Well I do have limits on age.
I'm no spring chicken myself, but I flatly refuse and have no desire to have sex with someone who is as young as my eldest child or with someone who is the same age as my Dad. It just does'nt feel right so I would'nt do it.
Thats just me though. Each to their own I say!
Love
FIRE xxx
i wouldnt say im ageist as the is a big age difference between me and dek 23 years in total we get on and we just work although a lot of questions were asked when we first got together, however i have turned some down just due to their ages as i dont honestly think i could bring myself to sleep with some one over 60 (which has been asked and then went on to say i was a timewaster when i said sorry but i think you are a little to old for what im looking for) every one has their preferences even if they dont say so on there profile another problem we come up against is that they think i am to young that does not bother me as i hold highest respect for the polite people how say so and there need to be no more questions asked
Whilst we're both more than able to hold a conversation with people younger or older than ourselves and we think that people of all ages have things to contribute, it is only natural to feel most comfortable with people who might have similar life experiences.
It's easier to socialise with someone and find the more interesting and surprising things you might have in common if you can first talk about the obvious: college/university life, renting, buying your first house, your second house, getting married, children, parents, careers...
This is as true of someone you've got swinging in common with as it is someone that you work with. It's easier to relax with someone that you feel equal to and equality of age is the easiest starting point for common ground. Also, not many people can entirely relax with a swinger who is similar in age to their parents or children, as people have commented in other posts.
It's possible that people who seek people much younger or older as life partners are looking to be cared for or to have a role as a carer. Perhaps swingers that enjoy a wide age gap in sexual partners find something kinky in the difference.
Those who don't mind are just better at finding things to connect them with other people or else they don't particulary identify with their own age group. Of course some people just enjoy variety and diversity.
Holly
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sometimes (sometimes!!!!????) I feel as Im getting old fast!
so Hurry hurry hurry...before its tooo late!
~I'll go now, should have kept mouth shut on an otherwise good thread!~
LP
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