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Quote by winchwench
winking is fun rolleyes

You want me don't you?! :roll:
only if you promise not to gag :roll:
Tall order :roll:
:thumbup:
I think I like you lady! kiss
Quote by Dirtygirlie

DG- I'm sure I can think of suitable compensation for all that hard work you'll be putting in, come round to mine after the weeks up and i'll massage you're weary typing fingers etc etc.... :twisted:

Just my fingers??? :shock:
When I have to put up with and reply to winks from the likes of Markz??!
I think you'll need to do better than my fingers! :rascal:
That's what the etc etc part was for! Of course, it would start with the fingers, but it would be the muscles in the forearm that would suffer too, and of course your neck, shoulders and upper back for that poor posture from sitting at the computer all day, not to mention what that sitting might do to the buttock region.... :twisted:
Quote by mazandden

DG- I'm sure I can think of suitable compensation for all that hard work you'll be putting in, come round to mine after the weeks up and i'll massage you're weary typing fingers etc etc.... :twisted:

Just my fingers??? :shock:
When I have to put up with and reply to winks from the likes of Markz??!
I think you'll need to do better than my fingers! :rascal:
That's what the etc etc part was for! Of course, it would start with the fingers, but it would be the muscles in the forearm that would suffer too, and of course your neck, shoulders and upper back for that poor posture from sitting at the computer all day, not to mention what that sitting might do to the buttock region.... :twisted:
Yes... I realise what the "etc etc" bit was for... I just wanted to see it written down! :giggle:
Quote by mazandden
What's this about people not being able to read messages if they are not paid up members? How do I know who is paid up and who isn't? Or is it pot-luck?

You don't- that's the problem, you don't know if they 1. pay or
2. are free members,
ie either
1. are lazy or
2. Have no choice
Although someone did mention that they cant read your message if you reply to them anyway?no idea if thats true either.
That seems totally crazy! What's the point in writing to anyone if they are unable to reply to you? None at all!
Presumably you must be a paid member to be able to send a message - and that should and could allow the recipient a reply - otherwise what's the point in writing any messages? And what's the point in having a message system? confused :?
Other sites have reply-paid messaging systems, why not here? :?
Quote by Philfuller
That seems totally crazy! What's the point in writing to anyone if they are unable to reply to you? None at all!

Because then they get all excited at getting a response to their profile/advert (in theory) and then have to pay up to be able to reply.
Quote by Kiss
That seems totally crazy! What's the point in writing to anyone if they are unable to reply to you? None at all!

Because then they get all excited at getting a response to their profile/advert (in theory) and then have to pay up to be able to reply.
I see your point, but is it really correct? It seems so different from the stated ethos of the site!
I see no point in writing to anyone, or trying to initiate a contact, if I cannot be sure that I can be sent a reply.
I would rather know who the non-payers are, so that I can avoid wasting time on them.
Quote by Philfuller
That seems totally crazy! What's the point in writing to anyone if they are unable to reply to you? None at all!

Because then they get all excited at getting a response to their profile/advert (in theory) and then have to pay up to be able to reply.
I see your point, but is it really correct? It seems so different from the stated ethos of the site!
I see no point in writing to anyone, or trying to initiate a contact, if I cannot be sure that I can be sent a reply.
I would rather know who the non-payers are, so that I can avoid wasting time on them.
Ethos or no ethos this is still a business at the end of the day.
But it could be argued that a lot of people will want to see what kind of response they get before parting with their money.
Quote by Dirtygirlie
I reckon everyone should respond to all their winks this week n see what happens- go on, I dare ya!!
maz xx

Okay chick...
I'll take up your challenge... starting now! A week of responding to all my winks... I'll update you as the week goes on!
But... if they're all a nightmare and nothing happens... wotcha gonna offer as compensation for my trouble?! :rascal:
DGxx
i already do, it normally goes something like
whats the point winking asking me to look at your profile when there's nothing on it
rolleyes
Earthy xx
Wink Challenge. rolleyes
i wasn't going to join in but the sun is shining and I'm in a good mood.
I've had two winkers this morning and replied to both. It's bog standard copy and paste shite - to be fair, if they can't be arsed to think up something original then neither can I.
It goes like this:
As you may have seen on my profile, I don't acknowledge winks. In fact, I usually put the winker on my ignore list for ignoring what i said about winks! lol
However, on the Forum there is a kind of "wink challenge" whereby those of us who usually ignore them are attempting to reply to them - for one week only!
So! This is my reply!
Thankyou for reading my profile. As you will have seen, I don't meet people that i don't know but I have looked at your profile, as requested.
I am often in the NE Room if you want to chat but I have no intentions of meeting so I'd rather be honest about that than waste your time.
thankyou x

