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The best way for a couple to start swinging ?

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Hello you informed and knowledgable lot,
I have a question to ask... and I thought I might as well do a quick poll on it as well..
What would you say was the best way for a couple to start swinging?
* Going to a Swinging Club
* Couple to Couple Met
* Going to a Swinging Party
* Dogging
There are good and bad points to all of theses, and I think I would just be stating the obvious if I went though and listed them all. I just want to know the thoughs of others here.... Though if I have missed an option you think I should of added please just message me and I will try and add
My personal choice would be going to a club, that way you can choice what you want to do while under no pressure, you can watch, joining or just go.
another option is start with a swing site and perhaps socials and munches is the way to go to see and chat to peeps to try to find out if swinging is for you
Quote by Sara_2006
another option is start with a swing site and perhaps socials and munches is the way to go to see and chat to peeps to try to find out if swinging is for you

Yes you are correct, I did not think of that one..
I don't think there is a best way to start swinging because every couple is different. Every person is different so what works for one isn't going to work for another.
The bestway is the way that suits the people involved confused
slooowly! ;)
started out as a single guy, so kinda different, but i'd agree socials and munches are a good place to start, or maybe a club if you just want to nose about a bit, see what goes on, and indulge the imagination with a bit of hardcore voyeurism or a touch of soft swing, or possibly even a social followed by a club visit with a few of the people you met earlier, just so everyone's nice and comfy.
all depends what you're happy with, and what you're looking for initially?
neil x x x ;)
Quote by Sara_2006
another option is start with a swing site and perhaps socials and munches is the way to go to see and chat to peeps to try to find out if swinging is for you

I would have said that too. At least you can suss others out first.
as others have pointed out there is no right or wrong to swinging. To any one new I would say it's best just to go in whatever way you feel is best for you.....and if that doesn't work, don't worry. smile
i think that you need to look at it from the mindset of "TRYING" swinging.... as opposed to "STARTING" swinging.
i would suggest one of the more popular clubs.
Use this site to gain a flavour o what to expect and give it a TRY....

I forgot it was a couple.... :doh: rolleyes :lol2:
Hope that helps. :thumbup:
:giggle:
Quote by AtomCom2001
Hello you informed and knowledgable lot,

That'll be me out of the equation then rolleyes
bolt
Quote by helnheaven
Hello you informed and knowledgable lot,

That'll be me out of the equation then rolleyes
bolt
That is sooooooooo not true!
passionkisssillyassionkiss::passionkiss:
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Hello you informed and knowledgable lot,

That'll be me out of the equation then rolleyes
bolt
That is sooooooooo not true!
passionkisssillyassionkiss::passionkiss:
So how do I start swinging then? :angel: