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That too!
If I get a Cylon eye mask will women throw themselves at me do you think? :confused2:
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Do you find some fellow swingers unapproachable? is it because you think there too hardened....out of your league......too intelligent....too attractive.....or from a different social group?
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Is someone really beautiful/handsome actually disadvantaged in the swinging scene because people daren't approach
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Do you find some fellow swingers unapproachable? is it because you think there too hardened....out of your league......too intelligent....too attractive.....or from a different social group?
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Is someone really beautiful/handsome actually disadvantaged in the swinging scene because people daren't approach
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I have quite low self esteem anyway so I always have the thought in my head that no one would be interested and then that way I'm not disappointed.
As for you Winchy....you are one of the most beautiful people I've met in a long time both inside and out. I would presume your 'outter confidence' is what could intimidate a man, some men cannot cope with a confident woman.
I look at stunning people and thing 'oh my, you are attractive' but I'm not one for making the first move in any event and never have done, I tend to wait until people approach me. Jay on the other hand just asks
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Now, funnily enough, I logged in this morning to a PM from someone who crossed my mind as a perfect example of what I meant when I wrote the thread.
She's given me something to post anonymously on her behalf, as she doesn't want to appear vain, or indeed to upset anyone. I for one can confirm that not only is she bloody gorgeous, but she's warm, funny and very very genuine. I've also witnessed some of the resentment she's faced.
Here's what she wrote:
When I first joined I was made to feel like a lot of people thought I was a fake due to the photos I had on my profile. Some people thought I was a man pretending to be a woman....others thought 'd just pinched the picks from another site.
I became so paraniod about this that I felt I needed to meet someone so they could verify me. I was chatting to a couple on here at the time and agreed to meet up with one half of the couple for a coffee just so I could show that I was real. At the time I was being told that no one believed I was real and that I had to do this to 'fit in'.
I went for a coffee.....he behaved like a gent until he walked me to my car and made me feel like I'd done something wrong by just kissing him on the cheek and that I should have given him a full on snog icon_
From there I went to my first ever munch.....I can't explain it really but it was a horrid experience.....as soon as I turned up at the hotel I was hearing about who had said what about me and who wanted to meet me etc. ......in reality, once I was there hardly anyone actually spoke to me. It's funny actually....whenever I go to a munch or social no one speaks to me then afterwards I get a flutter of PMs saying 'I wanted to speak to you on the night but was too shy'
I guess I'm as guilty myself as I'm shy so only really talk to people I know but just thought I'd put my point of view across
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Is someone really beautiful/handsome actually disadvantaged in the swinging scene because people daren't approach
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Beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder and someone that is considered a beauty to one person is seen as rather plain and nothing special by someone else
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Is someone really beautiful/handsome actually disadvantaged in the swinging scene because people daren't approach
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Beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder and someone that is considered a beauty to one person is seen as rather plain and nothing special by someone else
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Wunderhorse, either you are having us on, or you are one of the most unusual people on this forum... either way, you have made my day.
Keep up the good work :thumbup:
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I have quite low self esteem anyway so I always have the thought in my head that no one would be interested and then that way I'm not disappointed.
As for you Winchy....you are one of the most beautiful people I've met in a long time both inside and out. I would presume your 'outter confidence' is what could intimidate a man, some men cannot cope with a confident woman.
I look at stunning people and thing 'oh my, you are attractive' but I'm not one for making the first move in any event and never have done, I tend to wait until people approach me. Jay on the other hand just asks