When entering 'Swingworld' do you also enter into a different personality? Do you become the person you maybe really want to be, or do you remain the same as you do ostensibly in real life?
Regarding J and I we are what we say on the packet no more no less. Not a lot different, well not as yet anyway.
A good question. Am I the same personality reacting to different situations or different personalities in different situations.
I believe I am one person in different situations. The question is, which situation would I like to be in? Swinging, work is a duty. I must say that some private time with W is very enjoyable, but swinging to and fro, up and down, back and fourth....
I’d say that although I’m the same person, different situations bring out different facets of personality. Many people have commented that swingers tend to be more open, and its refreshing to be able to talk openly to friends here about aspects of your own sexuality, or fantasies. I don't have to worry so much “what will they think of me”, so in that respect I change, but in general I try to treat people as I would like to be treated myself.
this season, I shall mostly be a bit of a c*nt
lp
I'm in a mood... can you tell?
thing is... I can't quite decide whether its a good mood, bad mood... whatever mood...hmmm...
it's the moon I tells ya...a moon mood.
apologies in advance
lp
Well, I would like to say what you see is what you get! But I dont think its quite as simple as that, online or in real life.....we all have a private part that we dont want others to know about.
People here only know what I choose to let them see or know etc. Very few have seen or know the real me.....even then, I have parts that are hidden! An those that have know me years an years in person, who think they know me......dont! Cos Im complex!
So is this the real me? Your just seeing a snippet of what Im about...
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Have you heard of Johari's Window - I did this at Uni and it was quite enlightening!
Here's mine, peeps can go put words in what they associate me with...
You can create your own for friends to add to it!
But some days I just can't remember if I'm the good twin or the evil one lol
Some people on the scene prefer to keep things as inpersonal and anoymous as possible, that's fine if that is for them, good luck to them.
Personally, we just like to be ourselves. We will talk to anyone, generally speaking, at a club as long as their polite. We just try and be ourselves and have a good time. We like the social side of the scene and making friends with people is something we like to do, not everyones bowl of goldfish, we know, but that's us.
So generally we don't really change anything (apart from what we wear, lol )
