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Quote by wedgehog

I notice the mods removed the picture, that raises a couple of questions. If we are not allowed to post adult content in here, then why can we? also why not? does this mean that this forum is not private to the internet and everyone can see what we post, am I telling my most personal secrets to people in here but anyone can see it?

Ok, I'll pick up some of the questions here- just because you "technically" can, doesn't mean you should- this is the same as asking why aren't all cars limited to 70mph in the UK given that's the highest speed limit allowed here. This has always been the case in the forums- as a section of the site that is broadly dedicated to text, not everyone wants to see adult pics while they're consuming the content, therefore the restriction on the forum- there are obviously many other areas of the site where pics are fine and that's another part of the decision- differentiating different areas.

Privacy on the internet is a huge subject that I wont even attempt to cover in detail, and I'm not sure what you mean by "Private to the internet" that really is an oxymoron. What I can tell you is that a lot of different people can see what is posted in the forum, a forum is by its nature an open discussion, so you should not assume anything posted here is "Private" at all.

Hope this helps,

Lapua

Quote by wedgehog

Hi mate, " I used to love looking at your media" why didn't you tell me that? I can't remember why I blocked you, I doubt you upset me as that's very hard to do, the single guys usually get blocked if they persist in trying to persuade me to let them come and play after I have told them that Geri will not entertain single men. Anyway, I have unblocked you, so if you want to go through our hundreds of pictures and videos please do.

I also wanted to pick this up, really for everyone's information- anyone who is blocked is instructed NOT to contact the person that has blocked them, essentially to make the block function a free choice for each user without having to justify their choice, or face an inquisition from people who feel that it's a personal insult or whatever. I'm actually gratified to hear that the person you blocked did the right thing, and understood it was your choice and didn't try to give you a hard time about it, bravo!

Of course this does mean you need to be a bit careful when applying the block to make sure you don't unintentionally block people you don't want to- in fact, its worth a review of your block list periodically to make sure you haven't done that- you can access that through the privacy section in your profile.

In short- the block function is everyone's individual choice and the rules around asking about it are to prevent harassment about it.

Quote by Lapua

Ok, I'll pick up some of the questions here- just because you "technically" can, doesn't mean you should- this is the same as asking why aren't all cars limited to 70mph in the UK given that's the highest speed limit allowed here. This has always been the case in the forums- as a section of the site that is broadly dedicated to text, not everyone wants to see adult pics while they're consuming the content, therefore the restriction on the forum- there are obviously many other areas of the site where pics are fine and that's another part of the decision- differentiating different areas.

Privacy on the internet is a huge subject that I wont even attempt to cover in detail, and I'm not sure what you mean by "Private to the internet" that really is an oxymoron. What I can tell you is that a lot of different people can see what is posted in the forum, a forum is by its nature an open discussion, so you should not assume anything posted here is "Private" at all.

Hope this helps,

Lapua

My bad I assumed the forum was only within this site for the members, not that everyone on the internet could read it. I worded it badly I meant private within Swinging heaven on the internet, not the world. if everyone can read it of course there mustn't be adult pictures. I must be stupid though I know I am not very computer savvy but why is everyone supposed to already know these things? Is the chat available for everyone on the internet to see? or the groups?

Quote by wedgehog

My bad I assumed the forum was only within this site for the members, not that everyone on the internet could read it. I worded it badly I meant private within Swinging heaven on the internet, not the world. if everyone can read it of course there mustn't be adult pictures. I must be stupid though I know I am not very computer savvy but why is everyone supposed to already know these things? Is the chat available for everyone on the internet to see? or the groups?

There is quite a bit of help and advice in the links at the bottom of every page- acceptable use policy, Privacy, Support (lots of Q and A's there) and failing that, you can always as a mod, or if they can't help, you can ask the admin folks through a ticket.

Quote by wedgehog

Hi mate, Yes I think a lot of people worry about that, some so much so, they don't post any pictures at all, how that is supposed to get them attention when loads of others do I'm not sure. I couldn't really give a damn if anyone recognises me as you can see by all the uninhibited pictures I have, but just because they see me and might recognise me doesn't mean I want them knowing my sexual desires, fantasies and fetishes! that I have recently been talking about in here, not sure free members can access the forum, is that certain?

I'm not too worried about being recognised but, I guess, because I'm not immediately identifiable I'm less worried about sharing personal information.

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