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Ok so we have extras, I post in the forum, and spend a lot of time in the chatrooms mainly on cam and am quite well known in there ... we play on cam and I am very encouraging to the guys on cam. We have nothing to hide. I am always friendly and will chat to anyone no matter who they are, what they look like or what their sexual orientation is. I enjoy having a laugh and never ignore anyone!!
We have ads on, lots of pics on our profile and face pics available on request. Our profile is full and describes exactly what we are and are not looking for (and we dont want anything out of the ordinary). We have never stood anyone up or let anyone down and I dont think we are that bad looking or overly choosy.
So why the hell do we never get messages from couples anymore?????
Constructive feedback would be great guys .... thanks xx
Your not alone.
But you are too far away from us.
We gave up looking for couples to be honest, as we were either not compatible with the ones who contacted us( which was rare (, or just did not have many contact us at all.
I am sure this happens to quite a lot of people?
Cant help with your question but loving the pics sillyhwoar:
Sorry redface
I'll get back in my corner now .....
Renewed our ads for the first time in donkeys last night and today not a sausage not even a single bloke lol and normally get lots of them when the ad is renewed.
We do everything you do except the chat stuff. Never ever managed a successful meet from this site. I find the looking to boring and to long winded.
I thought your profile and pics were just fine - perhaps that's what the problem is - who knows?
Plim :sad:
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I thought your profile and pics were just fine -
Plim :sad:

After extensive research I can confirm that :thumbup:
I guess its just down to plain old mathematics....
If two singles were to eye each other up and down, there is a 50 / 50 chance that they would each say yes. So with them both having to say yes to get any further it is only a 25% chance of success.
With two couples, assuming that they all must be comfortable with each other (no sympathy shags here lol) The odds come crashing down. You are now talking about a % chance of hitting things off (Yes I worked it out loon)
Now that is based purely on a statistical yes / no response from the people concerned. Once you add location, age, sexual preference, can they accomodate, do they smoke etc....
The odds will come crashing down even further.
You could then get real anal and work out how many couples live within a certain distance from you and then try and find this magical % of them and see if they have logged in recently.
After all that, I bet you tell me that I'm not really helping lol
Thanks for all your comments .... so why do we all bother??
We used to get loads of messages from couples and have met a few people but it all seems to have gone a bit slow .... in fact, any slower we'd be going backwards!!
Its all very well sitting back and waiting for people to contact you...but have you considered that, that may also be what everyone else is doing?
A bit like fishing, the more effort you put in the more you catch, although its not a given, luck plays a big role as well wink