right sorry to post this as a new thread, but i didnt want it to be missed.
thank you to everyone for the kind words that have said to be, both in public ,and in PM. you dont know how much they mean to me. and i am not used to words like this.
i dont see myself different to any other as i say to everyone i am mr joe average. nothing more nothing less, so to see some of the words that have been said about me, have given me a warm glow, and i can't thank you enough.
there are a few people (they know who they are). who have sat back and let me talk my mind, and i think of them as VERY good friends, and couldn't wish for anything better. THANK YOU
i would also like to say, both parties have apolisigsed to me, one publicly and one privatly. and i will be discussing what happend next with them shorty
as munches are concerned, i'm not 100% that i will go to them or not. as for those who know me i do enjoy getting to meet new people and make niew friend, which i beleive is what makes SH so sucessful. and previouslly the munches have been really good nights, and i have enjoyed them. this maybe why i get out to so many events.
but the events did make me feel uneasy. but on the other hand i dont want to give up the munches. what i'm trying to say is that.. if you see me you will if not, then i'll still be arround on SH.
Thank you all once again.
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Very well put Jiggle, good luck which ever way you decide. I look forward to seeing you again.
John
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Jiggle please don't let the people who did this thing to you alter the way you look at Munches.
I know it'll take a great deal of courage to attend the next Munch, but as you've said you enjoy them, so why deny yourself the pleasure.
There's plenty of people that will be more than willing to support and look out for you and I honestly cannot see any chance of the incident re-occuring, especially in the light of Dawns thread.
I'm pleased that both parties have appologised to you now. I think that once you're satisfied that it's all done with you should get back to enjoying yourself, rather than letting them hold you back.
Hope to see you at the Notts Munch at least matey. :cheers:
I know it'll take a great deal of courage to attend the next Munch, but as you've said you enjoy them, so why deny yourself the pleasure.
There's plenty of people that will be more than willing to support and look out for you and I honestly cannot see any chance of the incident re-occuring, especially in the light of Dawns thread.
I'm pleased that both parties have appologised to you now. I think that once you're satisfied that it's all done with you should get back to enjoying yourself, rather than letting them hold you back.
Hope to see you at the Notts Munch at least matey. :cheers:
Jiggle
Increase the number of times you say, "I am not at fault, they are" to 20 in the morning and 20 in the evening, also each time you ave any worries about the incident say the same 15 times.
Keep smiling
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The important thing is not to let "them" win and if you change your life pattern because of them you have done so.
Do what you want foryou
Increase the number of times you say, "I am not at fault, they are" to 20 in the morning and 20 in the evening, also each time you ave any worries about the incident say the same 15 times.
Keep smiling
:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D The important thing is not to let "them" win and if you change your life pattern because of them you have done so.
Do what you want foryou
Jiggle, as we have said to you, you have to follow your heart and do what is right for you. We are sure that as this has happened once, people will now be more respectful and aware of your boundaries and you will never be put in such a situation again.
Give it time and we are sure you will feel confident enough to attend munches again. In the meantime you are more than welcome to have a visit to sunny Norfolk :P
Take care Jiggle
Give it time and we are sure you will feel confident enough to attend munches again. In the meantime you are more than welcome to have a visit to sunny Norfolk :P
Take care Jiggle
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Jiggle please don't let the people who did this thing to you alter the way you look at Munches.
I know it'll take a great deal of courage to attend the next Munch, but as you've said you enjoy them, so why deny yourself the pleasure.
There's plenty of people that will be more than willing to support and look out for you and I honestly cannot see any chance of the incident re-occuring, especially in the light of Dawns thread.
I'm pleased that both parties have appologised to you now. I think that once you're satisfied that it's all done with you should get back to enjoying yourself, rather than letting them hold you back.
The important thing is not to let "them" win and if you change your life pattern because of them you have done so.
Do what you want for you
I think these 2 posts say it all.
I for one are looking forward to meeting you again
And I'll only give you one of these
if you want one 
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And I'll only give you one of these
Oh I see. I make the good post and he gets the
assionkiss: How the hell does that work?
*goes off to sulk back under his rock again*
:? :? 
:lol: :lol: Sorry 'bout that.
Better get back to Jiggles problem now.
