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I am a 60 year old male very fit and active. Was recently told I was too old to be interested in S.H.
Any views on this.
i think you found a very small minded person there who will hopefully be amazed if they reach your age and have a wealth of experience and ability to fall back from what you say their requirements will just shift to suit their present real swingers put more emphasis on compatability and capability than agism or any other isms. dont be put off.
there are selfish and inconsiderate poeple in all walks of life, be nice, you will find many lovely swingers here
Quote by spyguy
I am a 60 year old male very fit and active. Was recently told I was too old to be interested in S.H.
Any views on this.

okay.....
some people are not going to want to play with some people old enough to be their mums and dads.....
Some people are not going to want to play with some people young enough to be their sons and daughters.....
different strokes for different folks........
Quote by fabio
I am a 60 year old male very fit and active. Was recently told I was too old to be interested in S.H.
Any views on this.

okay.....
some people are not going to want to play with some people old enough to be their mums and dads.....
Some people are not going to want to play with some people young enough to be their sons and daughters.....
different strokes for different folks........
:thumbup: Spot on!
i get told i am to young... so what i have my own mind its mny decision but i respect other peoples boundaries lol :lol: how can ya be to old ffs to the odd few peple yes you will be but plenty looking for the older man
Quote by spyguy
I am a 60 year old male very fit and active. Was recently told I was too old to be interested in S.H.
Any views on this.

Hi spy! my view is.... what do you think???
Do you still have sex? do you still want to meet people? are you still alive and well? Yes? then SH is very much for you!
Don't let the idiots grind you down. wink
Nope nope nope spyguy U aint too old. If that response came via chat or ad reply they could have just as easily said 'sorry you're not quite what I am looking for' instead of rudely imposing thier judgement on you - politeness costs nothing.
You carry on having fun spyguy ....60 years young ...go for it wink
If you want to swing and you want to be on this site, then you go for it.
Just ignore people who say you are to old.
And have fun.
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I am a 60 year old male very fit and active. Was recently told I was too old to be interested in S.H.
Any views on this.

If you think you are, then you are.
Someone for everyone here. Except Markz, of course :giggle:
Are you here trying to find a 22 year old Swedish blonde nymphomaniac? IMHO, most of the above probably won't be that interested in someone your age.
However, I'm sure there are people here who will be.
The phrase "too old to be interested" is incredibly ill thought out- my grandfather-in-law was still enraptured by my cleavage into his '90's, the randy old goat!
Quote by winchwench
The phrase "too old to be interested" is incredibly ill thought out- my grandfather-in-law was still enraptured by my cleavage into his '90's, the randy old goat!

not many people have a goat as a grandfather..... rolleyes
Quote by markz

The phrase "too old to be interested" is incredibly ill thought out- my grandfather-in-law was still enraptured by my cleavage into his '90's, the randy old goat!

not many people have a goat as a grandfather..... rolleyes
Plenty of Kids do. :roll:
Freckledbird wrote: Someone for everyone here. Except Markz, of course
I dunno :rascal:
Quote by winchwench
Plenty of Kids do. rolleyes

:shock: I was going to type that!
Quote by winchwench

The phrase "too old to be interested" is incredibly ill thought out- my grandfather-in-law was still enraptured by my cleavage into his '90's, the randy old goat!

not many people have a goat as a grandfather..... rolleyes
Plenty of Kids do. :roll:
Freckledbird wrote: Someone for everyone here. Except Markz, of course
I dunno :rascal:
You want me so bad I can hear your foo foo bubbling from here... :mrgreen:
FB- Great minds & all that lol
Quote by markz

The phrase "too old to be interested" is incredibly ill thought out- my grandfather-in-law was still enraptured by my cleavage into his '90's, the randy old goat!

not many people have a goat as a grandfather..... rolleyes
Plenty of Kids do. :roll:
Freckledbird wrote: Someone for everyone here. Except Markz, of course
I dunno :rascal:
You want me so bad I can hear your foo foo bubbling from here... :mrgreen:
Sorry redface I'll pop out & buy some Canestan- I appear to have a yeast issue. confused
rotflmao
Quote by winchwench

You want me so bad I can hear your foo foo bubbling from here... :mrgreen:

Sorry redface I'll pop out & buy some Canestan- I appear to have a yeast issue. confused
yeastwench........ :mrgreen:
Quote by spyguy
I am a 60 year old male very fit and active. Was recently told I was too old to be interested in S.H.
Any views on this.

Too old by whose standards????
Carry on, enjoy the site and have fun!
Noladreams xx
Quote by spyguy
I am a 60 year old male very fit and active. Was recently told I was too old to be interested in S.H.
Any views on this.

If you're a fit and active as you say you are you may well be in better shape than some 40 year olds on here! wink
You've got 12 odd years on me but I hope I will still have a sex life at your age and there are plenty of other people in the 40s 50s 60s age range who want that too!
Quote by spyguy
I am a 60 year old male very fit and active. Was recently told I was too old to be interested in S.H.
Any views on this.

I'm a couple of years older than you and I've recently joined SH
Plim smile cool lol
Hi spyguy
As a "mature" gent the same age as you I can understand your concern, and I have had some of the same difficulties, but be assured that all is not lost!!
In the end its about whether there is any chemistry -- which does seem to transcend most of the age barriers - but to get that across you have to make yourself fairly visible. To achieve that I would suggest that you continue to post in the forum, get active in the chatroom -- go on cam as much as possible (face not "bits") and attend socials -- as many as you can manage - and get yourself known.
Why not start a northern Ireland regional room in the chatroom ??? most of the other areas have theirs, so why not NI (don't think I've seen one but I'm sure someone will tell me if I'm wrong)
This is actually just the same advice I would offer anyone of any age who wants this site to work for them.
In the meantime -- lots of luck to you and I hope you find someone.