No it's not a new hollywood blockbuster but real life. I'm Male, 28 and a virgin. How many women here have wanted to be someone's first. The one single person in any woman or guys life that they'll never forget?
If you're bored with sex, or looking for something a bit different, or perhaps even a Virgin yourself. It might be an interesting experience.
I for one have gotten to the point, where I want to know if I'm really missing out on something or not. Perhaps someone else out there has too.
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The 28 year old virgin
Sex God
try putting this in the cafe n u might get answers
Casanova
There are loads of virgins on swinging sites. Men that just don't have the bottle to ask someone they know think that women that are highly sexed are more likely to go for it.
I've actually had this scenario and it was awful as the guy didn't tell me until the point that the condom kept making him go soft lol. I must have got through a bagfull trying with determination to keep it in the right frame of mind lol.
I probably lost a stone that night and as he had no idea of what he was meant to do I doubt either of us got what we wanted.
Oh and the worse bit was when he cried at the train station because he didn't want to leave me.
Ummm... nope, not something I wish to repeat.
I've actually had this scenario and it was awful as the guy didn't tell me until the point that the condom kept making him go soft lol. I must have got through a bagfull trying with determination to keep it in the right frame of mind lol.
I probably lost a stone that night and as he had no idea of what he was meant to do I doubt either of us got what we wanted.
Oh and the worse bit was when he cried at the train station because he didn't want to leave me.
Ummm... nope, not something I wish to repeat.
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No it's not a new hollywood blockbuster but real life. I'm Male, 28 and a virgin. How many women here have wanted to be someone's first. The one single person in any woman or guys life that they'll never forget?
If you're bored with sex, or looking for something a bit different, or perhaps even a Virgin yourself. It might be an interesting experience.
I for one have gotten to the point, where I want to know if I'm really missing out on something or not. Perhaps someone else out there has too.
If you put a picture up you may well get a meet, and hopefully break your cherry.
Sex God
Quote by kentswingers777
and hopefully break your cherry.
Or 'pop' it even
Sex God
Quote by Hibernian
please excuse me for being a little cynical here but......
There's at least one other virgin on SH and he's older than 28.
Sex God
Quote by Cupstar
No it's not a new hollywood blockbuster but real life. I'm Male, 28 and a virgin. How many women here have wanted to be someone's first. The one single person in any woman or guys life that they'll never forget?
If you're bored with sex, or looking for something a bit different, or perhaps even a Virgin yourself. It might be an interesting experience.
I for one have gotten to the point, where I want to know if I'm really missing out on something or not. Perhaps someone else out there has too.
:welcome: to the forum.
Hmmm... good question. I'm not entirely sure I would want the responsibility of being someone's first shag. I would be terribly conscious of wanting it to be 'perfect' for them and think that may ruin the moment for both.
I love the thought of never being forgotten though :twisted: Clearly I am far vainer than I thought!?!
Sex God
Quote by Cupstar
No it's not a new hollywood blockbuster but real life. I'm Male, 28 and a virgin. How many women here have wanted to be someone's first. The one single person in any woman or guys life that they'll never forget?
If you're bored with sex, or looking for something a bit different, or perhaps even a Virgin yourself. It might be an interesting experience.
I for one have gotten to the point, where I want to know if I'm really missing out on something or not. Perhaps someone else out there has too.
see.... this is what I don't get...... now being serious
Why would you want to lose your virginity this way?
wouldn't you want your first time to be special and be with someone really close to you???
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Why would you want to lose your virginity this way?
wouldn't you want your first time to be special and be with someone really close to you???
I'm guessing that the pressure to perform for someone he cared for might get in the way.
A quick shag might be an easier solution for some
I'm with Fabio here,
Why would you attempt to lose your virginity on a swinging site?
If all you want is one quick, easy shag just to get rid of it, I'd suggest any swinging site (where lets be honest single guys in general don't get that well treated by some) is more hassle, more work, more difficult and probably more expensive than simply going out on a Saturday night, buying a lady a few drinks and then hoping she puts out.
It's just as anonymous and meaningless.
As I said, call me cynical.
Why would you attempt to lose your virginity on a swinging site?
If all you want is one quick, easy shag just to get rid of it, I'd suggest any swinging site (where lets be honest single guys in general don't get that well treated by some) is more hassle, more work, more difficult and probably more expensive than simply going out on a Saturday night, buying a lady a few drinks and then hoping she puts out.
It's just as anonymous and meaningless.
As I said, call me cynical.
