The Other Woman

28 Nov 2008

Ok so here is a dilemma I am facing right now !!!!
What do you do when an old flame says "I cant stop myself wanting you". We have always had great sex and are good friends but he always has a partner when we meet up again.
Is is right being the other woman ????
What do you do when neither of you keep your hands off each other whether there is someone else involved or not ????
HELP WANTED lol

Kinks xxxxxx

28 Nov 2008

Sorry can't help. You need to make the decision yourself and not offload the responsibility onto us.
Just do whatever your conscience will allow you to do, you're both adults and this is a relatively free country.

28 Nov 2008

Quote by Peanut
Sorry can't help. You need to make the decision yourself and not offload the responsibility onto us.
Just do whatever your conscience will allow you to do, you're both adults and this is a relatively free country.

No-one was offloading Peanut but thanks confused

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Kinks xxxxx

28 Nov 2008

Quote by Kinky_k_1
Sorry can't help. You need to make the decision yourself and not offload the responsibility onto us.
Just do whatever your conscience will allow you to do, you're both adults and this is a relatively free country.

No-one was offloading Peanut but thanks confused

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Kinks xxxxx
I think the "HELP WANTED" at the end sort of implied that.

28 Nov 2008

If you think it is right then it is! If you have doubts then its most probably wrong :thumbup:
Oh and tread rather carefully, It usually ends in someone getting hurt

28 Nov 2008

OK i will go out on a limb and say.......... Stay away from anything emotional and physical if you can until, the person you are involved with sorts things out in a public way with his partner.

28 Nov 2008

Quote by Peanut
Sorry can't help. You need to make the decision yourself and not offload the responsibility onto us.
Just do whatever your conscience will allow you to do, you're both adults and this is a relatively free country.

No-one was offloading Peanut but thanks confused

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Kinks xxxxx
I think the "HELP WANTED" at the end sort of implied that.
We shall agree to disagree on the fine art of The Use of English I think !!!!

28 Nov 2008

Hmmm... for the girl with no morals if it were me, I'd leave well enough alone. He's with someone else. If he wanted to be with me then he should end his current relationship. It's the adult thing to do. I'm not here to get in between two other people. Apart from anything else, I deserve to be more than second best!
So do you. wink

But what you do is entirely your decision. Go with your gut instinct. Trust it because it's right every time! :thumbup:

28 Nov 2008

Quote by TanKinky
If you think it is right then it is! If you have doubts then its most probably wrong :thumbup:
Oh and tread rather carefully, It usually ends in someone getting hurt

It isnt someone who knows about this place so I think I might be safe but thank youuuuuuuuuu
Kinks xxxxxxx

28 Nov 2008

I think the answer is .........
Do you 2 give a shit if you hurt someone else?
If NO ....... then carry on
If YES .......... then stop
For what it's worth ........ swinging isn't about cheating in my opinion .......... its about NOT cheating!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

28 Nov 2008

Quote by blonde
I think the answer is .........
Do you 2 give a shit if you hurt someone else?
If NO ....... then carry on
If YES .......... then stop
For what it's worth ........ swinging isn't about cheating in my opinion .......... its about NOT cheating!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

well said

28 Nov 2008

Quote by blonde

For what it's worth ........ swinging isn't about cheating in my opinion .......... its about NOT cheating!

Unless you're losing at strip monopoly in which case it's everyone for themselves!

28 Nov 2008

Quote by Peanut

For what it's worth ........ swinging isn't about cheating in my opinion .......... its about NOT cheating!

Unless you're losing at strip monopoly in which case it's everyone for themselves!
I never loose, I can spell Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis :smug:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

28 Nov 2008

Quote by blonde

For what it's worth ........ swinging isn't about cheating in my opinion .......... its about NOT cheating!

Unless you're losing at strip monopoly in which case it's everyone for themselves!
I never loose, I can spell Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis :smug:
Samxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
yet you can't spell sam ......... rolleyes

28 Nov 2008

Quote by markz

Samxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

yet you can't spell sam ......... rolleyes

Sod off :giggle:

Sam (space) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

28 Nov 2008

Quote by blonde

Samxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

yet you can't spell sam ......... rolleyes

Sod off :giggle:

Sam (space) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Outer?

28 Nov 2008

Quote by blonde

For what it's worth ........ swinging isn't about cheating in my opinion .......... its about NOT cheating!

Unless you're losing at strip monopoly in which case it's everyone for themselves!
I never loose, I can spell Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis :smug:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Yes, I always find that word is useful in a game of Monopoly ;-)
bolt

28 Nov 2008

Quote by TanKinky
Outer?

Oi ......... Oi .......... I resemble that remark!!! :giggle:
Sam (Outer space) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

28 Nov 2008

Quote by blonde
Outer?

