I would like a swinger's honest opinion as to why they would get married if they still want to put it about?
It seems to defeat the whole purpose of marriage
Having your cake and eating it
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I would like a swinger's honest opinion as to why they would get married if they still want to put it about?
It seems to defeat the whole purpose of marriage
Having your cake and eating it
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(MAN), will you have this woman as your lawful wedded wife, to live together in matrimony? Will you love her, honor her, comfort her, and keep her in sickness and in health; forsaking all others, be true to her as long as you both shall live? (I will).
(WOMAN), will you have this man as your lawful wedded husband, to live together in the matrimony? Will you love him, honor him, comfort him, and keep him in sickness and in health; forsaking all others, be true to him as long as you both shall live? (I will).
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(MAN), will you have this woman as your lawful wedded wife, to live together in matrimony? Will you love her, honor her, comfort her, and keep her in sickness and in health; forsaking all others, be true to her as long as you both shall live? (I will).
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(MAN), will you have this woman as your lawful wedded wife, to live together in matrimony? Will you love her, honor her, comfort her, and keep her in sickness and in health; forsaking all others, be true to her as long as you both shall live? (I will).
(WOMAN), will you have this man as your lawful wedded husband, to live together in the matrimony? Will you love him, honor him, comfort him, and keep him in sickness and in health; forsaking all others, be true to him as long as you both shall live? (I will).
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I also have a million dollar question regarding my first post, if the other partner suddenly decided they were not happy with you taking part in this activity would you stop? or would this be the end of the marriage?
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My apologies for the negative impact my first post has had, I should have stressed in the chatroom that i already made the post before joining the chatroom, if it comes across as ignorant pls forgive me.
As I stated in the chatroom I joined because I found the threads I read to be full of warm friendly individuals, I am finding it difficult to reconcile how such warm friendly individuals would be at ease sleeping with others outside of the sanctity of marriage.
I do not wish to cause offence with my questions, I am just trying to understand the moral implications of why it's done and how individual swingers justify it considering many are married and many did undertake these vow:
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(MAN), will you have this woman as your lawful wedded wife, to live together in matrimony? Will you love her, honor her, comfort her, and keep her in sickness and in health; forsaking all others, be true to her as long as you both shall live? (I will).
(WOMAN), will you have this man as your lawful wedded husband, to live together in the matrimony? Will you love him, honor him, comfort him, and keep him in sickness and in health; forsaking all others, be true to him as long as you both shall live? (I will).
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Sorry Tigris - but the swinging couples I have met have had some of the most stable and open marriages I have come across. Probably something to do with the honesty that HAS to go hand in hand with swinging
Ahem- sorry - but for the first time since I joined this forum someone really did piss me off!!!