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Terms of endearment
Must admit I like being called Babes and Hun by my male friend I chat with on MSN but thats because I know him quite well now. 
I DO NOT like to be called it by people who are chatting to you for the first time. It irritates me greatly and they can come across as sounding full of themselves and tosser-like.
Don't really know why there should be a difference but to me there is.
Fee
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I DO NOT like to be called it by people who are chatting to you for the first time. It irritates me greatly and they can come across as sounding full of themselves and tosser-like.
Don't really know why there should be a difference but to me there is.
Fee
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Sex God
If the person knows me then any term of endearment is fine apart from hun or dear as I find them quite irritating.
If I don't know the person and they call me by any term of endearment it rubs me up the wrong way, it's as if they can't remember my name.
I'm guilty of saying/ writing it to others though and regularly call people chick or honey. Some rather more special folk get called other things.
A good friend of mine suggested we give each other pet names which we still use now. It can be cute and fun if done in the right way.
If I don't know the person and they call me by any term of endearment it rubs me up the wrong way, it's as if they can't remember my name.
I'm guilty of saying/ writing it to others though and regularly call people chick or honey. Some rather more special folk get called other things.
A good friend of mine suggested we give each other pet names which we still use now. It can be cute and fun if done in the right way.
Sex God
I dont mind being called babe or hun, or anything really, but i dont like it if its from someone when chatting for the first time
Quote by JudyTV
im not fussed what im called apart from love that really bugs me for some reason
Now look here Rachel love
...................I mean honey, sweetie, darling, baby... :P :P Judy........... runs off before Rachel can catch me....Tee hee
.Ah but she'll remember & GET you when you are least expecting it
:evil: 
Orgasminator
Quote by GenHertsCpl
I dont mind being called babe or hun, or anything really, but i dont like it if its from someone when chatting for the first time
Thats ok then BABE, seeing as i at least said 'Hi' at the mini-munch last Sat i think i'm safe there then...... BABE :inlove: :rose:
Orgasminator
I don,t mind any of those terms really, I don,t like being called " A YOU" .when i used to go to night clubs,you,d get guy,s who think they,re funny and lean on me because i,m short that i do hate
.when i used to go to night clubs,you,d get guy,s who think they,re funny and lean on me because i,m short that i do hate 
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Quote by mollman
i do not mind being called anything as long as it is not "COCK" :twisted: i hate that.... but if i talk to any female either in the chat room, msn or then i always call them BABES, HUN or HUNNY it is just me so if i upset anyone, may i apologize in advance
That's alright cock!
Sex God
Pet names grrrrrrr 
:x :x :x :x can't stand em
certain friends can get away with it now and again but anyone else usually gets told pretty quick
:x :x :x :x can't stand emcertain friends can get away with it now and again but anyone else usually gets told pretty quick
:smackbottom: 
Quote by JudyTV
im not fussed what im called apart from love that really bugs me for some reason
Now look here Rachel love
...................I mean honey, sweetie, darling, baby... :P :P Judy........... runs off before Rachel can catch me....Tee hee
.you can run judy cos ive got aching legs for the past few days ..(dont ask lol ) so ive put the horses head in the bed for you and remember ( said in an irish accent ) i know where ya mom buys her bread you know what im saying
Quote by Libra-Love
ohhhhhhhhhhhhh I'm sooooo tempted ...... hmmmmm but I'm still a newbie mmm I'll wait until I get a few more chevrons on my shoulder
It's easy to be brave in cyber, isn't it hey?
er yes
actually does my post sound as rude to you as it does to me? I apologise Miss Libra if I have offended you (I hope I didn't) but I was typing in a hurry (post in haste regret for ever as they say)...What I'm trying to say is that I have this weird suicidal tendency when someone says to me "don't you dare calling me a.." I go and call them exactly that!! :shock:
erm how old am I? hehe I don't think I've grown up yet!
:love: :love: :love: :love:
Orgasminator
Quote by Calista
I hate being called love too
I have a habit of calling people darlin' ... especially those I'm flirty with.
C x
The first time I was called "duck" by a bloke in these parts I was like :shock:
I tend to call women "hun" and if I know them better then "hunnie," tho not in the sexual sense just more friendly.
Male friends are usualy called mate, or me old mucker (god knows where I first heard that one) or if very good mates then usualy "hello you old wanker, hows it hanging"
Who was it that used to use the phrase "ello my darlin" was it charlie drake?
Orgasminator
Quote by redstilletto
babe reminds of that pink pig :shock:
:lol: :lol: I loved the first film, but wasnt keen on the second one... not that I watched them you understand, i was just in the same room when laddo had them on
One day "babe" will grow up and make some lovely bacon :P :P :P
Quote by piercedJon
babe reminds of that pink pig :shock:
:lol: :lol: I loved the first film, but wasnt keen on the second one... not that I watched them you understand, i was just in the same room when laddo had them on
:twisted:
oh yeah i belive you thousands wouldnt
and erm number was was such a good film ...................i wanna pet pig
Quote by little gem
I'm guilty of saying/ writing it to others though and regularly call people chick or honey.
A really good friend of mine calls me "chick" and i have no idea why, but I can't stand it!!!
In general, the way I react to a "term of endearment" really depends on the person using it. I hate being called "love", but have a customer who always calls me that and I find that kind of amusing becuase he isn't being funny with it. That is just his way with me. (want to see the faces when he calls me that in meetings though
:lol: ).I get called "babe" by some people on here and I really don't mind it from them, but it would annoy me from someone I didn't know.
I tend to call people "sweetie" which kind of comes from messing about with the camp guys at the pub and is a derivation of "sweetie/darling" Abfab style, but I don't think I would use it when chatting to anyone who didn't really know me.
