all part of that first meet with a new partner / couple or partners ...the tension the getting ready what to wear to impress the butterflys in the tummy then the journey to the venue / pub/ house, all part of the meet for me is all this ....starting with the shower right up to the facial meet,but what if you think its not going 100% right ?......cubes mentiond on another thread" couple or not " to meet up chat have a drink then maybe leave the car park and return in 30 mins if all turn up game on ? if not try again another time with someone else , this is to me an excellent way instead of just saying sorry not my type , maybe will try it on my next meet .but again for me it starts with just getting ready what about you .
steve x
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the butterflys the nervousness the getting ready the journey
sorry if i dont reply with the right topic, think its 2 questions/ ponders lol
regarding meets, over the years you try and find the best way forward.
i tend to not meet people who are not localish, this is due to the fact i like to be able tomeet them first just for a drink, Defo NO play that time.
it will start on line, either an ad or in chat room etc, i will insist on pics, and cam. sorry my attitude is if you are serious then £10 on a cam isnt so much to expect.
if we click then it will be as above meet just for a drink.
but yes when it comes to a meet it is exciting, i recently had one where by i was aiming to be ready for 10pm, he said he wouldthen be half hor early, well it didnt ruin the evening, but it runined my start,i enjoy getting relaxed,taking my time, i hate being rushed. so having half hour less to get ready threw me off.
still a amazing evening, but we had met before.
have i rambled ? sorry
lol
i do meet people who live further away, but only if they are coming to the area often so we can do the first drink meet.
xxx fem xx
regarding meets, over the years you try and find the best way forward.
i tend to not meet people who are not localish, this is due to the fact i like to be able tomeet them first just for a drink, Defo NO play that time.
it will start on line, either an ad or in chat room etc, i will insist on pics, and cam. sorry my attitude is if you are serious then £10 on a cam isnt so much to expect.
if we click then it will be as above meet just for a drink.
but yes when it comes to a meet it is exciting, i recently had one where by i was aiming to be ready for 10pm, he said he wouldthen be half hor early, well it didnt ruin the evening, but it runined my start,i enjoy getting relaxed,taking my time, i hate being rushed. so having half hour less to get ready threw me off.
still a amazing evening, but we had met before.
have i rambled ? sorry
lol
i do meet people who live further away, but only if they are coming to the area often so we can do the first drink meet.
xxx fem xx
