ladies can you think of a worse possible insult than being told you are a man after putting your webcam on? Does this happen often on here??
I honestly didnt know if it was just a ploy to get me to take my clothes off or if they really meant it but then when i realised they really did mean it AND not only was i told i was a man but i was told i was an ugly f**ker. This has happened to me 3 times now & yes they were all different people & its very hurtful. I mean would you go up to a woman in the street & say 'are you a man or a woman?' Women are very self conscious about their looks & any remarks can send their self confidence plummeting. It takes a lot of courage for women to come on cam you know!
Now i know there are quite a few TVs CDs and bi guys out there but dont take it out on me. Ive met the following people from here & they all know im a woman.
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Sex God
Don't think anyone needs to know who you've met - if someone's been abusive you should report them to mods or admin and get it dealt with properly, not come into the forum commenting on it.
Lets-kiss, I've edited out the names of the people you have mentioned, as you've not said that they have given permission to be named in that way.
Sorry to hear you've been insulted, if you feel it has been done maliciously, then as Freckledbird says, report it to either one of the mods, ops or the admin
Sorry to hear you've been insulted, if you feel it has been done maliciously, then as Freckledbird says, report it to either one of the mods, ops or the admin
I went into one of the chatrooms last night and one of the regulars said that she had been told she looked like a TV.... She was a little pissed off about it but in all honesty all you can do is laugh at them.... Some people get a real kick out of being abusive so dont rise to the bait....
They are only words from some person you will never meet... Why would you get upset about comments from someone who you dont know?? Ignore the twunts hun
They are only words from some person you will never meet... Why would you get upset about comments from someone who you dont know?? Ignore the twunts hun
Quote by Shireen_Mids
I went into one of the chatrooms ...
Speaking of the chatroom, (apologies for the hijack)....
A little birdy told me that certain ops & mods coerced a poor defenceless member of the admin team into getting his bum out on cam last night.
Can you confirm or deny this? And if it is true are there any pics :twisted:
Quote by Shireen_Mids
They are only words from some person you will never meet... Why would you get upset about comments from someone who you dont know?? Ignore the twunts hun
Quote by karl74
well i had the lovely pleasure of chatting with u last night i dissapeared before the pleasure of seeing you too. ignore the ass wipes hun and enjoy,neither of us all look the xame and we all hav different taste. there loss hun. :therethere:
Which is exactly what the person making the hurtful comments in the first place is thinking ......... why should they give a shit if it's only cyberspace and they're never gonna meet the person they're insulting?
I have to disagree that ignoring these people is the way to go though ......... once you start ignoring them they think they're getting away with it and the comments get worse and others will join in the 'fun'.
If the comments get nasty and there isn't a chatroom op around all I can suggest is that you take a screenshot of the chat (press print screen and an image of the chat will be copied to your clipboard) and then report it to the ops or the admin by e-mail. Hopefully then they'll be able to do something about it.
Sorry to hear you've been treated this way.
Steve
Sex God
you are 108 and 7ft tall 
Quote by Shireen_Mids
I went into one of the chatrooms last night and one of the regulars said that she had been told she looked like a TV.... She was a little pissed off about it but in all honesty all you can do is laugh at them.... Some people get a real kick out of being abusive so dont rise to the bait....
They are only words from some person you will never meet... Why would you get upset about comments from someone who you dont know?? Ignore the twunts hun
I have been told several times in the chatroom that I am a man (and i didn't even have my cam on) and seen others being told they are men too.
Some do it because they are sad loanly wankers - some to try and goad you into getting your bits and bobs out on cam.
I find the best replies are...
"Yeah if you say so" or "so is a blow-job out of the question?"
Laugh it off - they are the stupid ones after all. It is no skin off of my nose if some sad tosser thinks I am a man - one less crappy PM to delete!
Sexpert
well not really any probs there just show them my man boobs
Sexpert
hey we are a cpl will that count for us
Sex God
name and shame em on the spot in the chatroom!!!!!!!!!!!
along the lines of...quote what they said. along with an if u want to be so insulting i`ll turn my cam off.......watch the room spring to your defence!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and report them to an op...
should do the trick!!!!!!!!!!
along the lines of...quote what they said. along with an if u want to be so insulting i`ll turn my cam off.......watch the room spring to your defence!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and report them to an op...
should do the trick!!!!!!!!!!
Sex God
Quote by lets_kiss
Ive met the following people from here & they all know im a woman.
Your profile says you don't meet - you want to discuss the swinging lifestyle?
Master of Sex
They only say things like that when they can't get what they want i.e. you won't show on cam what they want you to show or you turn them down for a meet.
Just copy and paste what they have said in whisper into the main room, they won't hang around for long
Just copy and paste what they have said in whisper into the main room, they won't hang around for long
Master of Sex
Quote by PoloLady
SuperStudHardCockThrobber4u2nite4Quick1: You are a man!
PoloLady: Shame you're not - I'd fuck you if you were.
:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove:
Quote by freckledbird
Ive met the following people from here & they all know im a woman.
Your profile says you don't meet - you want to discuss the swinging lifestyle?
She does say she goes to clubs though.
You also have to bear in mind that what's in the profile is sometimes to deter crappy pms - hence why I'm 108 & living in the Outer Hebrides and yesterday Darfire was a gay male
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Ive met the following people from here & they all know im a woman.
Your profile says you don't meet - you want to discuss the swinging lifestyle?
She does say she goes to clubs though.
You also have to bear in mind that what's in the profile is sometimes to deter crappy pms - hence why I'm 108 & living in the Outer Hebrides and yesterday Darfire was a gay male
I feel like a youngster at only 100 :lol:
Sex God
but you don't look a day over 96 
Quote by Shireen_Mids
I went into one of the chatrooms last night and one of the regulars said that she had been told she looked like a TV.... She was a little pissed off about it but in all honesty all you can do is laugh at them.... Some people get a real kick out of being abusive so dont rise to the bait....
They are only words from some person you will never meet... Why would you get upset about comments from someone who you dont know?? Ignore the twunts hun
well if 3 people say it all on seperate occassions then you do start to believe it & yes those people i named are validating me & im validating them.
Quote by PoloLady
I have been told several times in the chatroom that I am a man (and i didn't even have my cam on) and seen others being told they are men too.
Some do it because they are sad loanly wankers - some to try and goad you into getting your bits and bobs out on cam.
well thats why it wasnt so hurtful because they wernet watching your cam when they said it
Quote by southukcouple
They only say things like that when they can't get what they want i.e. you won't show on cam what they want you to show or you turn them down for a meet.
Just copy and paste what they have said in whisper into the main room, they won't hang around for long
well all 3 occasions it was in the main room & no they didnt get booted out & they didnt shut up either
Quote by lets_kiss
............ & yes those people i named are validating me & im validating them.
Most people tend not to do that so publicly, or like to see it done.
Particularly without making it clear that all concerned are happy with it being common knowledge who's doing who.
Here's one example where it was dicussed recently
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/76434.html
Not a dig - just an opinion.
Sex God
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
but you don't look a day over 96
Not sure if that was meant for me or pololady so
just in caseit was polo, you don't look a day over 94
