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Looking for some advice really. Looking for tips on how to ease the other half into cuckolding. It's not the easiest conversation starter. 

I am 100% certain that I want her to be fucked and be there to watch and help and clean up.


Recently we stated chastity play which was mainly driven by me. I thought this was the start. She liked the idea and initially started hiding the key etc but it sort of fizzled out unfortunately. 

Whenever I get the chance I try and convince her that I'm smaller than most guys and actively try to labour this point. 

She's taken to playing with my nipples which I love and will literally make me cum in 30seconds. She loves the control it gives her. 

I would be more than happy with getting my satisfaction from her playing with my nipples and not even full sex. 

I would love for her to get her satisfaction from someone bigger and thicker but not really sure where to go from here .

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Hi, the best thing to do is to every so often bring up the subject then leave it to germinate in her mind, watch some cuckold videos every now and then (But not to often and again don't for a while), afterwards asking if she enjoyed it and would she like to try what you both saw in the video. Wait and see if she brings up the subject.


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don't push the idea too much though it might be better if it is her suggestion really then you might get what you are looking for

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also let her know she has other admirers who are getting off on your stories about her. Would love to be part of a chapter


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ive just posted in sex talk about fucking my mrs with a huge dildo.

My mrs wasnt into huge cocks before but after stretching her over time she now loves monster cocks. I would say get her a bigger dildo and work her up in size. In 6-12 months she will love massive cock and will be more inclined with the cuckold idea.

I started with a Flash Brown replica

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I am going through the process of encouraging my wife to be open with me about her liaisons with other men  . 

I know she's seeing other men and I know how much it turns me on  . It's a slow process but as I'm beginning to realise that time is required for my wife to get used to the fact that I'm a submissive crossdresser who enjoys being used by men and get turned on by her extra marital affairs  .

Eventually I hope to clean her and her lover after sex but that's along way off .

Key word is perseverance  .

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I tried to get my wife into this and we went to clubs a couple of times where I just watched her. It was the biggest turn on of my life but now she isnt interested leaving me with an empty gap in my fantasies. Doesn't hel that she has now hit the menopause so I guess it's gone for ever sad

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My hubby loves to watch me getting ready in the afternoon. Taking a bath, shaving my legs and pussy. Discussing which outfit to wear for my lover. When I get home that night or in the morning hubby knows his place laid on the bed so I can strip off and sit above his face so he can clean up my well used pussy.

Best thing we ever did, he loves it and I get what I need. 

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Nothing sexier than enjoying a lovely wife before hubby cleans her up...

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I’ve used hypnotherapy to help many ladies lower their inhibitions and change their attitude to such things as cuckolding. As long as they are open to the idea initially the success rate is very high.

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It’s a time thing with my first wife I just gradually sowed the scene hot stories guys with big cocks black guys would all get her awash. So bit the bullet and introduced her to a black guy and from then on many other guys joined us

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its got to be a two way thing, she asked me to try it , i love the getting her ready , i can pick what i want here to wear, but watching jayne in the eyes, holding her hand is such a turn on, she loves it ,

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Quote by Officegirl

My hubby loves to watch me getting ready in the afternoon. Taking a bath, shaving my legs and pussy. Discussing which outfit to wear for my lover. When I get home that night or in the morning hubby knows his place laid on the bed so I can strip off and sit above his face so he can clean up my well used pussy.

Best thing we ever did, he loves it and I get what I need. 

hes a very lucky guy to have such an understanding wife, you get what you need but he also gets what he needs which a lot of guys won't admit to

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I'm quite interested in sharing my Mrs, but she is incredibly straight acting and I've yet to see any kind of indication of her wanting another man/woman to join us.

I bought her a dildo for her birthday, one of those ones with the suction cups and explained I wanted her to ride it whilst sucking me - maybe it will awaken a 3sum desire of some sorts?

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I am a cuckold virgin and love reading all your posts For once, everybody gets pleasures as they wish would love to talk to a yorkshire couple to see where we could go Unfortunately my wife has gone off sex a while ago

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Speaking as a single male with an addiction for cuckold couples, over the years I have really enjoyed getting to know and learning from cuckolds. However I've had to learn the hard way to be more ruthless with that amount of time I give them when they are trying to introduce their wives into the lifestyle. If their wife isn't at least at the point of being ready to be introduced to males I now keep my distance.

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My wife loves big cocks , not too bothered Who's on the other end of it , we meet for fuck fun first time , then maybe again or maybe not with that person . It’s just our thing . I watch , started with her ex and progressed to my mates and then strangers.

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I've got my second meet with a gf/bf couple tomorrow, a bit younger than me. I'm going to write a story about it when I get back and I've been keeping a kind of diary this week. I'm just a bit worried that I'm getting obsessed with the girl, we've been talking all week since we met last weekend, but she's been amazing with the planning.

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Quote by Edbb96

I've got my second meet with a gf/bf couple tomorrow, a bit younger than me. I'm going to write a story about it when I get back and I've been keeping a kind of diary this week. I'm just a bit worried that I'm getting obsessed with the girl, we've been talking all week since we met last weekend, but she's been amazing with the planning.

Do not become obsessed or you will spoil things for yourself. You are an invited No3 and must respect that they are a couple. Getting obsessed or / and attached is not an option.

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Quote by Scotchlander

Do not become obsessed or you will spoil things for yourself. You are an invited No3 and must respect that they are a couple. Getting obsessed or / and attached is not an option.

Sound advice, not sure our meeting last night helped! Definitely one of the steamiest nights of my life but my head's all over the place now 😊

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Quote by Edbb96

Sound advice, not sure our meeting last night helped! Definitely one of the steamiest nights of my life but my head's all over the place now 😊

Not so good mate. If you can relax and just enjoy and realise you are only the guest you will have fun. Treat it any different and it’s sadly not for you. I had something similar happen when a hot wife of a couple I was playing with had a crush and wanted more from me. She wanted us to play behind her husbands back and go out together as a couple. I felt really bad about it and decided it was best that we no longer met up. As much as I loved fucking her, i did not want to be responsible for breaking her husbands trust or a marriage break up.

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Yeah difficult one. I've just submitted the story for review if you fancy some bedtime reading 🤣.

I think if we can clearly set out that we're roleplaying as lovers for the cuck and stick to lust rather than love it'll be fine. He's actually said he's fine for us to go off together so long as we're not stabbing him in the back, so we might end up stabbing him in the front.

It was funny when I dropped them off yesterday morning she got in the back of the car and cuddled up with him and I felt upset for a second but then I realised I was being stupid and they're actually together (even though he is punching a lot), and I'm just the bull. But it was fine.