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The First Meeting!
I can't even remember who my first meet off here was with 
but we had been swinging for a few years b4 we found this site.
I do remember the first meet tho was terrable, my advice is if your a newbie never meet another newbie :?
We meet as a couple with a couple neither of us had swung b4 it was one of the worse nights of my life, started off ok but as the night drew on it got worse as it was obvious looking back everyone wanted to just strip off and get on with it but noone quite new how to make the first move :? i never said anything incase they didn't like me so was waiting for them to say something, my hubby never said owt incase i didn't want to so he was waiting for me to say summat, they never said anything cause they wasn't sure if we liked them so was waiting for us to make the first move......you get the picture, so nothing happened all night :cry: i know its easy to say you should have just been open and asked but as new people its very hard to know what to expect and nerves just get the better of you, now days i would just ask outright but we have been swinging for about 5 years now so you do get better with time
i think in this game u need at least one experienced person/couple.
but we had been swinging for a few years b4 we found this site.
I do remember the first meet tho was terrable, my advice is if your a newbie never meet another newbie :?
We meet as a couple with a couple neither of us had swung b4 it was one of the worse nights of my life, started off ok but as the night drew on it got worse as it was obvious looking back everyone wanted to just strip off and get on with it but noone quite new how to make the first move :? i never said anything incase they didn't like me so was waiting for them to say something, my hubby never said owt incase i didn't want to so he was waiting for me to say summat, they never said anything cause they wasn't sure if we liked them so was waiting for us to make the first move......you get the picture, so nothing happened all night :cry: i know its easy to say you should have just been open and asked but as new people its very hard to know what to expect and nerves just get the better of you, now days i would just ask outright but we have been swinging for about 5 years now so you do get better with time
i think in this game u need at least one experienced person/couple.
NaughtyNymph: I do remember the first meet tho was terrable, my advice is if your a newbie never meet another newbie
Hmmm..... thats a bit of a fight aint it? Im a newbie, and Im not doing very well
But Im sure if I go to clubs or meet some of the proz from here they'll be fun and welcoming
Hmmm..... thats a bit of a fight aint it? Im a newbie, and Im not doing very well
But Im sure if I go to clubs or meet some of the proz from here they'll be fun and welcoming
What i ment by that is if your new either single or couple and meeting other new people then the chancers are everyone will be nervous as its all your first time and the chancers are you may end up like us all wondering whos going to make the first move. So your a single guy right? imagin you meet a couple for their first time also at their home, at what point would you say.....so are we playing then or what? lol its all very well sitting here and saying...oh well u know when it feel right, or u can tell if someones interested but sitting on here and being there is not the same thing
What i ment by that is if your new either single or couple and meeting other new people then the chancers are everyone will be nervous as its all your first time and the chancers are you may end up like us all wondering whos going to make the first move. So your a single guy right? imagin you meet a couple for their first time also at their home, at what point would you say.....so are we playing then or what? lol its all very well sitting here and saying...oh well u know when it feel right, or u can tell if someones interested but sitting on here and being there is not the same thing
Hmmmmmm
I should use as my guide
thats if theres vacancy available for an apprentice
Hmmmmmm
I should use as my guide
thats if theres vacancy available for an apprentice 