so what is it about threesomes with 'the elusive single female' that's the big turn on for some people, especially reading through many ads? Surely three with two guys is far more entertaining. Is it lack of security for some guys out there that have never played with a cock? Is it that they think perhaps their sexuality will be compromised? Clues please.
My guess is that a couple might be looking for the fabled single woman because the female half would like to play with her too. Otherwise, I'm with you. Pleasure comes from giving pleasure, and for a man, the pleasure given to a woman is doubled when there are two of you delivering it. So I'd prefer MMF simply because I'm greedy. And I'm not sure I'd know what to do with two women. I'd always be worried that one is being neglected.
Hmm? Threesomes.... and moresomes. I think all males woould like to have their ego massaged... as well as other bits... in an FMF scenario.. I know that Jane (other half prefers female contact)... but in practical terms and for fun, I think that MFM or MFMM has an awful lot going for it.. Certainly the experiences Jane and I have had bear this out... though I would never turn down an FMF... ... before people get excited Janey has lost her mojo at this time... but... search longjohnandjane in stories and a couple of tales I've posted about our experiences do support that MFM is fun fun fun all the way. Longjohn
As a woman, I personally prefer MMF but then I'm not overly bi (not quite straight but I won't go out of my way to play with other women). I suppose in an MFF situation, if both women were bi then it must be a win win situation for all involved. Isn't it most guy's fantasy to be with 2 women? And of course, 2 women are great to watch!
I've done both trixies, and I don't really have a preference. This really does come down to individuals, very often the lady wishes to see her guy with another woman, and guys wishing to see two girls together is commonplace. I suspect that, very often, when people begin to explore different scenarios they don't really know at that stage what will suit them best. It might well depend upon the degree of bisexuality of the people involved too. There's also the question of inviting a stranger to your home, and without question many people will be cautious about inviting along a guy whom they don't really know, whereas they'll find an unknown woman to be potentially less threatening.
Quote by capricornten so what is it about threesomes with 'the elusive single female' that's the big turn on for some people, especially reading through many ads? Surely three with two guys is far more entertaining. Is it lack of security for some guys out there that have never played with a cock? Is it that they think perhaps their sexuality will be compromised? Clues please.
We are curious as to what you imagine a threesome (FFM) might be like? We can only speak for our own experiences of threesomes of both types, and other group experiences. All we can say is we've found all are great sexy fun for us, and our reasons for doing them have nothing to do with male insecurity or some female sense of obligation. We would agree that if the fem is not really in to other women then we understand why it isn't going to be quite the same. However, if both fems are bi (or both males for that matter in FMM) then it, for us, has been a genuine three way experience. Of course, with another couple FFMM you can, provide both couples are on the same page, create, to a degree, either plus a 4some in one meeting which is sometimes the best of all worlds for us. Best C4C
FFM is so good to watch especially if both fems are bi and getting a double BJ is pretty awesome even better if one of the fems is straddling your face at the same time. And having a fem sit on your cock and one on your face is good too. Oh and the feeling of touching up two women at once has a certain wow factor two. Otherwise I can't really see the appeal myself. MMF is cool to watch, especially, if the two guys work well together if they cant then it can be a bit crappy to be honest. J loves both ffm and mmf but to watch thinks that two fems are far more fun and horny. But then she's always wanted to see two guys fucking each other but not yet had the opportunity so can give an opinion on that.
Quote by Longjohnandjane but in practical terms and for fun, I think that MFM or MFMM has an awful lot going for it.. Certainly the experiences Jane and I have had bear this out...
Quote by capricornten Surely three with two guys is far more entertaining.
Why? Who would it be more entertaining for? I have enjoyed MFF and MFM - both were very entertaining. It's clear you would prefer to be art of an MMF but that is your preference. It doesn't make the desire for an MFF in any way odd or needing any explanation.
