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OK, I’ve been working up to posting this. Many of you will think ‘Oh here he is again that Tune Essence, the shadowy figure on the Café. Don’t know him too well – what’s he on about now!?’
Well those of you who remember me from a way back may recall that I was on here with Mrs TE’s blessing but that she wasn’t interested in joining in. I was hopeful that she would log on occasionally, see what a blast this place is and want to join in. Once she’d done that then we might be able to come along to some meets. I was very keen not to put any pressure on her as whatever involvement there was had to be what she wanted to do.
Things have happened but not in the way that I had imagined. We’ve had a heart to heart and agreed that we love each other and will stay together but we have different interests and want to do separate things. This we will now do. There are of course limits as to what we will do separately but what it means is that I will be able to make some of the munches and other meets (if welcome). Mrs TE has even said that she would like to come and meet some people from the site that she has heard me talk of and who have expressed a wish to meet us in the past.
So, in many ways, it is a new era for me and I’m sorry to have to inform you all that you may get to know me a bit better in future. It's been too long in my book.
The other way of doing this would’ve been to just put my name down for some meets and slipped into the scene, if permitted, but I would’ve run the risk of some people, who new my previous circumstances, thinking I was there dishonestly. Hence this post.
This is not intended to be 'interactive', if you know what I mean, so if a mod wants to lock it - feel free but I wouldn't mind it hanging around long enough for a few people to see (FFS talk about mixed messages!!).
It will be fantastic to finally meet you, and Mrs TE when she pops along with you.
Something to look forward to. biggrin
kiss
Jas
XXX
Tune, can you get over to South Yorkshire tomorrow evening? No but seriously, it will be good to meet you (hopefully) at a munch sometime. I know I've asked you before whether you ever intended to go to a munch, and as you have avoided answering, I guessed that things were a bit complicated. It's great to hear that they are less complicated now - it'll be great to meet you after all this time. smile
Mike.
well tune babes we go back a long way!
I am soooo pleased that one day i will finally meet you kiss
Want to come to the Nottingham Munch?
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
yippeeeeeee lol will be lovely to meet you TE and MrsTE
TE that is brilliant news :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
I look forward to meeting you and hopefully Mrs TE drinkies
Dawn biggrin
lol Room on your dance card for us TE?
lhk
Kat
Tune,
Have a hug from me - and one for MrsTE too
Hope we get to meet you both at a munch soon
Oh me too...... :bounce: :bounce: :bounce: Look forward to seeing you both maybe sometime lol
Wow, thanks all. I'm really looking forward to meeting you. Jees I'm as nervous as a kitten now. Can somebody find me a mentor please?? lol :lol: I don't think Mrs TE will make it along for a munch or two just yet - I think she'd like to meet a smaller number slightly more privately first.
Still I've PM'd Sarah to put me down for the Notts Munch.
Aaawwwww TE you will be fine lol
kiss for you both as it's a big step biggrin
Shireen
xxx
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Wow, thanks all. I'm really looking forward to meeting you. Jees I'm as nervous as a kitten now. Can somebody find me a mentor please?? lol :lol: I don't think Mrs TE will make it along for a munch or two just yet - I think she'd like to meet a smaller number slightly more privately first.
Still I've PM'd Sarah to put me down for the Notts Munch.

:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Look forward to seeing you there. I'm sure there's plenty of people willing to look after you on your first Munches (in a non-sexual way).
Oh and there's another PM on it's way to you. wink
Well looks like that's one munch I can't back out of now wink
:thumbup: Great news
Look forward to meeting you TE.
Tune, I'm lost for (fitting) words.
So here's a :cheers:
There's another one waiting for you at Notts II.
I'll even stay relatively sober, in case you want a chat :shock:
The sober thing - erm . . . . . . . . . Only valid until 8pm wink
Look forward to seeing you at Notts babes
love to you and mrs TE
Vicky xxxxxxx
CCCooooooooooooooollllll! biggrin
I look forward to meeting you both sometime, or just one of you.... eeek having a warwick moment then! :doh:
Good luck with it all and as long as you keep talking to each other it will all work out fanflippintastic in the end! :D But ya know that already anyway dont cha! ;)
passionkiss to you both and see you (both maybe) soon! :bounce:
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Still I've PM'd Sarah to put me down for the Notts Munch.

I look forward to seeing you there kiss
I thought he already had a mentor confused
Blimey Toon at the do's ! This amy even motivate us to make an appearance , glad youre still around mate .
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I thought he already had a mentor confused

Thought you might be otherwise engaged!! :twisted:
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Blimey Toon at the do's ! This amy even motivate us to make an appearance , glad youre still around mate .

Make my year if you do!!
fuck it........thats another beer I gotta dib in me pocket for sad
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fuck it........thats another beer I gotta dib in me pocket for sad

you mean you keep your beer in ya pockets!!! :shock: errrrrrr
Really looking forward to meeting you at the Notts munch TE...'bout bluddy time! You'll love it!
Now Silk & Big G, get yer arses up here and lets all get together for a crackin' night out! It's going to be brill!
LC
notts munch bring it on
:bounce:
x rache x
S'pose thats us two all outta excuses for Notts II, too.
Bollox.
Too many too's/two's.
Great news. See you soon, Tune.
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Well looks like that's one munch I can't back out of now wink
:thumbup: Great news
Look forward to meeting you TE.

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S'pose thats us two all outta excuses for Notts II, too.
Bollox.
Too many too's/two's.
Great news. See you soon, Tune.

Now I'm really worried!! :wink:
Thanks fer all the messages - I feel like a newby - s'pose I am really.
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Thanks fer all the messages - I feel like a newby - s'pose I am really.

Well in that case I'm afraid you're too new to come to the Nott'm munch - keep on posting, dear newbie, and you may be invited to a munch later in the year.
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Tune how can you class yourself as a newbie? You have been a part of this site for so long biggrin I understand you now see it in a different way but never a newbie.
I have not been online for a while, I have come online tonight to seefantastic new avs rachel lane, vix (wow)
Best of luck to you tune :thrilled: that you have a wonderful woman who understands
wow Tune, this is good news, see ya at notts munch , mines a pint of bitter wink .The yorks munch was great (we`re munch whores now) and theres nowt to be nervous about "newbie" :wink: . ive waited ages to get you back for that newbie comment :wink: :wink: Hope to meet mrs TE one day soon biggrin