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Had a look through the forum and couldn’t find it anywhere so thought we would ask the question. We have been logging onto our account recently to find messages that neither of us have read not highlighted and seemingly read. We have changed our password just in case anybody was snooping but it has happened to us again today.
Anybody had this problem before or knows anything about this????
GnB x x
I don't think it's anything sinister.
If you send a message and then you go into your sent messages and read it, it doesn't show up as a flashy thing in the person's mailbox.
Erm... summat like that anyway.
Oh and sometimes there seems to just be a delay on the flashy thing.
Oh I dunno, I'm rubbish at techy stuff. rolleyes But basically just don't think it's only you. Happens to lots of peeps every now and again.
Nola x
Probably just the kids or yer Gran reading em
Dont worry GnB its nothing suspicious, it just means that the person who has sent it has either opened it in their sent items or they have deleted it from their sent items. It doesnt mean someone has been using your account.
However, when you do log in, go the forums and in the top right hand corner, it does give information about the last time you were here and for me it is showing:
Your last visit was Fri Mar 6, 2009 10:39 pm
The time is now Sat Mar 7, 2009 4:30 pm
Hi all,
Couldn't find the answer using search so hopefully you can help.
If I send a message to someone who hasn't upgraded their account can they access their mailbox and are they able to reply?
Many thanks smile
Standard/basic members can't reply to messages. They have to pay to be full/premium members to get that facility.
Thanks for that. Means I won't be getting a reply then but can they at least read the message?
smile
Standard/free members can read the messages you send them, unlike a lot of sites where you need to upgrade even to read messages sent to you. However the site software automatically strips out anything that looks remotely like a web address, an e-mail address or a phone number, so you can't send pictures either. Its down to you to persuade that person its worth joining up ( just 15 quid for a month ) so that they can reply to your steamy messages !!!
Better encourage them to join then! Thanks for all the info. smile
something i have suggested to admin....is how about basic members...for want of a better term...being able to reply to mail...but at a cost of say £1 a mail...or ofcause join.....think it would be an idea.
£ 50 a shag.....hmmmmmm...interesting...i have been way off track...cheers flower..
wonder if I could persuade someone to take book tokens... biggrin
Quote by flower411
something i have suggested to admin....is how about basic members...for want of a better term...being able to reply to mail...but at a cost of say £1 a mail...or ofcause join.....think it would be an idea.

What ?? and like for a social meet and for a shag ??
don't understand your problem here....people would be able to reply to single mails they get..should they wish. This way I am sure they would get a taster of the site....and see it is actually cheaper to sign up. a reasonable idea i thought !!!!!
Quote by deancannock
something i have suggested to admin....is how about basic members...for want of a better term...being able to reply to mail...but at a cost of say £1 a mail...or ofcause join.....think it would be an idea.

What ?? and like for a social meet and for a shag ??
don't understand your problem here....people would be able to reply to single mails they get..should they wish. This way I am sure they would get a taster of the site....and see it is actually cheaper to sign up. a reasonable idea i thought !!!!!
It may be a good move to attract more members if they can reply to just 1 mail then they have to join to respond to any more......just a thought cool
Hi Guys& Gals this may be us being dumb but if you msg someone can you tell they are only on a basic profile and will not be able to reply to you?
Thanks S & D
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Hi Guys& Gals this may be us being dumb but if you msg someone can you tell they are only on a basic profile and will not be able to reply to you?
Thanks S & D

Basically no ....