Travel or accommodate?

31 Jul 2008

Something I've always wondered.. and this is really gonna show my ignorance redface

but I'll never find out if I ask!
When people say they can 'accommodate', does it mean they accommodate the play then you leave, or does it mean they put you up over night?
And vica versa, if you 'accommodate' someone are they expected to leave after or stay?

Could be an embarrasing assumtion if you get it wrong lol

31 Jul 2008

It generally means accomodate to play...
I would never assume to be able to stay overnight as if things dont work out well it could be difficult and a little uncomfortable...

31 Jul 2008

Quote by Steve
It generally means accomodate to play...
I would never assume to be able to stay overnight as if things dont work out well it could be difficult and a little uncomfortable...

I thought that may be so.. was just a little confused as I've seen people talk about 'the next day'
ty x

31 Jul 2008

I don't equate "accommodating" with an overnight stay. At the end of the day, they're providing a venue for a meet- not a place to stay.
Although a nice full English with a builders tea in the morning might be nice innocent

31 Jul 2008

Some may well put up their playmates for the night but its not something I/we would consider....

31 Jul 2008

Quote by winchwench
I don't equate "accommodating" with an overnight stay. At the end of the day, they're providing a venue for a meet- not a place to stay.
Although a nice full English with a builders tea in the morning might be nice

Can't beat a nice brew!
Yeah I think I'm best left to the munches, least then I'll have my own hotel to do what I want with.. and I may sound like a piss head but I don't think I could instigate 'play' without a couple of vodkas on board :cheers:
Rules out the travelling then huh lol
xx

1 Aug 2008

Even if everyone else was accommodating overnight, you have the right to choose not to. Everyone meets precisely on their own terms and makes their own choices completely about the circumstances, boundaries, ground rules, time limits etc of their play.

1 Aug 2008

i think it depends how far away you have traveled, i dont drive and have met a few guys that live quite away from me so have had to get the train, they have let me stay over night because if they didn't i wouldnt have gone lol i went to plymouth from dudley by train to meet one guy and tho i like to be fair theres no way i'd have paid for the train and to stay in a hotel after while he just sat at home, waited for me to turn up, had his shag and threw me out lol if your only local tho i think its usual you go home after smile