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The $64m question - Ladies, what attracts you to a guy's profile??
I guess this is a question more for the ladies as I believe they are more complex!
But if any guys or couples want to give their perspective, please feel free.
So we know close up cock shots and generic 'hello...nice tits...you are local...wanna meet?' is a non-starter...so what does get you interested?
When is cheeky crossing over into cheesy? How important are a guy's photos and what do you want to see? Do you want a detailed erotic story?
I have tried to make my profile stand out...perhaps it is sending out the totally wrong vibe. Anyway, I am hoping that myself and others can you this as an area to get feedback, particularly newbies like me who have just joined. If anyone wants to take a look at my profile and give any advice, it'd be really appreciated. And I hope any newbies will find this thread useful too in receiving constructive criticism.
Note to mods: would you consider making this thread a sticky?
Quote by 50ShadesOfBlue
Note to mods: would you consider making this thread a sticky?

The short answer would be no re the sticky and Id say the best way to be Successful on here is honesty.
Big word for a swinging site but it worked for me.
Well now, as Woohoo said really. In my own humble opinion, and based on my somewhat limited experience, nothing consistently impresses a woman more than honesty.
Well I told her that I love her
...now her profile has been deleted dunno:violin:
Never tell a woman that you love her unless you specify in which way you love her - it can only lead to ruin
I always say....if I had a 12" cock, I might have a few pictures of it on my profile !!! However as I haven't then I best use my other attribute a sense of humour. I think my pictures and video show me for what I am...a daft sod...!!
Quote by Katniss
Never tell a woman that you love her unless you specify in which way you love her - it can only lead to ruin

would that be financial Ruin bolt:bolt:
Quote by deancannock
I always say....if I had a 12" cock, I might have a few pictures of it on my profile !!! However as I haven't then I best use my other attribute a sense of humour. I think my pictures and video show me for what I am...a daft sod...!!

im off to check your vid and pics now bolt
Quote by Katniss
I always say....if I had a 12" cock, I might have a few pictures of it on my profile !!! However as I haven't then I best use my other attribute a sense of humour. I think my pictures and video show me for what I am...a daft sod...!!

im off to check your vid and pics now bolt
Hope they showed I am a daft sod !!! smile
As they said ^^^ honesty is always the best policy. Failing that a sense of humour is the next best thing. Congratulations on making me laugh, reading a profile rarely raises a smile but yours had me giggling away. Although admitting you are 'vanilla' on a swinging site might not be the best phrase ( I know honesty is the best policy) but I understood where you were coming from :-).
So just keep doing what you're doing. xxx
Quote by scubamum
As they said ^^^ honesty is always the best policy. Failing that a sense of humour is the next best thing. Congratulations on making me laugh, reading a profile rarely raises a smile but yours had me giggling away. xxx

Fs don't read mines then scuba wink
Quote by deancannock
I always say....if I had a 12" cock, I might have a few pictures of it on my profile !!! However as I haven't then I best use my other attribute a sense of humour. I think my pictures and video show me for what I am...a daft sod...!!

im off to check your vid and pics now bolt
Hope they showed I am a daft sod !!! smile
im saying nothing other than *YAYYY KERMIT*
Quote by Katniss
I always say....if I had a 12" cock, I might have a few pictures of it on my profile !!! However as I haven't then I best use my other attribute a sense of humour. I think my pictures and video show me for what I am...a daft sod...!!

im off to check your vid and pics now bolt
OK, so I had to have a look!
That's certainly quite a monster in your pants, and you've got to be a bit daft to go bollock naked in the snow!!!
Quote by scubamum
As they said ^^^ honesty is always the best policy. Failing that a sense of humour is the next best thing. Congratulations on making me laugh, reading a profile rarely raises a smile but yours had me giggling away. Although admitting you are 'vanilla' on a swinging site might not be the best phrase ( I know honesty is the best policy) but I understood where you were coming from :-).
So just keep doing what you're doing. xxx

LOL this honesty policy is being pushed to me with some zeal. Do I come across as dishonest?? Lol
Thanks for the feedback though folks. I have tried to explain what I meant by 'vanilla' so hopefully people will understand and not be put off by the term.
I may have to ramp up my campaign and make more chatroom cam appearances. Though that could just as easily have an adverse affect. A case of trial and error I think.
If I am being totally honest...I don't look half bad. I want to meet with attractive people who can also steal my attention with their wit and charm. Not a lot to ask for really. :cool: