How do you let people down without hurting there feelings. My husband and i have been kindly inundated with offers, most of which are from who sound like perfectly reasonable nice people. Some, mind you, are from men who are so damnably nasty and rude that they should be taken out of society! We are new too this and ant to ease in gently so too speak. We don't have enough time in thev day to do everything with everyone.
How would experienced swingers suggest starting out to firstimers. Would it be with new swingers as well or with people who have experience
For us it was slightly different, we had thought about doing something for years, when we did finally pluck up courage we decided to just meet couples and see how we felt. We explained to them our situation and let them know clearly we may or may not be able to go through with anything.. When the time was right and we BOTH felt ok things progressed.. It didn't take as long as we thought lol.
We still follow the same basics now, meet and chat see how you get on and if you all feel comfortable things will move on natuarally. People that look great in pics are not always what they seem.. we find that meeting and chatting face to face no matter how nerve racking makes all the difference.
No need to play just because you meet!!! Can always call after and say we think your great but we would rather not play... Any couple worth while would understand and not be offended. one BIG BIG tip if we may.. be honest, with yourselves and the others involved!
Hope it helps..
Mike and Julie xx
Rather than put a poll up the ones that have offended yourselves should be highlighted to the mods etc & let them deal with them.
The WHOOSH Manâ„¢
Like its been said boefore it all depends how you get on with people :)
