why o why is it that people put in there adds,"time wasters need not apply" then dont even read there mail?
I have replied to a few posters on here,only to find that my mail to them hasnt been oppened,and on a few occasions had meets set up, have booked hotel rooms and not even had a call to say sorry cant make it.
now i do know that every one is not every ones cup of tea, so to speak
but if you post "no time wasters" then please respect our time!!!
Rant over
Dave
When mail arrives many people click on the persons profile before reading the message, if your not what they are looking for then they don't bother to read the mail.
I am not saying this is the right thing to do nor is it the wrong thing to do, it is personal choice and swinging must be about personal choice.
For ourselves we read every mail (having checked out the profile first) we reply only to those that have bothered to read our profile and respect it, be that a "thanks but no thanks" or because we are interested in them.