Had this idea from another forum....
A place where like minded people can post information about themselves in the hope of finding others who are into the scene for relationships instead of something purely sexual.
I shall start the ball rolling.
Location - Sheffield
Sex - Male
Age - 38
Relationship Status - Single
Interested in - Cooking, Animals, Cinema, Going for walks, TV, Computers, Swinging (obviously).
Been described as - affectionate, kind, caring, considerate, honest, genuine, romantic.
Would love to meet - Single Female, 25-40 years of age.
So, come on everyone, get posting and let's see if other single people can find the love of their life.
I guess you could try ....
Goodness me, this is a swinging site. It isn't love you get here it is sex.. pure and simple.
If anything else happens then it is a 'happy' (I hope) accident. The thought of single people wanting to find love would scare me witless about meeting them. I am pretty clinical about my swinging in that I meet, fuck and leave.
When I was single and swinging I met, fucked and left. Nothing has changed now that I am with worlass.
If you want love go and find love... if that relationship is right for you and you want to swing then your partner will be into the idea too.
Just as Ms Whips said that people have met on this site.. I know plenty that have met on this site and stopped swinging because it wasn't right for them. Swinging as a single person is a damn site different for lots of people compared to their couply swinging. (if they continue to swing that is)
To be fair Splendid though i agree with you in part, you being clinical as in meet fuck and leave might leave others cold and it is only your take on swinging which is good for you. There can be more than just fuck and fuck off. A good lot of friendships evolve, no happy accidents, in and around swinging and a lot of people use this site to those ends so for others its not sex pure and simple.
With using the site as a means to a more secular type relationship then I do agree though, Swinging is first and foremost about sex and what goes with it. To join in order to gain oneself 'love' relationship is a little dillusional at the offset possibly. Great if it happens though.
I personally wouldn't use a swinging site for the above - but it doesn't break the AUP so hell why not if that's what they want!
good luck to you :smile:
I have spoken to many different people in my time here, and have found different people look for different things here, some would say it isn’t the best place to look for a lasting relationship, where others have said it has worked for them. So who knows what you with find and if indeed you will find what you are looking for.
But at least you are being honest in what you are searching for, honesty is always the best policy in my book.
Good luck in your search.
One should not need to be so cold to avoid love if it comes your way. Indeed you could say it can be found anywhere.
But I am not sure if the world is ready to accept that your new love came from within this social environment. Particularly if you are going to go the whole hog and do the white wedding etc.
It could be the love story of the century or something else.
What are profile for then??
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Well, I didn't expect to cause such a controversial discussion, sorry for that.
My intention was that I know there are a lot of single women on here who might seek more than pure sexual gratification, which, yes, this place is mainly aimed at, but, it caters for all kinds of things, which is why there is such a diverse crowd of people who attend this website.
I merely thought that it would be nice for those single people to state that they are looking for more than just sex and that it might be also nice for these people to find others who enjoy the swinging lifestyle rather than having to go through the awkwardness of bringing it up half way through the relationship, as someone said, honesty is always the best policy.
Anyways, rant finished, is anyone else going to make use of this thread and post their details, or is everyone actually spoken for ?
