The longest you have gone without sex & coping with it

24 Oct 2004

we done since tuesday nite just gone and its crap
i ripped (well mandy's rough sex )ripped me little bit of skin joining me flesh to me flesh at the end of me old man mad

:fuckinghell: so i cant do owt and its killing her having no sex worse than me lol

:notes: to self dont be so rough eh :lol:

24 Oct 2004

i have been without for 9 months at a time..... smile

:) :)
i suppose with most thing you miss it like mad at the beginning but after a while you cope and it doesn't become such an issue........
makes you value it when you are getting it though......
lol

:lol: :lol:
sean xxxxx

24 Oct 2004

In all honesty, I never miss sex - I can take it or leave it. But I miss kisses and cuddles like crazy.

24 Oct 2004

I went four years without ......... but too busy trying to get my life in order to notice confused

Then I found swinging .... wink

At the moment all i can say is 'Thank god for Ann Summers' !! Its a good job ive got rechargeable batteries :grin:
The thing i miss most of all tho is cuddles .... specially at bed time :cry:
Lucy kiss

24 Oct 2004

Quote by Marya
It's now been more than 2 weeks since my recent 'drought' began. Not quite long enough for me to start climbing the walls. Not sure if that the 2 1/2 years of celibacy has made me 'stronger' or if I've lost my mojo

Damn and I just quit swinging!!!!

24 Oct 2004

Quote by Flirty Fruitcake
What was that recent US film,didn't see it,where the guy has to go 40 days and nights without sex for some sort of bet.I thought that was so patronising to men and women.
In fact it can be hard to go for 40 hours without since the last 40 months.

Flirty, the point of the film was he couldn't masterbate or seek any form of relief at all... and lots of people were trying very hard to get him excited....
...It was actually a very funny film about the frustrations of a man on the edge of a sexual tidalwave...
Back to the subject in hand, I think I must be some kind of sexual camel... I can go without it and not be at all bothered... but when I am getting it, I do like to get some more...! biggrin

24 Oct 2004

Quote by roger743
In all honesty, I never miss sex - I can take it or leave it. But I miss kisses and cuddles like crazy.

without wishing to look all sloppy and stuff, yup, that's the one mate! redface

cuddling up to someone in bed far more important than shagging!
n x x x ;)

24 Oct 2004

Four years for me........... didn't even think about it to be honest. Yep the bit I missed by cuddles & kisses :P
xanaisx

24 Oct 2004

Quote by daveandmandywigan
we done since tuesday nite just gone and its crap
i ripped (well mandy's rough sex )ripped me little bit of skin joining me flesh to me flesh at the end of me old man
:fuckinghell: so i cant do owt and its killing her having no sex worse than me :notes: to self dont be so rough eh :lol:

Hurts like a feck dont it :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: a tair on the underside foreskin is bad enough but....
I thnk the most painfull time in my life (more than broken bones) was when my first girlfriend and I were at it like bunnys.... when she came on we carried on and left the tampon in (we were young!)... fecking friction burns on the old man... not nice :cry: :cry: :cry:

25 Oct 2004

The longest i've ever been (part from before loosing my virginity) is about 2 years....
I wasn't ready to move on, and didn't want to feel I was using someone just to have sex! (I've never even done that in a swinging situation!)
After a bit the less sex you get the less you miss it! The only time (for me) it feels like I will never get layed again is after a long term relationship break up... not sure if that says something about the relationship, or if its a natural respones? confused

You can have a crap relationship with good sex, a good relationship with crap sex, one day I will get the two together in the long term lol

25 Oct 2004

my current stretch is about 7 weeks with out it ( so hoefully that will quash the "tart" rummor that is going round about me!)
but the longs ive been (since losing the V thingy be bob) is about 2 years
but in that time i bonded with my rigth hand! (super glue incedent!)
JGL

25 Oct 2004

WHAT IS SEX ?????
:D
Fred (aka medic1)

25 Oct 2004

Quote by JGL
( so hoefully that will quash the "tart" rummor that is going round about me!)
JGL

So you're not a tart...erm...just a hoe then? :P

25 Oct 2004

25 Oct 2004

Quote by Randy Photographer
Lost my viriginity at 38 ! Is that a record ?
But I'm making up for lost time now.

Damn. That's got me beat by about 12 years... :shock: :shock:

25 Oct 2004

Quote by Libra-Love
( so hoefully that will quash the "tart" rummor that is going round about me!)
JGL

So you're not a tart...erm...just a hoe then? :P
I am a sweet innocnet Fellow who know no wrong
(sorry if you have jsut spat ya tea over ya Keyboard)
JGL

25 Oct 2004

Thanks, chicken!
I was celibate voluntarily - it certainly wasn't 'cos I was short of offers. I just got to the point where I felt so messed about by the men I'd known, I'd started to think all men were like that.
I hadn't 'discovered' swinging at that point so I thought the only alternative to a relationship was one-night stands and that wasn't something I wanted.
It's now been more than 2 weeks since my recent 'drought' began. Not quite long enough for me to start climbing the walls. Not sure if that the 2 1/2 years of celibacy has made me 'stronger' or if I've lost my mojo sad

Funny that i've been without about the same amount of time, If you do get to the wall climbing stage Marya I'de be over in a Jiffy or Durex whatever you preferance, lol. No harm in a faliliar face to relieve the tention is there? I'de be happy to oblige anyway. Think about it babe there are no strings on me!

25 Oct 2004

Quote by WibblyWobbly
Three years...

Beat ya... beat ya... Five years... and what I find so very, very weird is that I cannot now imagine how I did that... It's all mind set really... confused

The biggest gift that GT has bestowed on me with his love is self-confidence... still not brill but a heck of a lot better than a year or so ago. If anything ever (please God forbid) went wrong between GT and me then I'd be out there like a shot looking for sex... :twisted: smile

Hey its approaching 20 years for me ....... I live in hope biggrin

25 Oct 2004

2 weeks couldnt last any longer even after having kids!!!

25 Oct 2004

hi guys first post on here,
i,ve been without now for 4 1/2 years and still hooo
i,ve climbed the walls and crawled across the ceiling and down the otherside, mad

just resinged myself to the fact it just ain't gona happen, sad

but i'm here now hopefully things will change!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! wink