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The Really Simple Meet Rules

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If you are going to meet at a private address, note the address, record it, and under no circumstances meet anywhere else on that occasion.
always confirm the meet via a telephone number, by text, or if a woman is expected to be there, by speaking to her personally.
If you are going to be collected by car, get the registration number, and as with the address, record it, and don't ever get in a car which isn't the same one.
Just thought of one other...If you are inviting someone to your home, and live somewhere where people around you wouldn't notice a visitor, then meet in a cafe or a bar and take the person home from there if you still fancy it....anyone genuine won't have a problem with any of this.
Otherwise the usual, and published on site, safety rules always apply.
keep safe, be happy, and have fun.
Maybe I worry too much, but I like you guys, so just hang with me.
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Can I just add to the safety advice, as I like being heard wink
Always trust your instincts along with any safety advice. If something feels wrong then the chance is that it normally is.
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Can I just add to the safety advice, as I like being heard wink
Always trust your instincts along with any safety advice. If something feels wrong then the chance is that it normally is.

This is probably the best advice of all!
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Maybe I worry too much

Clearly far more than I do Skinny :lol2:
While I do think this is good advice for those who feel vulnerable meeting a stranger for sex, I really dont feel the need to follow it.
I usually get a number and exchange some texts before a meet, but thats more a check to see they are not timewasters rather than for personal security.
In my opinion everyone is much safer meeting even relative newcomers to this site than someone from a nightclub on a boozy night out. Swingers might find themselves in some wierd and uncomfortable circumstances, but the chances of actual physical danger are probably less than elsewhere :thumbup:
One that I was reminded of the other day:
"If it seems to be good to be true..... it probably is!" :thumbup:
We have a friend that we call before and after smile