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Quote by Bloke2005
What he said - manly hug
Bloke, where's your gorgeous avatar gone honey? It's not the same seing some green marvel character under your name
C x
What.. that one?
Well that one is far far better than the green critter
but I'm sure you had another one that was as scrummy :DC x
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Maybe you would have better luck on one of the married and cheating sites, and i don't mean that in a moral way, i just feel if you go to sites where others are in the same situation as you you will have better luck finding someone, altho there will be some i think you will find it very hard to find a woman on here who is happy to meet you behind your wifes back as thats not what swinging is to many people.
Ehm well actually I think you will find a lot of women, who perhaps arnt goign to say it here, will see the fact that he is married as a bonus, its likely to make him a hell of a lot more discreete and reliable (not in all cases but a lot)
Just a thought based on experience
Quote by treasurechest
Ehm well actually I think you will find a lot of women, who perhaps arnt goign to say it here, will see the fact that he is married as a bonus, its likely to make him a hell of a lot more discreete and reliable (not in all cases but a lot)
Just a thought based on experience
So creeping up your path wearing a dirty raincoat and trilby isn't discreet enough
I could always put on a milkmans outfit
Quote by treasurechest
Maybe you would have better luck on one of the married and cheating sites, and i don't mean that in a moral way, i just feel if you go to sites where others are in the same situation as you you will have better luck finding someone, altho there will be some i think you will find it very hard to find a woman on here who is happy to meet you behind your wifes back as thats not what swinging is to many people.
Ehm well actually I think you will find a lot of women, who perhaps arnt goign to say it here, will see the fact that he is married as a bonus, its likely to make him a hell of a lot more discreete and reliable (not in all cases but a lot)
Just a thought based on experience
I'll say it, not a problem if he is married
.......though that doesn't mean I WILL shag him! 
I was more annoyed at his first post suggesting that people here are time wasters. Just because someone doesn't want to shag YOU it doesn't mean that they are time wasters. It just means that they are being selective.
Quote by berksbex
Maybe you would have better luck on one of the married and cheating sites, and i don't mean that in a moral way, i just feel if you go to sites where others are in the same situation as you you will have better luck finding someone, altho there will be some i think you will find it very hard to find a woman on here who is happy to meet you behind your wifes back as thats not what swinging is to many people.
Ehm well actually I think you will find a lot of women, who perhaps arnt goign to say it here, will see the fact that he is married as a bonus, its likely to make him a hell of a lot more discreete and reliable (not in all cases but a lot)
Just a thought based on experience
I'll say it, not a problem if he is married
.......though that doesn't mean I WILL shag him! I was more annoyed at his first post suggesting that people here are time wasters. Just because someone doesn't want to shag YOU it doesn't mean that they are time wasters. It just means that they are being selective.
Thank you, i was begining to think I was the only one who lived in the real world. Based on the photo ads I would wager that there are far more married/attached men visit this site than any other catagory of person.
I can see what you mean about how he may have been suggesting that peop0le are time wasters just because they dont want to shag him. But then again you have to give him some lee way, after all he is a man and a newbie!!
Phoenix
If you do dress up as a milkman, will you deliver your cream?
Good point fabio on the location of the post
I was ok with post untill i got down to the timewaster bit at the end
I just hate it when people say that
I feel they are labeling anybody that does not want to meet them as time wasters
It may be not what they ment to say but thats the way it comes over to me
Bi-Guy-Notts
I was ok with post untill i got down to the timewaster bit at the end
I just hate it when people say that
I feel they are labeling anybody that does not want to meet them as time wasters
It may be not what they ment to say but thats the way it comes over to me
Bi-Guy-Notts
Quote by meufun
yes im married and looking for xtra fun with other like minded cpls/females. But are there any genuine cpls or single married females on this site as all i find are time wasters.
I considered moving this to LMU but I don't think he is asking for a meet as such - he is announcing that he is married and asking if there are genuine females instead of just time wasters.
I then checked his IP details and found they are the same as youandus who joined the forum the day before he did (Saturday), who's one and only post is in Dogging under the heading of couple out tonight in the n herts area
Quote by youandus
couple out tonight in the n herts area. we would love to hear from others that will be out tonight looking for fun. also interested in safe locations to go.
So, now I'm suspicious!! Are you here as a couple or as a "Single" married man or what???? :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
Sex God
Perhaps he was anticipating that everyone would be beating a path to his door looking to be shagged, and what he really wants is to find a dogging partner?
Some people just seem to be incapable of being upfront and honest and tell ing it like it is.
:huh: :huh:
Some people just seem to be incapable of being upfront and honest and tell ing it like it is.
:huh: :huh:
Quote by treasurechest
Maybe you would have better luck on one of the married and cheating sites, and i don't mean that in a moral way, i just feel if you go to sites where others are in the same situation as you you will have better luck finding someone, altho there will be some i think you will find it very hard to find a woman on here who is happy to meet you behind your wifes back as thats not what swinging is to many people.
