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The red pill or the blue pill......

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Has anyone else experienced a come down after swinging?
Im having great difficulty swapping between 'the real world' and the surreal world of swinging and it takes a good few days to make the adjustment back to reality.
In all fairness it could have something to do with the fact that its such a buzz and exiting and makes the rest of your life seem a little more dull than it was before.
Anyway it would be nice to know Im not the only one who thinks this.
Well you could be right about the come down after the swing,but the fact that it gives you such a buzz is going to make "normal"life seem a little less exciting,but hey its well worth it biggrin wink :D :wink:
Personally it just makes me look forward to the next time more and more :thrilled:
Clare.
We have experianced the same feeling for a number of years now and it is difficult to perform everyday chores and tasks after a good weekend as they all seem as dull as dishwater. It generally takes us a few days to get back into the groove with work and stuff but after that we settle back into doing the things that are not as exciting but need to be done.
It does of course then work the opposite way around and after a period of quite every day stuff, we do experiance intense excitment and anticipation during the build up to another meet or club night.
If i get a real buzz from playing i find it very hard to come down afterwards.I just crave more and more can take me a good few days to get back to im getting bored doing more things.
I wonder if this an addiction to the buzz of swinging or the sex ?
Anybody got any theories on this ?
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I wonder if this an addiction to the buzz of swinging or the sex ?
Anybody got any theories on this ?

I personally think it is the buzz of the swing,the whole thrill of it,as some of us are having sex anyway,i think its the whole situation that gives you the buzz that you just don't get in normal everyday life :cry:
I'm still not quite in reality after the weekend, that's why I'm still sitting on my settee when I should be at work :shock:
wow..must be an incredible experience...
biggrin I agree with what has been said. We get really excited about a meet or a munch especially if we get to spend some time in a hotel with or without extra company lol
Afterwards going around like "chashire cats" lol and sly whispers to each other or the wink of an eye, makes it fun thanks love peppsxxx cool :P
Its nice to know there are other people who have had the same feelings of post swinging depression (or PSD) as it shall be known from this point onwards.
The only question now is is there a cure?
And if not why not maybe some hormon replacement therapy or something!
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The only question now is is there a cure?

Hair of the dog?
Ok.. Seems like I have to volunteer again ..
PSD is a terrible affliction that affects all too many women, ironically this particular disorder has a very simple cure and without regard for my self I hereby volunteer to administer it.
I would be willing to offer myself to couples or single females to help them gently rehabilitate themselves back into "Normality". Leaving you with that fresh just "Swung" feeling to help you through the week.
This purely selfless act I gladly offer to cease the suffering of PSD. No sacrifice is too great to ease their condition.
Have the best of days
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The only question now is is there a cure?

Hair of the dog?
Hair of the dog is such a great idea,or whole swinging weekends perhaps??
Only problem maybe that you'll be too knackered for work on monday morning wink biggrin :wink: :D
Hair of the dog definately lol
The only cure for Post Swinging Blues is arranging the next swinging session. The trouble is, very soon sex addiction takes over. Take it from one who knows confused :? :?
sex addiction?
pah.. i dont believe in that.. trust me..... i once went 12 seconds without getting horny!
so there!
:P biggrin
So according to you guys I either get pissed or just dont stop swinging! Although they both sound enticing I need something a little simpler to ease my way through the week, Ive taken to watching episodes of 24 back to back (escapism at its best).
Anyway keep those ideas flowing.