though still didn't get hard; kind of thought I might if I was a cuck!
So my question is (finally you say) am I a cuck or what?
Mandy does not like my referring to her as a hotwife, but is that what she is?
Thing is she got fucked by a VWE guy who is a bull and today I have with some reluctance let her go see him alone.
Personality clashes between him Leo and me Capricorn has meant there will never be a threesome again and as she says has experienced a big cock after 25 years and keen to try it again.
I have insisted that this is a one-off fuck and Mandy says she is happy with that; though Leo and Scorpio also make good lovers.
So guys and gals what is the verdict please or is the jury out on this?
Opinions and advice appreciated.
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Sex God
I have no idea what to make of that at all but I'd suggest you stop reading the stars. 
Sex God
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though Leo and Scorpio also make good lovers.
Hello, I'm a Leo (used to be a Cancer, but changed it by deed-poll).
And I think the answer is Yes.
John
Sex God
Shouldn't this be in the reader's stories section? Are we being asked to comment on the literary quality or what?
I think I would agree with 'Theladyisaminx'. I'm not really sure what the question is or what the author wants. Seems like he has everything he could ask for in a woman and sexual partner. If I read it correctly he is asking for the reader's blessing to allow his wife to go with someone who might be better endowed and last longer than himself. My thought is that it might be better to work at sorting himself out rather than enter a triangle which might split their relationship wide open. That's my five pence worth!
It sounds to me that the cuck thing appeals to you. You do it for your wife you state but a part of me thinks you also do it because you enjoy it.
There are many forms of cuckolding and yours is a part of that scene.
Nothing to worry about at all. I enjoy seeing mrs777 enjoying herself with a vwe guy. The form of cuck takes many variations and themes.
As long as you are both happy, who gives a toss what wording you fall into?
There are many forms of cuckolding and yours is a part of that scene.
Nothing to worry about at all. I enjoy seeing mrs777 enjoying herself with a vwe guy. The form of cuck takes many variations and themes.
As long as you are both happy, who gives a toss what wording you fall into?
Also the praise of my writing. I confess to taking a creative writing course some years back but wouldn't have thought I would be confused with published writing. 
Wow "70's porn mags"! and "cut and pasted from various scources"! Wasn't expecting flattery, thank you. :D
Some very interesting comments of the situation, I must confess our naivity especially the bloody lame username which was meant to read "freedom" added to the wind up.
Soon to be sorted as the subscription expires tomorrow. Yes. :bounce:
It was the reading about guys getting abused that really wound me up having suffered a lot of bullying as a child.
The thought of it all coming back in a sexual situation with a stranger, filled me with dread that my wife might actually get off on that and take sides with the bull that I could therefore not handle!
Wow "70's porn mags"! and "cut and pasted from various scources"! Wasn't expecting flattery, thank you. :D
Some very interesting comments of the situation, I must confess our naivity especially the bloody lame username which was meant to read "freedom" added to the wind up.
Soon to be sorted as the subscription expires tomorrow. Yes. :bounce:
It was the reading about guys getting abused that really wound me up having suffered a lot of bullying as a child.
The thought of it all coming back in a sexual situation with a stranger, filled me with dread that my wife might actually get off on that and take sides with the bull that I could therefore not handle!
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Also the praise of my writing. I confess to taking a creative writing course some years back but wouldn't have thought I would be confused with published writing.
Wow "70's porn mags"! and "cut and pasted from various scources"! Wasn't expecting flattery, thank you. :D
Some very interesting comments of the situation, I must confess our naivity especially the bloody lame username which was meant to read "freedom" added to the wind up.
Soon to be sorted as the subscription expires tomorrow. Yes. :bounce:
It was the reading about guys getting abused that really wound me up having suffered a lot of bullying as a child.
The thought of it all coming back in a sexual situation with a stranger, filled me with dread that my wife might actually get off on that and take sides with the bull that I could therefore not handle!
Unless you, your wife or the bull are still in school I think you don't have to worry about that happening. If you're worried about your wife taking sides with someone else and making fun of you then I suggest some therapy or summat before you let things go any further in the swinging scene.
It's all about trust, and you can't have trust if you're worrying about what she might do without your agreement.
I do feel I am back in the schoolyard, I can tell you.
Frankly this whole bull thing has transported me back in time over 30 years, to a past I thought was well behind me.
Like a lot of kids who go through bullying I was close to suicide then, so I hope you can appreciate why it worries me so much now.
With 25 years of being totally faithful to me, the last thing I thought was not being able to trust my wife, however part of the agreement of her seeing him again was that she did so totally seperately, as if a single woman and that they never mention me.
She knew of my past and was shocked to see that adults would actually take bullying into the bedroom, so after finding out the guy was into the bull scene my world got fractured when inspite of such, she still wanted to see him again.
As you can probably gather I am more a tender lover, and never able to fuck her hard; never wanting to hurt her.
It matters not how much she maintains it's okay, whenever I've performed like that for her, I become anxious I may do so and don't attempt to stop my self from cuming.
I have very good stamina ordinarily and to fuck her hard for a long period scares me I could do some harm.
Clearly this is what is missing in our relationship and why she is reluctant not to see him.
It winds her up that much that if I don't agree to her seeing him, I feel it would only be a matter of time before she saw him behind my back!
Previously I got the feeling the guy was manipulating her after our personalities clashed and she frequently sided with him.