Doubt you're gonna have any problems there livelife_cpl! ;) I've enjoyed MMF and very rarely FFM in the past, though most of the scenarios I've experienced have involved more bodies than that most often. :mrgreen: I think generally they work much better every which way if all parties are bi. I get that being pretty much the focus of attention for two others to go at you can just surrender yourself to is great, very horny, no question, but even better if you can switch up which of you is gonna be that individual as things develop. More possibilities aren't there. Gives everyone a bite of the same cherry, chance to experience both the physical aspects and the differences in headspace as to whether you're playing a more active or passive role, attender or attendee so to speak. Happy days.
Quote by neilinleeds Doubt you're gonna have any problems there livelife_cpl! ;) I've enjoyed MMF and very rarely FFM in the past, though most of the scenarios I've experienced have involved more bodies than that most often. :mrgreen: I think generally they work much better every which way if all parties are bi. I get that being pretty much the focus of attention for two others to go at you can just surrender yourself to is great, very horny, no question, but even better if you can switch up which of you is gonna be that individual as things develop. More possibilities aren't there. Gives everyone a bite of the same cherry, chance to experience both the physical aspects and the differences in headspace as to whether you're playing a more active or passive role, attender or attendee so to speak. Happy days.
I'd never turn down any combination ivolving more than two people with at least one being female. Sex in all its forms is the best full contact sport going I enjoy FMF.... Janey getting hot and horny with another woman is a real turn on. But A also enjoy just how wet and sticky things become with an MFM scenario... equally a turn on... ... ...There's only one way to decide.... Fuck! Longjohn
Only had one of each and loved watching more in the mmf .... But had way more fun in the ffm. Would love to try both again to see which I prefer too. Or even a mmffmf x must be enough here to all find out what it is about threesomes .... Need a big bed though J
Quote by capricornten so what is it about threesomes with 'the elusive single female' that's the big turn on for some people, especially reading through many ads? Surely three with two guys is far more entertaining. Is it lack of security for some guys out there that have never played with a cock? Is it that they think perhaps their sexuality will be compromised? Clues please.
it really depends mmf does little for Liza she like the softness of a woman's touch and becomes incredibility horny if I'm playing with another woman we found mmf entertaining but also very lust full but like she says the tenderness just isn't there, a man that misses the spot is about as much fun as a cheap vibrator (her words) where as a another woman never misses the spot as for sexuality or it being compromised some just ain't made that way and it not their thing
I've enjoyed MMF & MFF threesums equally as much and I've also had many FFF with mates from college and beyond, all have and hopefully will continue to be great fun *fidget* . For the most part I've found that no matter how attentive the men in a threesum can be they don't seem able to retain their attention long enough to be able to get you there, they are just that little bit distracted. Also, as with Lizaleanrob I've found when getting it on with another woman that she is more able to push the right buttons to bring me to the boil. Never experienced a gangbang, with 4+ males and myself but would like to *more fidgeting* and if/when it does it may be that with 4 of them things get busy enough for me to ..well, you know.
Quote by Lizaleanrob where as a another woman never misses the spot
OT but... how can that be true? i think Toots sums it up better and i should have wrote spots and not spot but if you need verification :rascal: I've never been with a woman who has satisfied me like a man can (and I've been with a lot of women). There is something very sexy about kissing a woman but as for the rest ... I say leave it to those who know what they're doing! Each to their own hey.
I have it on good authority that the order of the letters means something too. MMF would be 2 bi guys and a girl. MFM would be 2 straight guys and a girl (where she would obviously be the main focus) FFM...2 bi girls and a guy FMF...2 Straight girls and a guy ...you get the idea
I must say I'd never ever given any thought to the way the M's and the F's were arranged, other than in the playroom, it's quite enlightening. Now wondering how it'll go when there's 5 or 6 of us
Personally, I think its down to the people involved... Get the chemistry right between a group (or just the three individuals) and you will guaranteed a fun night for all Some blokes may be tracking down a MFF for the sake of it (I admit, not tried it yet but am curious), but done some other combinations..... you may find that once you finally try it you wonder what the fuss was about, an its wasnt as fun as a "good" MFM for example.
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