Sorry, that's about as nice as I get without saying "sod off ya lazy winker!".
Let's see what happens eh?
about 2 or 3 years ago i was on another swinging site and had a partner ( yes i know hard to belive rolleyes )
anyway
if she got " wink's" and the person was not what we where looking for she would say " no thank's" but if they kept " winking" she then aranged a meet somewhere far away from said person and didnt show
( normaly single guy's :roll: )
when they got back and PMed her she would point out that he should read the profile and he would have known . then she would ask if he had lernt his leson confused
ok not nice but she had a point and it did work :?
Quote by Marya_Northeast
Wink Challenge. rolleyes
i wasn't going to join in but the sun is shining and I'm in a good mood.
I've had two winkers this morning and replied to both. It's bog standard copy and paste shite - to be fair, if they can't be arsed to think up something original then neither can I.
It goes like this:

As you may have seen on my profile, I don't acknowledge winks. In fact, I usually put the winker on my ignore list for ignoring what i said about winks! lol
However, on the Forum there is a kind of "wink challenge" whereby those of us who usually ignore them are attempting to reply to them - for one week only!
So! This is my reply!
Thankyou for reading my profile. As you will have seen, I don't meet people that i don't know but I have looked at your profile, as requested.
I am often in the NE Room if you want to chat but I have no intentions of meeting so I'd rather be honest about that than waste your time.
thankyou x

Sorry, that's about as nice as I get without saying "sod off ya lazy winker!".
Let's see what happens eh?
Marya... I'm impressed!! So much so that I've done the same!! Although no winks today so that's a good start!! :giggle:
Quote by Dirtygirlie's auto wink response service
Well thank you for your wink... had you read my profile you would have seen that I never respond to winkers. wink
However, it seems that it's your lucky day since there's a wink challenge on the forums this week and since the prize is worth having, :rascal: I've taken up the challenge. :lol:
So I'm afraid this is the only reason you have a response to your wink but if you'd like to get to know me a little better then you should take on my challenge and write me a PM with wit and humour so that it's gonna make me feel that I HAVE to respond! biggrin
If you can't be bothered doing that then I hope you find what you're looking for and thank you for taking the time to actually read my profile! :D
DGxx

Sun is shining here too! :D
Sorry ladies, but I have all these winks to use in one day! redface
Won't do it again I promise ;)
I like it!
It's sort of like a wink 'investigation' so we get to hear success/failure stories at the end of it- ie was it really worth your while responding?!
Typically, we haven't had ANY winks so far- doh!
maz xx
I have the opposite problem, I never seem to get any winks only PMs! lol
I haven't had a wink since yesterday. :giggle:
Quote by BiWelshMinx
Sorry ladies, but I have all these winks to use in one day! redface
Won't do it again I promise ;)

lol
Where did you send mine to then?! :giggle:
let the winking commence rolleyes
if you got an hour to spare then wink dirtygirlie it'll take you that long to read the reply biggrin
Quote by markz
if you got an hour to spare then wink dirtygirlie it'll take you that long to read the reply biggrin

Thank you for confirming you got a reply! wink
markz ya git rolleyes
Earthy xx
It would be nice to get a wink for the novelty factor....but I'm not sure if I have the auto response thingy on....and not sure how to turn it off! :shock:
lol
Thought I'd better join in more - I'm all winked out! lol
You better reply, ya bastids!
Still no winks......:cry:
Mind you I've only just switched off the Auto responder lol
Quote by Dlep
Still no winks......:cry:
Mind you I've only just switched off the Auto responder lol

There you go wink
Louise xx
Well I have received 2 winks in 2 days, not saying who from though. wink
Quote by louise_and_joe
Still no winks......:cry:
Mind you I've only just switched off the Auto responder lol

There you go wink
Louise xx
Thank you biggrin
:lol:
well, half of you have replied, but half of you naughty people still have the autoresponder on- get it sorted and get wink-replying!!
lol
m xx
Quote by mazandden
well, half of you have replied, but half of you naughty people still have the autoresponder on- get it sorted and get wink-replying!!
lol
m xx

Yes you definitely must be talking about me. lol
Autoresponder switched off!
wink