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Thought I would do something different - other than sit in the chat room asking ladies to chat!.
Me and a mate went out for a few drinks little while back and we got chatting to some lovely ladies and we back theirs.... As there was a lack of rooms my mate and his lady crashed on the sofa bed
Myself and the lady i was with spent most of the night chatting and then went to sleep in her bed.....but nothing happened we did fancy each other but she didnt wasnt into one nighters....
We have met since then and have just slept in the same bed but no sex and have built a good solid friendship....
Question I keep asking is.... How long can it go on for before it causes a problem with boyfriends/girlfriends.
How long can can what go on? You mean not having sex? Errrr, shouldn't the question be : how long can your friend go on refusing you sex before it becomes a problem for you. Right?
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Thats the thing blue now I dont execpted to havesex with her.. so its not like she's refusing it.
What I meant was... if we continue to be friends and we find boyfriends/girlsfriends do you think it would cause problems....
I have no problems with it.. if someone i met was doing what we are doing.
Ah right, I'm with you now. Well, I guess it might cause problems if one of you got a partner and you continued to sleep in the same bed. Being friends would be fine for most people, but perhaps sleeping together would be a shade too far. Of course it would depend who your partners were, some people are very open minded about these things, or so I believe wink
True True.... Guess there is only one way to find out smile
Cheers for that blue.. I have mention it to some mates and think its werid, why should I still do it if im not getting any.... oh well.
Makes you wonder if you can be friends and 'bed buddies' or is it one or the other.
Some people just enjoy the comfort of someone being there at night - nowt wrong with that smile
Some of us like the comfort of more than one at night too wink lol
Bev
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Thats alright.... May I could start a new business.... bed buddies.
Or is that called escorting... lol
Word susbstitution to keep Bev amused:
'some people just enjoy the (insert sutiable other word that Im sure a teacher could find) of (insert number of people) people (insert suitable other verb) at night'
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