Ehm well actually I think you will find a lot of women, who perhaps arnt goign to say it here, will see the fact that he is married as a bonus, its likely to make him a hell of a lot more discreete and reliable (not in all cases but a lot)
Just a thought based on experience
I'll say it, not a problem if he is married
.......though that doesn't mean I WILL shag him! I was more annoyed at his first post suggesting that people here are time wasters. Just because someone doesn't want to shag YOU it doesn't mean that they are time wasters. It just means that they are being selective.
Thank you, i was begining to think I was the only one who lived in the real world. Based on the photo ads I would wager that there are far more married/attached men visit this site than any other catagory of person.
I can see what you mean about how he may have been suggesting that peop0le are time wasters just because they dont want to shag him. But then again you have to give him some lee way, after all he is a man and a newbie!!
Phoenix
If you do dress up as a milkman, will you deliver your cream?
i though i lived in the real world too :shock:
i guess we are just diffarent people, i can only say in my experiance, cause thats the only one i have :lol: single woman i have gotten to know are bothered if a guy is married and playing away, of course thats not to say all of them will but i just though he would have a better chance on a married and cheating site where everyone is in the same boat, i was actually trying to help him not condem him, and i don't really feel i do not live in the real world just cause i care about some womans feelings who sat at home with the kids while her hubbies shagging about
Quote by RedHotHere we go again . . . the old chestnut of beating up married men raises it's ugly head
No where in this guy's post does it say he's after a quick shag, merely an illicit one.
Do we HAVE to go through this EVERY time a married guy appears on here ffs? It's all become exceedingly boring to say the least :roll: :?
Tracy-Jayne
I agree with the above, I don't think we should be the ones to judge other people's morality for them..after all to some people, everything everyone does on this site is terribly immoral :shock:
My problem is when someone says something they aren't and expect people to believe a lie..that's what I find objectionable...at least the guy is being honest, so those who don't want to go near a married man can avoid him.
I also agree, personally i don't care if people cheat or not so long as it don't involve me, but saying that this is a open forum for people to express their opinions and views, if you post a thread, on any subject, people will comment and it you don't want that don't post, you can't open a thread then tell people what they are allowed to post in reply surely?
Quote by treasurechest
Maybe you would have better luck on one of the married and cheating sites, and i don't mean that in a moral way, i just feel if you go to sites where others are in the same situation as you you will have better luck finding someone, altho there will be some i think you will find it very hard to find a woman on here who is happy to meet you behind your wifes back as thats not what swinging is to many people.
Ehm well actually I think you will find a lot of women, who perhaps arnt goign to say it here, will see the fact that he is married as a bonus, its likely to make him a hell of a lot more discreete and reliable (not in all cases but a lot)
Just a thought based on experience
Totally agree on this one too. Single men (not all but some) often seem to be wanting more than just sex (speaking from experience a lot seem to want more of a long-term thing) married men just want fun and, as said above, usually know how to be discrete. I've never had a maried man hassle me, ring me in the middle of the night and/or send me dozens of unwanted texts/emails...I've had several single men do it and it drives me mad.
Quote by Fallen Angel
My reply was more to do with the fact that's it's his first post and it's a whinge.... rather than if he was married, single or engaged to a duck
Who's engaged to a duck????
Did I miss something????
Only someone who's quackers would get engaged to a duck ffs :eeek:
Brings a whole new meaning to being on the Web :giggle:
DD (Shall I get my coat now)
Quote by devondelight
My reply was more to do with the fact that's it's his first post and it's a whinge.... rather than if he was married, single or engaged to a duck
Who's engaged to a duck????
Did I miss something????
Only someone who's quackers would get engaged to a duck ffs :eeek:
Brings a whole new meaning to being on the Web :giggle:
DD (Shall I get my coat now)
Quack Quack
Sex God
Quote by amalthea
No where in this guy's post does it say he's after a quick shag, merely an illicit one.
Do we HAVE to go through this EVERY time a married guy appears on here ffs? It's all become exceedingly boring to say the least :roll: :?
Tracy-Jayne
I agree with the above, I don't think we should be the ones to judge other people's morality for them..after all to some people, everything everyone does on this site is terribly immoral :shock:
My problem is when someone says something they aren't and expect people to believe a lie..that's what I find objectionable...at least the guy is being honest, so those who don't want to go near a married man can avoid him.
Have you read Sarge's post?
Look a little further up this page.
Quote by meufun
yes im married and looking for xtra fun with other like minded cpls/females. But are there any genuine cpls or single married females on this site as all i find are time wasters.
Posted on 13th ......... joined the forum on 13th ????? ............ so how many minutes did it take you to decide we are all timewasters ?
Personally ......... I dont have a problem with you being married and I actually admire the honesty !
Good luck with what you are looking for .............. just remember we are here for fun and no-one like a misery arse !
Just my opinion !
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sex God
Quote by amalthea
No where in this guy's post does it say he's after a quick shag, merely an illicit one.
Do we HAVE to go through this EVERY time a married guy appears on here ffs? It's all become exceedingly boring to say the least :roll: :?
