why do people constantly moan and groan about other people posting a short, blunt who wants a shag type post .
if this type of post bothers you and you disagree with it basically it is tough and there is nothing you can do about it unless they are breaking the site rules, so why bother with the sarcastic comments all the time it just makes you look silly and childish .
these people posting are more than likely not frequent posters in the cafe section and are looking for a easy mutual convient meet without going to the extreme lenghts of several months of posting in the cafe to be "well known to others" in order to meet someone , which i know works very well , but not every one wants to do that .
so why all the grief all the time , just leave these people posting there who wants a shag type threads in the lets meet up section to do there own thing.
if this type of request works surely that is a good thing for the people involved and if it does not then surely there is no harm done if asking for a meet in a blunt fashion .
im sure if you posted a thread and people mocked it or you would'nt you get a bit frustrated with all the silly pointless replies .
so do not do this to others is the message .
Where did all that come from?
He's as entitled to his opinion as you are to yours, however his was generalistic and yours was directed at him.
The consensus has been that 'fancy a shag?' posts don't work and just clutter up the forum. I personally would like to delete all of them, but I can't. When you see one post like that, it encourages others who think it actually works and it therefore breeds more. The more that are seen, the more are posted, especially around school holidays. They don't work. What does work, and has been proven to work, is joining in on the forums. This isn't a quick fix Site, so if they want success, post in a successful manner, and that ain't it. there's no secret to it. We are quite happy to help these people achieve what they are ultimately posting here for. Just that it won't be today, tonight or tomorrow morning. it does take time, live with it.
Mal
but is there more merit in being a tad more subtle when posting, or generally is it better to be totally to the point 