Oi ......... Oi .......... I resemble that remark!!! :giggle:
Sam (Outer space) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
:laughabove:

28 Nov 2008

Quote by Kinky_k_1
Ok so here is a dilemma I am facing right now !!!!
What do you do when an old flame says "I cant stop myself wanting you". We have always had great sex and are good friends but he always has a partner when we meet up again.
Is is right being the other woman ????
What do you do when neither of you keep your hands off each other whether there is someone else involved or not ????
HELP WANTED
Kinks xxxxxx

Seems to me that if you're not the other woman then someone else will be. I say steer clear.

29 Nov 2008

Quote by markz

For what it's worth ........ swinging isn't about cheating in my opinion .......... its about NOT cheating!

Unless you're losing at strip monopoly in which case it's everyone for themselves!
I never loose, I can spell Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis :smug:
Samxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
yet you can't spell sam ......... rolleyes

Or differentiate betwixt Monopoly and Scrabble rolleyes

:twisted:

29 Nov 2008

Quote by Peanut

For what it's worth ........ swinging isn't about cheating in my opinion .......... its about NOT cheating!

Unless you're losing at strip monopoly in which case it's everyone for themselves!
I never loose, I can spell Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis :smug:
Samxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
yet you can't spell sam ......... rolleyes

Or differentiate betwixt Monopoly and Scrabble rolleyes

:twisted:
BOLLOX .......... I meant scrabble didnt I? :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

29 Nov 2008

Quote by Kinky_k_1
Ok so here is a dilemma I am facing right now !!!!
What do you do when an old flame says "I cant stop myself wanting you". We have always had great sex and are good friends but he always has a partner when we meet up again.
Is is right being the other woman ????
What do you do when neither of you keep your hands off each other whether there is someone else involved or not ????
HELP WANTED
Kinks xxxxxx

Ends in tears for someone Kinky from my experience.... but I wasn't the other woman, I was the partner! Or maybe I was the other woman and didn't realise it? Who cares dunno

Only you can decide what's right for you and yours :smile:
If no-one else involved depends what you want from it and what's its based on? If its just sex/lust - enjoy it for what it is until you/both want/need to move on. If feelings involved - that's a different kettle fish altogether if one sided.
Whatever you do Kinky - keep smiling and lovely to see you back kiss

29 Nov 2008

Quote by blonde

For what it's worth ........ swinging isn't about cheating in my opinion .......... its about NOT cheating!

Unless you're losing at strip monopoly in which case it's everyone for themselves!
I never loose, I can spell Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis :smug:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sam you Blonde.... what part of strip monopoly makes you spell? its strip scrabble you're thinking of.
In my opinion he needs to be open to his partner,, not try to have an affair on the side.

29 Nov 2008

Quote by blonde

For what it's worth ........ swinging isn't about cheating in my opinion .......... its about NOT cheating!

Unless you're losing at strip monopoly in which case it's everyone for themselves!
I never loose, I can spell Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis :smug:
Samxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
yet you can't spell sam ......... rolleyes

Or differentiate betwixt Monopoly and Scrabble rolleyes

:twisted:
BOLLOX .......... I meant scrabble didnt I? :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
how do you play monopoly or scrabble and lose clothes confused

29 Nov 2008

Quote by blonde
I think the answer is .........
Do you 2 give a shit if you hurt someone else?
If NO ....... then carry on
If YES .......... then stop
For what it's worth ........ swinging isn't about cheating in my opinion .......... its about NOT cheating!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Well said O blondeness!

29 Nov 2008

A very personal dilemma here. And only you can know how you feel about it. But for me I would be very concerned about the future. Viz : will you be happy to be the other woman or will you want to be THE woman at some point? What about him? Will his feelings change and want more from you?
The current situation may well be safe and under control but feelings change.
Oh, and don't underestimate the investigative powers of a suspicious woman. If she thinks he is playing away she could well find out where and how (including this site).
My personal take - I wouldn't touch it with a barge-pole. Cheating is never good and what you get from it is, by definition, tainted.

29 Nov 2008

Quote by Kinky_k_1
Ok so here is a dilemma I am facing right now !!!!
What do you do when an old flame says "I cant stop myself wanting you". We have always had great sex and are good friends but he always has a partner when we meet up again.
Is is right being the other woman ????
What do you do when neither of you keep your hands off each other whether there is someone else involved or not ????
HELP WANTED
Kinks xxxxxx

you are not liking the answers you have been given so you are being dismissive of them... which is highly unfair since you were asking loads of questions...
my answer to this, well lets play a little bit of devils advocate....
without getting all moralistic, how would you feel if you were the other woman in this? because everything does have consequences