Tracy-Jayne
I agree with the above, I don't think we should be the ones to judge other people's morality for them..after all to some people, everything everyone does on this site is terribly immoral :shock:
My problem is when someone says something they aren't and expect people to believe a lie..that's what I find objectionable...at least the guy is being honest, so those who don't want to go near a married man can avoid him.
i could not agree with T-J and your good self more!
Quote by Frecklebird
Have you read Sarge's post?
Look a little further up this page.
well yes . . . . but then that post was at the end of page two, and so the earlier posts hinting at moral outrage were a bit previous to that?
still . . . . very naughty to try and play it both ways mr meufun. some clarification needed perhaps, but :welcome: to SH all the same?
neil x x x ;)
Sex God
Quote by neilinleeds
No where in this guy's post does it say he's after a quick shag, merely an illicit one.
Do we HAVE to go through this EVERY time a married guy appears on here ffs? It's all become exceedingly boring to say the least :roll: :?
Tracy-Jayne
I agree with the above, I don't think we should be the ones to judge other people's morality for them..after all to some people, everything everyone does on this site is terribly immoral :shock:
My problem is when someone says something they aren't and expect people to believe a lie..that's what I find objectionable...at least the guy is being honest, so those who don't want to go near a married man can avoid him.
i could not agree with T-J and your good self more!
Quote by Frecklebird
Have you read Sarge's post?
Look a little further up this page.
well yes . . . . but then that post was at the end of page two, and so the earlier posts hinting at moral outrage were a bit previous to that?
still . . . . very naughty to try and play it both ways mr meufun. some clarification needed perhaps, but :welcome: to SH all the same?
neil x x x ;)
Neil it was a comment in response to someone saying 'at least he's being honest'. From what Sarge said, it seems the man is not being honest at all. My comment was in no way a moral stance and I don't think Sarge's was either.
Silly of me to assume that people might read the whole thread.
I think he's created more fuss because of how he's posted and made comment about timewasters, rather than about his marital status.
Sex God
I'm changing sex - seems the problem is being a man (married or single - you get a bashing!) - takes all sorts dunnit?
Now - shall I have long blond hair? Shall I use Max Factor or Lancome - stockings or hold-ups? Ooohh decisions, decisions - I can't make up me mind - I'll just stick to being a bloke (sorry 2005! :wink: )
Now - shall I have long blond hair? Shall I use Max Factor or Lancome - stockings or hold-ups? Ooohh decisions, decisions - I can't make up me mind - I'll just stick to being a bloke (sorry 2005! :wink: )
Orgasminator
Leaving aside the 'first post was a whinge' aspect of the thread (already covered at great length, no more to add), there is one thing that's just struck me - although he admitted that he was married, nowhere did he state that he was playing away, that was merely the inference that some people chose to make (it may well be right, but that's another matter).
As regards placing an ad as a couple for dogging and 1-on-1 as a married single male, is it possible that his wife's into dogging with him and happy for him to meet people one-on-one? If that is the case then he could probably have explained himself a bit better, but being erudite is not as far as I'm aware a requirement for membership of SH.
As regards placing an ad as a couple for dogging and 1-on-1 as a married single male, is it possible that his wife's into dogging with him and happy for him to meet people one-on-one? If that is the case then he could probably have explained himself a bit better, but being erudite is not as far as I'm aware a requirement for membership of SH.
Quote by Deviated Prevert
Leaving aside the 'first post was a whinge' aspect of the thread (already covered at great length, no more to add), there is one thing that's just struck me - although he admitted that he was married, nowhere did he state that he was playing away, that was merely the inference that some people chose to make (it may well be right, but that's another matter).
As regards placing an ad as a couple for dogging and 1-on-1 as a married single male, is it possible that his wife's into dogging with him and happy for him to meet people one-on-one? If that is the case then he could probably have explained himself a bit better, but being erudite is not as far as I'm aware a requirement for membership of SH.
That is why I haven't yet banned him for having two accounts - I want to give him the chance to explain!!
:? :? :? Orgasminator
Quote by Sgt Bilko
That is why I haven't yet banned him for having two accounts - I want to give him the chance to explain!!
Fair enough
Orgasminator
glad i didn`t get all that s..t on my first post! i was only confused about a typo
Quote by Sgt Bilko
Leaving aside the 'first post was a whinge' aspect of the thread (already covered at great length, no more to add), there is one thing that's just struck me - although he admitted that he was married, nowhere did he state that he was playing away, that was merely the inference that some people chose to make (it may well be right, but that's another matter).
As regards placing an ad as a couple for dogging and 1-on-1 as a married single male, is it possible that his wife's into dogging with him and happy for him to meet people one-on-one? If that is the case then he could probably have explained himself a bit better, but being erudite is not as far as I'm aware a requirement for membership of SH.
That is why I haven't yet banned him for having two accounts - I want to give him the chance to explain!!
:? :? :?Im sorry, ive got to ask this, and it is a genuine question.
If a mod checks a posters details (cant recall the termonology, but you know what I Imean) is that not some form of verification?
