~The sometimes elusive orgasm

19 Jul 2007

:cry:
Sometimes it's really difficult to get over the 'edge' and the feeling just sorts of builds up and builds up and then, just when I'm ready to enjoy the wave of joy, it just fizzles out! :cry:
Other times it just builds up and builds up and goes straight over into the waves of joy. redface

Any way of ensuring it always goes into waves of joy and doesn't disappear into a fizzle???
confused

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19 Jul 2007

Guaranteed method - try going without for four weeks and 3 days (not that Im counting) and I can guarantee you will go over the edge as soon as you find out where the edge is (I think Im going to need a map to find it) lol

19 Jul 2007

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Guaranteed method - try going without for four weeks and 3 days (not that Im counting) and I can guarantee you will go over the edge as soon as you find out where the edge is (I think Im going to need a map to find it)

Thank you for your interest!
rolleyes

Just jump - it'll save the heartache all round. :lol: :lol:
Now, any real advice??? Rabbit doesn't help... :cry: :cry:

19 Jul 2007

Maybe your orgasm is with Missy's herd of hugs??
lol

19 Jul 2007

Quote by Sarah
Maybe your orgasm is with Missy's herd of hugs??

You are also going to be in sooooo much trouble for that :jagsatwork:

19 Jul 2007

Quote by Mrs C
Don't stress over it - just take it as it comes :thumbup:

Quote by I

Quote by Mrs C
Stressing over it makes it even more elusive, so just assume it ain't gonna happen and it will be a bonus when it does :jagsatwork:

Quote by I
Chuck the rabbit in the bin and buy an Eroscillator :happy:

19 Jul 2007

C'mere?
Oooh fuck! bolt

19 Jul 2007

I get this often!.. normally when we've gone a wee while in between and the immense build up keeps building up and won't let me release, it's so frustrating but yet so damn good at the same time and when it comes.. boy oh boy! cool

My advice?.. patience - may take a while, you may have to help yourself but you'll get there.

19 Jul 2007

Quote by westerross
C'mere?
Oooh fuck!

It's just as well I can't attend the gathering this weekend!!
rolleyes

19 Jul 2007

Quote by cu3b4ll
Don't stress over it - just take it as it comes :thumbup:

Quote by I

Quote by Mrs C
Stressing over it makes it even more elusive, so just assume it ain't gonna happen and it will be a bonus when it does :jagsatwork:

Quote by I
Chuck the rabbit in the bin and buy an Eroscillator :happy:

Flippin heck - it's a toothbrush! I'm a tad worried about where it actually goes.. can you recommend it???
redface

19 Jul 2007

Quote by Sarah
Maybe your orgasm is with Missy's herd of hugs??

:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
Sensible suggestions please.
A herd of hugs deserves a proper response, not a half hearted fizzle!
:lol: :lol:

19 Jul 2007

Quote by jaymar
I get this often!.. normally when we've gone a wee while in between and the immense build up keeps building up and won't let me release, it's so frustrating but yet so damn good at the same time and when it comes.. boy oh boy!
My advice?.. patience - may take a while, you may have to help yourself but you'll get there.

Thanks... empathy at last!!
I want to get back on that wave of joy - I call it a chocolate orgasm!
lol

:lol:

19 Jul 2007

Quote by Jags
Flippin heck - it's a toothbrush! I'm a tad worried about where it actually goes.. can you recommend it???

If you used that on your teeth it would probably chip them :shock:
It goes where it feels good and yes, we can highly recommend it. It might be a tad expensive, but we've had ours for around four years now and it's still going as strong as the day we bought it. It's powerful (three speeds), quiet, and no more batteries! wink

19 Jul 2007

Quote by Jags
It's just as well I can't attend the gathering this weekend!!

Ah, now that is a shame! kiss

I'll take some photos and send 'em to you.
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19 Jul 2007

I get this if I hold back too long and seem to go past the point of no return. Either mentally or physically take a break and start the build up again?
Perhaps you are in too much control, too tired, not getting the right kind of stimulus or just got things on your mind?
However another way of looking at it may be to see it as a high plateau and not the pointiest peak? The view from the top is just as good but goes on a lot longer?

20 Jul 2007

I find distraction- by anything does it to me. If im alone, but tired.......With a partner- but concentrating on pleasuring them.....etc etc. Embarrassment is also a major issue. Having been a Catholic schoolgirl I still get really embarrassed when I orgasm- sad & pathetic but true!
However, in the last week I think I've started to overcome that problem. I also had a bit of an epiphany when I was really close to the edge, but playing with my partner trying to please him. I found myself stuck on that plateau-until I said "Right, Im going to relinquish control, lay back & just enjoy what youre doing to me..." He replied "Good!" And within seconds.....Kaboom!

20 Jul 2007

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Maybe your orgasm is with Missy's herd of hugs??

You are also going to be in sooooo much trouble for that :jagsatwork:
It wouldn't be the first time!! :giggle: