Thanks, all, for you heartfelt thoughts on this thread. Although Vix & I are still a bit torn up over the situation, just sharing the details with you all and getting so much support in return has helped enormously. :love: Thank you, ~Reese!
It sounds that this man is very insecure and jealous...maybe of your relationship with fact that he asked you last year if you were swingers and you answered him honestly when asked if you fancied his must have this idea in his head that if your a swinger than your not to be trusted around other men's wife' there is more to it, his wife may have the answer something that she brought up in a conversation with him about also not nice to be hit for no think he has let this build up for a year, what a twat !
I think the guy is green with envy maybe he wants to swing and his wife wont and he knows that you are a swinger maybe thats why hes so angry hes childish to say the least and very very green if you ask me
Quote by Reese Thanks, all, for you heartfelt thoughts on this thread. Although Vix & I are still a bit torn up over the situation, just sharing the details with you all and getting so much support in return has helped enormously. :love: Thank you, ~Reese!
Don't let the bastard get you down. You are more of a man than he will ever be. Hugs and kisses to you both, think you need them right now. Gill x
Hi Reese, Sorry you had to go through this, if you wonder why I do martial arts, it is because of situations like this. I have been attacked (I would say got into a fight, but I am non physical bloke and didn't hit anyone so attacked seems a better description) a number of times. Finally I got sick of it so that is why I do Aikido. You not alone there mate, the nicer or more tolerant person seems to attract the arseholes of this world. I would say based on your description this guy has some serious problems. Which is no excuse, and you should prosecute this to the end as it may be the only way to get him the help he needs to sort himself out. Maybe you should even consider the police. Your reaction was one of great courage, it is easy to dive in, so much harder to not lower yourself and walk away. Also unless you are 100% sure you know what you doing who knows if the guy was armed? You walked away, he now has no justification for what he did. I know it little consolation (it what the Police said to me last time I was attacked, it was easier to prosecute as I hadn't hit back) but you have the high ground mate. If you do consider martial arts as a way to cope like I did, then Aikido is a nice non aggressive art that falls neatly into my world view. You may find it a good way to restore confidence, plus if anyone tried it again you can do nasty, painful, but ultimately harmless things to their wrist to persuade them not to try it again.
My boss, in reply to R's email today, said that I should sit down with the poor unfortunate partner of the antagonist, when I go to work next. Thankfully, it is the fem of the couple that is my colleague, not 'him'. I think I'll go tomorrow. I do not think I will want to discuss this, though. I am not generally one for crying and I really do not want to do so at work. If I leave it any longer than tomorrow to go in, I'll feel even more awkward. It's not the fact that they know I am a swinger... my friends there have always known. I think of all of my colleagues as friends. I really would rather this whole thing just dropped, at work, and I am grateful for having this space to sound off in, so that I do not have to take it with me, wherever I should go.
I don't see how sitting down with 'His' partner will resolve a case of assault? Still think you guys should consider the Police but understand wanting to get away and just have this gone. Been there myself (a few times sadly) At the least 'he' should be banned from all future work functions, your work should put your safety at the top of the priority list. They seem to be taking this far too lightly.
Apologies if posting a bit more forcefully than normal, just I get upset when friends get given a hard time. We may have met once but you were one great couple and the last I would want to see hurt in this way.
Reese, I think you owe this bloke an apology. Apologise for being so sloshed last xmas and speaking out of turn, and infact with sober judgment you can positively say that you don't find his wife attractive at all, in fact you find her rather far off from attractive at all. The guys a dickhead. If it wasn't your swinging lifestyle he found offensive it would have been Vix's pics or something or other. He's not worth the negative energy. Ignore.
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