To bi or not to bi??

1 Apr 2010

Was having a bath today getting groovy with the bubbles in the jaccuzzi bath, listening to Ray Charles when a thought popped into my head. Some men in couples seem to go to great lengths to emphasise being 100% straight on their profiles, and that made me wonder about a few things...
Can anyone be truly 100% "straight" and be a swsinger too? The thing is surely if you are willing to watch your partner pleasure and or be pleasured by another man the must surely be an element of homo-eroticism in that??!?
Also, let us say you met a couple at a meet or club, you all clicked, exchanged details and so on; then you found out the male was bi or curious, how many of you would change your view of that couple? maybe decide not to meet after all?
Just curious thats all.... innocent

1 Apr 2010

I would not say that Giving your partner a chance of enjoyment with another, or just the self enjoyment of see your partner fuck is the same as homo-eroticism.
I call myself Straight, I think that could change with the right people and under the right conditions....but just because I did not push a hand away from my balls or cock; that would not make me gay or bi.
Travis

1 Apr 2010

are you "bi-curious" then Travis?

1 Apr 2010

That would be putting it to strong, is there more than one question there?

1 Apr 2010

Hmmm, interesting - what am I then? dunno

I live with a guy, won't/don't meet females 1:1 but will play with females (and love it) in sexy male company? The same as 'straight' blokes that will play with males in sexy female company? I guess so... but then what are they?
smile

1 Apr 2010

I used to have sex with women. I don't any more. What does that make me? :giggle:

1 Apr 2010

Quote by Samandken
Also, let us say you met a couple at a meet or club, you all clicked, exchanged details and so on; then you found out the male was bi or curious, how many of you would change your view of that couple? maybe decide not to meet after all?
Just curious thats all....

why change your view on the cpl because the male was bi c ,if your st8 and you all ready said what yoou into they know and your meet/boundrys set he still the same person if both partys said what they into dont really make a difference does it ??

1 Apr 2010

Quote by northeastcoupleuk
Also, let us say you met a couple at a meet or club, you all clicked, exchanged details and so on; then you found out the male was bi or curious, how many of you would change your view of that couple? maybe decide not to meet after all?
Just curious thats all....

why change your view on the cpl because the male was bi c ,if your st8 and you all ready said what yoou into they know and your meet/boundrys set he still the same person if both partys said what they into dont really make a difference does it ??
That is just what I think.

1 Apr 2010

Quote by Dirtygirly
I used to have sex with women. I don't any more. What does that make me? :giggle:

Relapsed

1 Apr 2010

Quote by Dirtygirly
I used to have sex with women. I don't any more. What does that make me? :giggle:

id say indesisive but i cant make me mind up lol

1 Apr 2010

Quote by BIoke
Hmmm, interesting - what am I then?
I live with a guy, won't/don't meet females 1:1 but will play with females (and love it) in sexy male company? The same as 'straight' blokes that will play with males in sexy female company? I guess so... but then what are they?

Conditional straight?

1 Apr 2010

Quote by
That would be putting it to strong, is there more than one question there?

I'm not trying to infer anything or pigeon-hole anyone. I'm just curious about what people think and feel, what turns people on in certain scenarios, makes them tick and so on.
Instead of watch, I maybe should have said are turned on... dunno

. It's really the whole "100%" thing that got me thinking about it...

1 Apr 2010

Quote by BIoke
Hmmm, interesting - what am I then?
I live with a guy, won't/don't meet females 1:1 but will play with females (and love it) in sexy male company? The same as 'straight' blokes that will play with males in sexy female company? I guess so... but then what are they?

Great company. :rascal:

1 Apr 2010

Quote by Samandken
That would be putting it to strong, is there more than one question there?

I'm not trying to infer anything or pigeon-hole anyone. I'm just curious about what people think and feel, what turns people on in certain scenarios, makes them tick and so on.
Instead of watch, I maybe should have said are turned on... dunno

. It's really the whole "100%" thing that got me thinking about it...
Do we not all change with time and place. Some more than others. I do not know the answer, but I know the question.
...and pigeon hole, I agree no pigeon hole.
Travis

1 Apr 2010

This one keeps cropping up. Some people just are str8 and thats that, some are bi or curious, and some may change as time goes on. Its a funny old thing really..... I seem to get slated, and accused of being homophobic when I say we dont meet bi or bi curious guys, and the reason is not cos we dont want my hubby jumped on, its just our choice.
But I will say with 100% confidence that my hubby is str8 and I can't see anything that would make me feel he would ever be anything other than that.
Me however, I like ladies and men (well some ladies and some men) but I dont ever think to myself 'cor I fancy her', but if in a sexy situation, and both ladies are inclined, there can be fem/fem play which is great and most enjoyable for both the ladies and the guys.

1 Apr 2010

Quote by Dirtygirly
I used to have sex with women. I don't any more. What does that make me? :giggle:

retired trollop :haha:

1 Apr 2010

Quote by meat2pleaseu
I used to have sex with women. I don't any more. What does that make me? :giggle:

retired trollop :haha:
lol

To be fair, I used to have sex with men too... :giggle:

1 Apr 2010

Quote by Samandken
Was having a bath today getting groovy with the bubbles in the jaccuzzi bath, listening to Ray Charles when a thought popped into my head. Some men in couples seem to go to great lengths to emphasise being 100% straight on their profiles, and that made me wonder about a few things...
Can anyone be truly 100% "straight" and be a swsinger too? The thing is surely if you are willing to watch your partner pleasure and or be pleasured by another man the must surely be an element of homo-eroticism in that??!?
Also, let us say you met a couple at a meet or club, you all clicked, exchanged details and so on; then you found out the male was bi or curious, how many of you would change your view of that couple? maybe decide not to meet after all?
Just curious thats all....

When i was a young Tweeky I used to masturbate to Porn which included scenes with the following
Men Shagging Woman
Woman shagging Woman
Multiples of the above two
Never did I watch men shagging men. To hazard a guess I would say this is because I am straight and the man on man films would hold no attraction for me. In the same way in a swinging situation I am still interested in the above three but would decline an invite to watch or join in with men on men.
Think that pretty much sums it up.

1 Apr 2010

Quote by Dirtygirly
I used to have sex with women. I don't any more. What does that make me? :giggle:

retired trollop :haha:
lol

To be fair, I used to have sex with men too... :giggle:
you'll need someone to blow the dust off it if you leave it any longer rotflmao

2 Apr 2010

Quote by meat2pleaseu
you'll need someone to blow the dust off it if you leave it any longer

Ditto