So, you spot a profile you like the look of, or a forum post or a person on cam in chat.
How do you approach them?
Okay so if they are currently advertising for a meet and you fit their criteria, it's easy enough to respond. But what about those off-the-cuff spontaneous approaches? What are your tactics?
I must admit, I'm fond of the cheeky PM - and I've had a fair bit of success.
So, how do you make your approaches on here?
Nola x
I love sending a cheeky flirty PM to people - partly because I love receiving them myself so I know even if it doesn't lead to a meet, then it will probably have made them grin.
dont realy 'approach' folk as such, we have one bit of advice..if it isnt easy forget it.. i mean that in the nicest sense but when things get in the slightest bit hard work we have found best to step back and not bother, all the best swinging we have done has been simple to achieve. 'fancy a meet?' that shud do
Two cheeky PMs and a prospective meet planned for the next few weeks!
Yay... the approach works!
:giggle:
Um, I tell people that I fancy them. I also tell them (carefully) if I don't.
I have been blown out fairly recently in the same way and for the same reason that I have blown people out in the past and it actually felt fair and reasonable so I will carry that on too.
We usually stumble across people when we're having a laugh in the chatrooms.... then it kind of goes from there .... or when we're searching through ads and profiles we send a PM and that works for us most of the time.
People we wouldnt approach are the ones who appear to big themselves up a little too much (if you know what I mean)!! or people with no info on their profiles as they seem to be the ones who are not who they say they are.
Usually I start off by blatant flattery... "Liked the pics, interesting profile, be nicer if you could punctuate the occasional word so it doesn't look like you've fallen asleep on the keyboard"... You know friendly banter so they warm to you.
After that I list all my good points. This doesn't take very long (almost instantaneous in fact). Then I list Mrs R's good points, which takes ages.
I explain to them what appealed to us about them and then I list all the people on here we've shagged and how we rated them out of 10 on a series of different points :
Looks
Technique
Oral Technique
Hygiene
Do they swallow?
Do they pick up the bill?
Are pictures recent/of someone else?
Did they have anything worth stealing?
How many Orgasms per hour
Do they mind if I wipe my cock on the curtain?
and Snogging skills
And then we ask them to rate themselves on this list and send it back to us, on the understanding that if they score below a certain level, we will not get in contact with them at all and actively discourage anyone else from doing so too.
After that I flash them my cock on MSN, and once they've stopped pleading for us to come over immediately (usually for me to hoover the carpet while they try to shag Mrs R) we arrange a date somewhere exotic and erotic like the "Gala Bingo on the over 60's get in free night", which is sure to get the sexual juices really flowing. Sometimes I even take my own dibber.
After that we usually retire to an empty skip in the Town centre somewhere to enjoy a quick one and to ensure everyone has the correct set of dentures and incontinent pants to round off a great meet and avoid any unnecessary embarrassment.
we are laffing, just dont like to let on
then say gan on then :lol: 
