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hey guy
i require your help please
we organise the BBW BASHES and are having the next one in feb and it just happens to fall on my 40th birthday :bounce: now as its a special one i wanted to come up with a good theme but i'm really struggling so does anyone out there have any good ideas?
the ideal ideas are ones where peeps don't have to spend a fortune but still can join in if they fancy
all suggetions are gratefully recieved
cheers guys
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Yes. Hold a competition to see who can reach size 40 by the time you are 40.
Don't appreciate that post Duncan, what gives buddy?

Bouncy - how about a literary theme? Everyone who wants to participate could write a short poem or ditty, preferably smutty and or funny, type thing anonymously, Put the entries in a box when they come to the 'do'. Then you spend a few moments during evening reading them and picking out a few you like and read them out over the PA system choosing a winner who has to declare themselves the author and presenting a small token prize to them.
I reckon it could be a laugh smile
Hi there, loads of different things to consider, but if you want to make sure you don't narrow your options, and up the costs for your revellers, then might I suggest a bygone days theme. So rather than being 50's 60's, or whatever and so on, anything from the past would do and most people would be able to come up with something to wear quite easily. It could be from your own teenage getout or even pre war, as far back as you like, there've been many distinctive looks since the 60's even. Good luck with whatever you decide.
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Bouncy,
What was the number 1 record those 40 years ago on your birthday ?
Perhaps the group/artist might suggest a theme for the 'bash' ?
Alternatively, have a look at a newspaper archive and scan the top stories of the day 40yrs ago and any pictures, to see whether something there might lend itself to a theme ?
It's a thought, though being at Chams it's the the idea rather than people going OTT on a costume that'll need to be skimpy for 'club' use lol
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Do you have a favourite colour you could ask people to wear? Purple or Pink? Most people have some coloured undies or a nightie confused
Ask the men to wear dickie bows?
French maids, including the men lol I think a men in nice a little apron and nothing else might be fun.
duncan not quite sure how to take that to be frank maybe best i let it slide
ty everyone else though getting some good suggestions coming through some need to be addapted to be more chams approriate but definately giving me some fabulous ideas
keep um coming
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Our local young farmers organise a lot of charity events, the latest up-coming one is bit of a do, which I hope to get tickets to is...
"Hookers and Haymakers"
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Bouncy,
What was the number 1 record those 40 years ago on your birthday ?

All well and good but when I was born Rolf Harris' 'Two little boys' was number one in the charts. Might have attracted some undesirable attention if I had used that as a theme for my 40th lol
Mind you Jewls 40 in January. Might use it as a theme for her party. Clive Dunn "Grandad" was number one.
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"Hookers and Haymakers"

Just about sums up my experience when I was a member.
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Rocky horror always goes down well, and it must be about 40 too.
A masked ball.
70's party , lots of hippies and flower power should be easy to do.
Burlesque, we all have a corset .
Bow tie and Tiara's.
Uniforms party.

Hugs - You just want ta see me in stockings again!! :happy:
Well as its you birthday in Feb that makes you either Aquarius or Pisces so a suggestion would be to theme it based on your star sign IE Aquarius would be an air based theme (or Uranus lol ) - pilots, air hostess etc while Pisces being water would include swimwear, snorkels, water wings or even rubber suits etc.
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oooooooo liking the rocky horror idea hhhmmmmm just how many guys would enter into the spirit of it though will run it by a few n see
Had rocky horror at cov last yr and it was fab, lots of guys were in drag , also a couple of "Rocky's "
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Had rocky horror at cov last yr and it was fab, lots of guys were in drag , also a couple of "Rocky's "

I wasn't dressed in drag, it was a cunning disguise which was later proved to work as you didn't recognise me at Chams lol
Hospitals---not that I have any kind of fetish you understand.
Si if it wasn't drag, what do you call a wig, lipstick , stockings & heels ?
In my defence, it was hard to recognise you out of that outfit lol
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oooooooo liking the rocky horror idea hhhmmmmm just how many guys would enter into the spirit of it though will run it by a few n see

We did a rocky horror theme for Wigan Munch and seemed to have more guys dressed up than girls lol It was probably our best turn out for fancy dress, followed by the 'Uniforms' theme, which also went down very well (think it was all those naughty nurses, firemen and the odd police man) wink
That reminds me you could have a PVC theme.
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That reminds me you could have a PVC theme.

Oh god yes :twisted: Now that is a brilliant idea :twisted:
a friend just went to a party at the weekend where you went as something begining with the first letter of your name
ie: corrie was a can can girl, rebecca was a rubics cube, frank was a flasher
some of the costumes were amazing
not sure if this would work for chams though
Was just going to say re alphabet letters. My daughter went to a leaving do for a girl with the name beginning with A. They all dressed as something beginning with that letter...............maybe B for bouncy??
Depends what date this one is babes as to whether we can make it.
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Apey just mentioned a suggestion that isn't half bad...............
Naughty and 40
he said people could let their imaginations run awaywith them, with it just being a 'naughty' theme it can be as cheap or as expensive as you want to make it.
Which ever theme you go with we are looking forward to it as we missed the last one so hopefully make it a good one x x x x x x x x