...sorry to do this again,but you may recall the despair I was in a while today I found out my 3 1/2 months has "met" someone new,they have had a comittment ceremony and are flying to Sri Lanka in the new year to get married.
Once again I am crying out for your help to get me through at least tonight.
I am truly devastated.
PMs or posts would be greatly appreciated.
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Oh Lazeeboy :therethere: I am so sorry to hear this. You just seem to get yourself on track again, and another blow happens :therethere:
I know it's a really difficult time for you right now - and whatever is said is not going to help. But please remember that everything does have an opposite - and as low as you are feeling now, is the complete opposite of the height you will reach one day. So just ride out the bad times, get yourself through it, but at the same time, look forward to reaching the light at the end of the tunnel....... Believe me, it's worth waiting for. Having been stuck in my own tunnel in the past, it is well worth waiting for that glimmer of light to aim for
It is there, you may not see it yet, but it's there ok.
I know it's a really difficult time for you right now - and whatever is said is not going to help. But please remember that everything does have an opposite - and as low as you are feeling now, is the complete opposite of the height you will reach one day. So just ride out the bad times, get yourself through it, but at the same time, look forward to reaching the light at the end of the tunnel....... Believe me, it's worth waiting for. Having been stuck in my own tunnel in the past, it is well worth waiting for that glimmer of light to aim for
It is there, you may not see it yet, but it's there ok. 
Sex God
So sorry buddy.
There is life beyond, believe me. Just takes time to heal.
I'm sure a lot of folk here empathise with you
Take good care.
There is life beyond, believe me. Just takes time to heal.
I'm sure a lot of folk here empathise with you
Take good care.
Sex God
Lazeeboy sorry to hear of your despair but please do remember u have friends here who would willingly offer you some time and patience to chat about things, try and make your days brighter or have words of comfort etc.
You're not alone and there's times when we all need our friends to help us out.
Bunny xxx
You're not alone and there's times when we all need our friends to help us out.
Bunny xxx
Sorry to hear your problems Lazeeboy, I am going through the same too. My ex-Fiancee of 2 1/2 years and I are stillbest of friends, but she's met a new bloke, and at the moment I am alternating between feeling fine about it, and feeling like ending it all....
I know I shouldn't feel that bad, but sometimes I do. I know I'll never do that, but the feeling keeps coming over me....
Hopefully there will be light at the end of the tunnel, life goes on, and I hope you begin to feel better soon mate.
Rick.
I know I shouldn't feel that bad, but sometimes I do. I know I'll never do that, but the feeling keeps coming over me....
Hopefully there will be light at the end of the tunnel, life goes on, and I hope you begin to feel better soon mate.
Rick.
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Lazeeboy and Rick time is a great healer beleive me i know !!, to get over somebody is very difficult but when you start sociallising, and meeting other people you will soon realise you,ve moved on
GOOD LUCK to both of you :therethere:
luv ann xx
GOOD LUCK to both of you
:therethere: luv ann xx
Quote by Lazeeboy
...sorry to do this again,but you may recall the despair I was in a while today I found out my 3 1/2 months has "met" someone new,they have had a comittment ceremony and are flying to Sri Lanka in the new year to get married.
Once again I am crying out for your help to get me through at least tonight.
I am truly devastated.
PMs or posts would be greatly appreciated.
Hi Layzeeboy
When you say 'ex of 3 1/2 months' do you mean that you were together for 3 1/2 months or you have been separated for 3 1/2 months???
Dxxx
Quote by surreycouple2003
...sorry to do this again,but you may recall the despair I was in a while today I found out my 3 1/2 months has "met" someone new,they have had a comittment ceremony and are flying to Sri Lanka in the new year to get married.
Once again I am crying out for your help to get me through at least tonight.
I am truly devastated.
PMs or posts would be greatly appreciated.
Hi Layzeeboy
When you say 'ex of 3 1/2 months' do you mean that you were together for 3 1/2 months or you have been separated for 3 1/2 months???
Dxxx
We were together for 4 1/2 years,we broke up 3 1/2 months ago.
Quote by Lazeeboy
Hi Lazeeboy
When you say 'ex of 3 1/2 months' do you mean that you were together for 3 1/2 months or you have been separated for 3 1/2 months???
Dxxx
We were together for 4 1/2 years,we broke up 3 1/2 months ago.
Yikes..
How were you doing before you found out she's getting married???
Quote by surreycouple2003
Hi Lazeeboy
When you say 'ex of 3 1/2 months' do you mean that you were together for 3 1/2 months or you have been separated for 3 1/2 months???
Dxxx
We were together for 4 1/2 years,we broke up 3 1/2 months ago.
Yikes..
How were you doing before you found out she's getting married???
Some good some bad days,Slowly getting some self respect back,now.......
Sex God
Sorry to hear that sad news hope you are ok
Take care of your self
Love Molly xx
Take care of your self
Love Molly xx
Sex God
bloody hell lazeeboy! that's a tough one i know.
this weeks been a tough one for me too, cos it's coming up to the one year thing since i ended my last relationship, and there's so much stuff coming up i thought i'd dealt with. i well remember hearing 8 weeks after we split that she'd started seeing someone else and i was devastated. i think it was more the idea that she was moving on so quickly, and more able than me to get over it, that got to me. hard one that eh?
no easy way out of it mate, but you just have to try and move forward and accept that she's trying to do the same. it's an old cliche but it's true, times a great healer, and i'm really enjoying being single again. just keep plugging away, and take advantage of what the site has to offer as far as expanding your social life goes. it can be a great help, trust me.
neil x x x ;)
this weeks been a tough one for me too, cos it's coming up to the one year thing since i ended my last relationship, and there's so much stuff coming up i thought i'd dealt with. i well remember hearing 8 weeks after we split that she'd started seeing someone else and i was devastated. i think it was more the idea that she was moving on so quickly, and more able than me to get over it, that got to me. hard one that eh?
no easy way out of it mate, but you just have to try and move forward and accept that she's trying to do the same. it's an old cliche but it's true, times a great healer, and i'm really enjoying being single again. just keep plugging away, and take advantage of what the site has to offer as far as expanding your social life goes. it can be a great help, trust me.
neil x x x ;)
