We are a fairly new couple here.......please bear with us.

We have looked in on the forum nearly every day, but haven`t found we have much to contribute (to be honest it`s a bit confusing working out who doesn`t like who anymore

Is it better to ask or be asked? ie. would we be better off placing a photo ad or keep sending off mails in the hope that someone actually gets back to us (even just to say no thanks!)
The Kent host`s have given lots of good advice to get us started, but we seem to be going around in circles a little

We can`t help thinking that if people stop mailing to the photo ads and end up posting themselves, then decide not to reply to anyone, how does the fun begin?
As far as we aware we have followed the rules ie No one line mails, facial pictures have been sent, we don`t weigh 300 stone!,etc