well for one. i dont class my self as a timewaster. if i arrange to be somewhere. i will try my up most to be there... fair enought there have been occasions where ive had to cancel my plans but i have always made sure the person i am meeting is fully aware. and the reasons why. and do alwasy try and re-arange the date.
i think everyone is a bit sceptical about timewasters.. more so by the ones that have had to deal with the time waster.. i have read quite a few posts. and for some reason. its the sexier ones in the forum and chat room that get the timewasters...
i was chatting in the chatroom over xmas. and a guy came into the room who has stood someone up (who was also in the room). he made no effort to appoigies to the person. but i think he got hes punishment... the whole room told the guy he must of be stupid to stand up the perosn he did. a VERY VERY attactive lady. who for one if i got an offer i'd be cumming before i got on the train!!! lol
JGL
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Timewasters???????bad press
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who for one if i got an offer i'd be cumming before i got on the train!!! lol
JGL
You'd better be a repeater then!
Reminds me of one night in a club, end of the night, everyone shagged out, someone at the bar said, "well I would but there's only ten minutes till chucking out time".
The two girls replied, "time enough for us - what a shame the guys need five minutes to get in the mood". We had to watch
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Yes, but we still put in our ads "no timewasters please" so the people in question will no doubt read that and think, Oh well better pick on someone else.
A brilliant idea! Well that's that problem sorted. Could you tackle world peace & a cure for the common cold next please
.Timewasters are frequently discussed in these pages, but there is no solution to them. They are part of the rich tapestry of life.
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who for one if i got an offer i'd be cumming before i got on the train!!! lol
JGL
You'd better be a repeater then!
Reminds me of one night in a club, end of the night, everyone shagged out, someone at the bar said, "well I would but there's only ten minutes till chucking out time".
The two girls replied, "time enough for us - what a shame the guys need five minutes to get in the mood". We had to watch
its not a nice thing to die on stage... its happened to me. first time i played in an open room. i just couldn't take all the eyes that were on me, and i froze. I was turned on to fuck, but just could'nt turn the fucker (or not so in this case) on.
so i know what the bloke would be feeling...
JGL
Closest 'time-wasting' experience for me was a couple who individually invited me to chat to them in a club, lots of flirting and encouragement from them but they dragged it out a bit. Eventually it became clear they were really in the middle of a major domestic row. They needed to sort things out between them, not go swinging. I still had a nice evening though - brilliant club and such situations are unsual, not the norm.
The other time that some folk would think of as timewasting was when I arranged a private meet with someone I had never met - she arrived and was not only nothing like her photo but much much older. Her opening conversation was she couldn't stand people who weren't honest about their looks which was cheeky to say the least. Still I felt it only decent to rise to the occasion. We had a fabulous weekend together, in and out of bed, and even met up with some other swingers on another occasion. Looks aren't everything but, if I'd been only into the body-type she had described herself as, I might have gone for a drinks-and-conversation-only weekend and she could have thought 'time-waster'.
I suppose I'm so worried that someone will think I'm a timewaster I will usually try to fit in with what they want - and sometimes it still turns out fab.
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The other time that some folk would think of as timewasting was when I arranged a private meet with someone I had never met - she arrived and was not only nothing like her photo but much much older. Her opening conversation was she couldn't stand people who weren't honest about their looks
which was cheeky to say the least. Still I felt it only decent to rise to the occasion. We had a fabulous weekend together, in and out of bed, and even met up with some other swingers on another occasion. Looks aren't everything but, if I'd been only into the body-type she had described herself as, I might have gone for a drinks-and-conversation-only weekend and she could have thought 'time-waster'. I suppose I'm so worried that someone will think I'm a timewaster I will usually try to fit in with what they want - and sometimes it still turns out fab.
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its not a nice thing to die on stage... its happened to me. first time i played in an open room. i just couldn't take all the eyes that were on me, and i froze. I was turned on to fuck, but just could'nt turn the fucker (or not so in this case) on.
lol I'm sure it's happened to every guy at least once JGL.