Once he admitted to being a bull (after about a fortnight) Mandy surprised that I was right, apologised to me for this.
Me and him do not communicate in anyway now; though Mandy reluctant to give him up maintained contact by txt and msn.
A consequence of this was that I insisted if she were to meet him, I was never, ever to be talked about or referred to at anytime, it must be as if I do not exist!
Mandy agreed to this, yet a few days later found this one simple, but very important (to me) proviso was being flaunted already.
It was a total violation of my trust, and I was extremely hurt by it, though I can never hold a grudge against my wife and she was forgiven.
Last night in bed, after she had seen him in the morning, (despite 2 nights without sleep) I was keen to make love to her; to maintain our bonds, and instill confidence that she still desired me; surely a natural reaction in the circumstance.
Unfortunately she was far from enthusiastic and my ardor soon evaporated.
Funnily enough that is exactly like the other time with him!
Yeah I know twice can be just a coincidence.
So now after a third night without sleep, I'm left wondering whether all this business I've read about involving cuckold training by denying the husband sex with his wife is some kind of twisted manipulation of her.
She can be very cruel with her tongue, with comments in the argument that ensued, such as "it is not my fault he has a big cock and you only have a small one."
Like most men the world over the size of my manhood is one thing that concerned me from an early age; so know that 6" measured above, not below with a 5" girth is pretty much the average!
After such sleep deprivation I wonder is that her saying that or cuckold humilation?
To me it seems ridulous that there must be lots of other guys out there who aren't bulls that are well endowed we could have threesomes with and both be happy, but I can not make her look elsewhere, if I did, I would have to worry what was happening behind my back surely?
Frankly this whole bull thing has transported me back in time over 30 years, to a past I thought was well behind me.
Like a lot of kids who go through bullying I was close to suicide then, so I hope you can appreciate why it worries me so much now.
With 25 years of being totally faithful to me, the last thing I thought was not being able to trust my wife, however part of the agreement of her seeing him again was that she did so totally seperately, as if a single woman and that they never mention me.
She knew of my past and was shocked to see that adults would actually take bullying into the bedroom, so after finding out the guy was into the bull scene my world got fractured when inspite of such, she still wanted to see him again.
As you can probably gather I am more a tender lover, and never able to fuck her hard; never wanting to hurt her.
It matters not how much she maintains it's okay, whenever I've performed like that for her, I become anxious I may do so and don't attempt to stop my self from cuming.
I have very good stamina ordinarily and to fuck her hard for a long period scares me I could do some harm.
Clearly this is what is missing in our relationship and why she is reluctant not to see him.
It winds her up that much that if I don't agree to her seeing him, I feel it would only be a matter of time before she saw him behind my back!
Previously I got the feeling the guy was manipulating her after our personalities clashed and she frequently sided with him.
Once he admitted to being a bull (after about a fortnight) Mandy surprised that I was right, apologised to me for this.
Me and him do not communicate in anyway now; though Mandy reluctant to give him up maintained contact by txt and msn.
A consequence of this was that I insisted if she were to meet him, I was never, ever to be talked about or referred to at anytime, it must be as if I do not exist!
Mandy agreed to this, yet a few days later found this one simple, but very important (to me) proviso was being flaunted already.
It was a total violation of my trust, and I was extremely hurt by it, though I can never hold a grudge against my wife and she was forgiven.
Last night in bed, after she had seen him in the morning, (despite 2 nights without sleep) I was keen to make love to her; to maintain our bonds, and instill confidence that she still desired me; surely a natural reaction in the circumstance.
Unfortunately she was far from enthusiastic and my ardor soon evaporated.
Funnily enough that is exactly like the other time with him!
Yeah I know twice can be just a coincidence.
So now after a third night without sleep, I'm left wondering whether all this business I've read about involving cuckold training by denying the husband sex with his wife is some kind of twisted manipulation of her.
She can be very cruel with her tongue, with comments in the argument that ensued, such as "it is not my fault he has a big cock and you only have a small one."
Like most men the world over the size of my manhood is one thing that concerned me from an early age; so know that 6" measured above, not below with a 5" girth is pretty much the average!
After such sleep deprivation I wonder is that her saying that or cuckold humilation?
To me it seems ridulous that there must be lots of other guys out there who aren't bulls that are well endowed we could have threesomes with and both be happy, but I can not make her look elsewhere, if I did, I would have to worry what was happening behind my back surely?
Sex God
3Dom. I must admit this does sound like a passage from a badly written story. The style and tenor of your writing is certainly different to what one usually reads in this forum. Also different in style from your own profile paragraph. I think your going to have to ask in a very diferent way if your going to get many sensible replies.
Something's not right with this, I don't know what but it's just all a bit er.. wierd And I don't mean you're wierd, unless you've copied it and lied and then you're just messed up.
In my (professional) opinion, this really isn't the place to be regressing yourself back to possible childhood suicides etc. To be honest I think a Mod should lock this and any further advice given by PM.
And I don't mean you're wierd, unless you've copied it and lied and then you're just messed up.In my (professional) opinion, this really isn't the place to be regressing yourself back to possible childhood suicides etc. To be honest I think a Mod should lock this and any further advice given by PM.
Sex God
Are you in my head Bloke?
Yep, 3Dom anyone who wants to be in touch can get in touch via the private message system.
Nola x
Yep, 3Dom anyone who wants to be in touch can get in touch via the private message system.
Nola x
