you think ur having trouble , .............
Sorry guys.
Quite a number of people post on here saying exactly as you have that you can't get into the chat room. There is a sticky thread at the top of the page
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/7655.html
There is even a step by step FAQ section in the help page
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/main/help.html
So..... have you read these? Are you still having problems. In that case join the help channel by typing /join #shhelp and all being well one of the chat room ops will be there to guide you through the simple task of registering your nickname.
Ian