Well they say they come in 3's and after a lot of thought I am also off into the internet ether. I know I am not as a prolific a poster or long standing member as the other names to leave, but I will still miss you lot.
Without realizing it being here has helped me through a tough time that I didn't even realise I was in until it ended. I may not have swung but my open discussions and a wonderful munch helped me open up about who I am. Talking through that discovery with my wife has helped our understanding of each other. That has helped end a rough patch in our time together.
So why am I going, it is a hard call, I need to spend more time with my family and less on the pc. Also I find myself unable to contemplate swinging myself, and I worry that I might end up tempted. I find that I feel a fraud as this is a swingers site and I don’t want to be a ‘hanger’. However I am not preaching to you lovely guys and gals, we all have our paths in life, long may you enjoy yours.
So with a final word of thanks to Mark for the site, the mods for keeping it legal, and all you lovely peeps out there for chatting to me, I bid you all a farewell, or should I say au revoir.
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The Third Goodbye...
Casanova
See, see, see I knew there would be another!! 
It always happens in threes
Sorry to see you go tallnhairy
Cheers Dan
It always happens in threes
Sorry to see you go tallnhairy
Cheers Dan
Sex God
goodbye babes
Can fully understand your reasons for leaving us
I wish you all the best in the future, you will be missed, take care and good luck
Love n Hugs
Vicky xxx
Can fully understand your reasons for leaving us
I wish you all the best in the future, you will be missed, take care and good luck
Love n Hugs
Vicky xxx
Oh nooooooooo :cry: :cry: :cry:
TnH I do understand your reasons and am happy for you that you have been able to sort things out. Please, never think that you were a fraud for being on here, you've been nothing but honest. Many people here don't swing, that's what makes this place unique. Along with the genuine swingers there are many people who just have that broadminded outlook on life and are happy just to be friends with likeminded people.
I have thoroughly enjoyed your posts, you've given me a good giggle, for that I thank you.
All the very best to you and your family.
TnH I do understand your reasons and am happy for you that you have been able to sort things out. Please, never think that you were a fraud for being on here, you've been nothing but honest. Many people here don't swing, that's what makes this place unique. Along with the genuine swingers there are many people who just have that broadminded outlook on life and are happy just to be friends with likeminded people.
I have thoroughly enjoyed your posts, you've given me a good giggle, for that I thank you.
All the very best to you and your family.
Warming the Bed
i wish u luck and happiness and u willbe missed
Just wanted to post a thanks for all the nice responses. I have read through the why is the cafe here thread from one end to the other and it's got me thinking.
For now I am sticking by my call to take a break from SH, so I can spend more time with my family for a while.
However you lot are a great bunch, I even just had my first offer of a meet (to watch) which with a heavy heart I had to turn down, at least for now. But the offer was really appreciated, it was from someone I respect, who I knew made it for all the right reasons, and even putting themselves out a little for me. They know who they are and I hope they understand my reason for backing away at this time...
So guys and gals keep this place going, this melting pot of people and personalities. I will be back to check on you now and then, and any SH member who needs a coffee in my neck of the woods would be welcome to pop by.
In the future when life settles down again I will make an effort to return. I may not be a swinger (I love my wife to bits), but I hope I am good company, you lot certainly are. So if it is ok with Sarge I will hang on to my GFZ pass...
until we meet again friends...
For now I am sticking by my call to take a break from SH, so I can spend more time with my family for a while.
However you lot are a great bunch, I even just had my first offer of a meet (to watch) which with a heavy heart I had to turn down, at least for now. But the offer was really appreciated, it was from someone I respect, who I knew made it for all the right reasons, and even putting themselves out a little for me. They know who they are and I hope they understand my reason for backing away at this time...
So guys and gals keep this place going, this melting pot of people and personalities. I will be back to check on you now and then, and any SH member who needs a coffee in my neck of the woods would be welcome to pop by.
In the future when life settles down again I will make an effort to return. I may not be a swinger (I love my wife to bits), but I hope I am good company, you lot certainly are. So if it is ok with Sarge I will hang on to my GFZ pass...
until we meet again friends...