In the case above at closing time, they were really having fun with us in a nice tongue in cheek way, showing us 'lesbians have more stamina' etc. They had fabulous attitude, not to mention some very wild latex and lace, and we (the two guys at the bar - one of them me) were happy to play the vanquished as they did a superb 'closing routine' right there in the bar. :shock:
First couple of times I 'performed' on stage as it were the 'old boy' was in the company of much more experienced swingers who steered me without knowing it probably. My partner said (softly, as I fucked her quite hard) "C'mon, Chris, put on a show for me!" - it's like walking out of the bathroom and realising someone's watching - my stomach automatically pulls in, my shoulders go back and down, that look of confidence exudes. First time I performed on stage with strangers, same thing - as soon as some extra 'guests' came in - I felt cool about it by then, which helped to take my mind off the sex, and just got on with it.
Thank you to all the lovely ladies who make us guys feel so macho!
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I've just caught up on this - and I must say I agree with Angel Chat. Whoever I meet up with, or if I don't meet up with anyone, I don't see why it's anyone else's business. Most people value their privacy.
Well said Mike. I'm with Angel Chat on this.
This is an open forum so people are free to express their views. Just because someone is not at present meeting people does not mean they should not take part in a discussion. And if I meet someone, I would not want the details to be posted on the Forum for all to see. It is nobody's business but mine & the person that I am meeting.
Here's another thought from me! When I first joined here I got chatting to a few couples via e-mail. It just so happened that I aranged meets with two of those before any of the others mainly because I felt we connected immediately. My intuition was right. I clicked with both couples. At that point I had to make a decision as to wether I continued to meet the others as my preference is for regular contact with the same people rather than lots of contact with different people. So I told the others that I had met some couples and was happy where I was. Some of those I had been chatting to who I hadn't heard from in ages I didn't tell becuase I kinda figured they had lost interest anyway.
So - does that make me a timewaster? I would hate to think that it does!!
So - does that make me a timewaster? I would hate to think that it does!!
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This is an open forum so people are free to express their views. Just because someone is not at present meeting people does not mean they should not take part in a discussion. And if I meet someone, I would not want the details to be posted on the Forum for all to see. It is nobody's business but mine & the person that I am meeting.
Agree totally, both points. Joining in discussion - more the merrier. Keeping details of meets private - totally (If I'm relating an incident by way of illustration I always try to be sufficiently vague that people could not be identified by others). :cheers:
btw I take it that wasn't you I saw at the bottom of my garden last night dressed in leather with my friend's alsation and a twelve inch willie Hungry P??
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So I told the others that I had met some couples and was happy where I was. Some of those I had been chatting to who I hadn't heard from in ages I didn't tell becuase I kinda figured they had lost interest anyway.
So - does that make me a timewaster? I would hate to think that it does!!
You sound like a decent girl, Rainbows. You were honest and open and told concerned parties as soon as you knew yourself, so I think that's the opposite of timewasting.
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Here's another thought from me! When I first joined here I got chatting to a few couples via e-mail. It just so happened that I aranged meets with two of those before any of the others mainly because I felt we connected immediately. My intuition was right. I clicked with both couples. At that point I had to make a decision as to wether I continued to meet the others as my preference is for regular contact with the same people rather than lots of contact with different people. So I told the others that I had met some couples and was happy where I was. Some of those I had been chatting to who I hadn't heard from in ages I didn't tell becuase I kinda figured they had lost interest anyway.
So - does that make me a timewaster? I would hate to think that it does!!
Of course not Rainbows. They would know that a single bi-fem would be bound to get masses of responses, especially one with such a delightful ad and eye-catching pics :P :P , and that you would be able to select from a large number of interested couples. Single guys with the same excuse as you for turning down a couple would not be half as convincing!
Mike.
Sex God
You should all think yourselves lucky that you didn't waste 8 months of your life
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(9 if you count the month spent in tears
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