I just don’t get the relevance of alcoholics, smokers, bacon butty eaters and what ever other group anyone wishes to bring into this debate. (edit - and now even 4x4 drivers)
How much smokers and alcoholics cost the NHS is a different issue to the one at hand (unless you are writing a new agenda).
It has already been established that smokers would have to quit before being granted the privilege of receiving IVF.
I would hope (with the little faith I have in the powers that be) if they were aware someone was an alcoholic, they would be refused IVF also. I would support regular alcohol screening as part of the pre-selection process.
IVF is not treating an illness. It may be sought as the result of an illness, but, the inability or low chance of having a baby is not an illness, disease (chronic or acute), it’s not a broken bone or dislocated joint, it’s not a tumour or a haemorrhage, it’s not a stroke or a seizure… hopefully you get the drift by now of what I am saying here.
People everyday are denied life saving drugs and operations because they are too expensive/the patient lives in the wrong part of the country/ the hospital department has over spent. What rights do these people have? (Answer – none!). So I fail to see where the rights of two methadone addicts come into this equation in relation to having a baby (and that is not just because they are ‘druggies’ ,as people keep saying, or because of what some of you may believe my opinion is of methadone addicts - so please don’t assume you know my opinions on that).
IVF is a scientific advancement – something that can be done.
Laser eye correction is that too – but you don’t get that as standard NHS treatment do you?
FFS, how many people can’t even get a dentist in this country?
It is not a right to have a baby and it is not a right to have IVF – it is an expensive gift! And I would expect the people offering that gift (at the expense of someone somewhere else in the NHS who can’t have their treatment because of budget issues) to be highly selective about who they give it to.
Make smokers quit…
Make methadone addicts quit… (which is not a fairy tale – enough of them do manage it to prove it can be done)
Make drinkers quit…
Make people jump through hoops of fire with a fucking angry lion on the other side (if it is going to benefit the wellbeing of the child they want to have)
If we (society) have the choice to help to make a life, surely we have to put the wellbeing of that life first above anything else. And if that means choosing a different womb to start it in – then so be it.
If people want a baby so bad and we (as a society) can offer them a chance that nature denied them – is it really that much to ask them to do detox so the baby doesn't have to?
Just type "NHS Fails" into google and you will be able to read page after page about each particular group of patients the NHS IS failing to give adequate support to at this moment in time.
A year ago, we called on Social Services to help us with a matter before it came to the stage where it was beyond help. They did not have the resources to help us.
As with Kiss, I had to make a point on this one.
This whole issue rasied sums why in my viewpoint the World will enter some sort of War within the next 20years.
What is most important the rights of the many against the rights of the person ?
This question created what is now known as:
The Target Driven Society.
The creator & Nobel Winner Prof. John Nash belived that all Humans are naturally selfish. So the only way to stop society / civilisation (if you want to call it this?, that's another question..) going to HELL was to force people to reach targets.
These targets would force the selfish into working for the common good? Small sections of a larger manchine, if you like.
Then if you pass the target or percentage then you get a reward. As ALL Humans are selfish then they work for the reward that they get.
Ohh by the way Prof. John Nash was going MAD at the time of his ideas about the nature of the Human Race.
He even began to think that any Man wearing a Red Tie was a Soviet Spy.
Now Prof. John Nash is better & is trying to stop the Targets that we all work towrds..!!
Prof. John Nash has said that unless this is stoped it will end Humanity. Either by people going Mad or Ultimate War Nuclear style.
Humans are not targets.
This is why things like this happen. People for themselves. It was seen as gospel that Humans where selfish.. so Humans HAVE become this.
Life becoming Art.
We are doomed to fail this is life.
I just want it to be quick & painless. No me even seeing the Mushroom Cloud just me eating my Toast then... nothing.
Ohh Liverpool need to win the League before this so that Manchester United or that lot Chelsea will never get another shot.
I'll be in Heaven well Happy, laughing at the lot of them for ever & ever.
"Who was the last & final club to win the league..come on you all know this one..come on".
I'd be like that forever & forver & forever. All the 'good' Manchester United, Arsenal, Chelsea & Everton Fans would get the first one way to HELL.
So what side are you on?
The Collective or Yourself?
Am still not sure.. it's one of them. Seeing a person getting beaten up the street. Do you step-in or do you walk on by?