As long as you talk and are honest in what you want, I don't see a problem. The only stipulation I have with my other half, is no bareback. It has got to be safe... other than that, its not a problem.
It honestly depends on what type of relationship you have.. if you see it as tit for tat.. maybe you shouldn't be in it....
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Tit for Tat
Sex God
Not so much tit for tat as we do tend to take things in turns as much as possible as its the fairest way to do things due to our lack of childcare...
It means only 1 of us can be away for the night or go out for a few hours as the other has to be with the kids...
It means only 1 of us can be away for the night or go out for a few hours as the other has to be with the kids...
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you definately still have personal issues you need to sort out
goodness me... what on earth do you mean by that ?
flower has opened a discussion and been honest. Nothing he has said has suggested that he has a problem with how he 'swings' with his partner.
:thumbup: as the lovely Splendipity said
Quote by flower411
you definately still have personal issues you need to sort out
Care to read my post again and then tell me what on earth you are talking about !!!! :shock:
I think Phuckers has invented a new game lately. He posts a single sentence reply, and we have to guess which thread it belongs in. Kinda clever! :smug:
Sex God
I guess to the OP i would have to say that we dont have a 'tit for tat' relationship. What I would say is there are things that I cant demand that my partner doesn't do but I request her not to, and so far that has never brought about a conflict.
As for the rest of this thread
nicely nutty 
As for the rest of this thread
nicely nutty Quote by Phuckers
you definately still have personal issues you need to sort out
:shock: Flower is one of the most honest guys I know on here!
He has no problems that I can make out from his threads!
He says what he feels, unlike some that beat around the bush!
Maybe you haven't read it correctly
Quote by flower411
you definately still have personal issues you need to sort out
Care to read my post again and then tell me what on earth you are talking about !!!! :shock:
i didnt try to offend you by any means flower,but have observed your last two threads namely "how would you feel if your partner is invite to a wedding without you"and "sex while ya angry"..
they've been very personal to you,i dont have to be a pyschologist to see that its a cry out for personal advice in your current situation, that why i pointed it out,but its an opinion i might be competely wrong,well i hope things have improved between you and your beauty!
but on the tit for tat,it varies you might agree with your partner on what to do but if it turns out that one of you doesnt like one of the couple,you can either find something or someone else to do or just find a corner and ball your eyes out!
