unwanted attention

23 Jan 2007

Quote by jaymar
Perhaps Rober Mugabe would be interested in such ads for the purpose of offering his people a voluntary self cleanising charter.

:shock: who confused

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Ummm well my old mate google came up with summat about "dictatorship" and "deterioation of human rights" :shock:
Cheers Dunc redface

Take it you won't be answering to my ad then biggrin

23 Jan 2007

Have we done with the "unwanted attention" for a while ?
Ok
There must be something wrong with me. Or Perhaps I should answer Marya's ad :shock:
I don't see any of it as overly blunt, self absorbed, dictatorial, or offensive in it at all.
I liked it.
I wish more women people were as "straight"
*Disclaimer
Yes - Marya is a very attractive woman. I've had many carnal thoughts and the odd fantasy about the "ifs and buts" and possibilities. But this is not me trying to worm my way in, or show my "keenness" flipa

23 Jan 2007

Quote by Marya_Northeast

i know what yu're saying but it could then be open for abuse. Rejection, bad feelings and sour grapes make people do strange things!

And . . . . . . God forbid . . . . .
they might not renew their membership :shock: rolleyes

Yeah but what about my ad???
i have to say great ad like you said very specific, but for me reading all that would put me off from sending you a PM. But thats just me and my point of view and would never stop me from talking to you in the chatrooms. smile

23 Jan 2007

Thankyou for your honesty - very much appreciated. wink

Ummm ... am feeling abit of a twat now for hi-jacking this thread when it was meant in jest ...so if anyone has any other comment re; my ad, please PM me. cool

23 Jan 2007

Ive had the one liners and unsolicited cock shots rolling through my pm box since the day I became a member, and it hasnt always been single guys!!! I just blocked them as they arrived...depending on my mood that day! Other times, Ive had fun replying an got to know some guys/couples by doing so. I found the majority of guys are new to the site and not sure how *things work*, others have been here years and just trying their luck on someone they see as new to the site...
Most recent pm's Ive had are on the lines of *for ffs what you doing on this site then* lol

:lol: :lol: I dont even bother justifying mysef to anyone for being a member here.
xanaisx

23 Jan 2007

Quote by meat2pleaseu
Thats why i suggested a certain number, to get blocked by 20, 30, 40 etc individuals you've got to be doing something wrong and it's most likely one liners, not bothering to read ad's or profiles, unwanted cock shots. It's more of a wake up call for some and a way to get rid of the persistant idiots (yep, even the ones who paid to join, sorry admin )

Surely that is reverse verification and open to the same abuse. An unlikely, but possible scenario, would be word of mouth passing around about someone's behaviour fueled by rumour leading to the requisite number of people making false allegations. It would be better for people who feel aggrieved by unwanted contact to forward the pms to admin and let them decide whether the AUP is being broken.
However, if you fill in a profile or advert on a subscription sex site you cannot be surprised if you get responses that you do not want. It's not pleasant but hardly life threatening and easily ignored.

23 Jan 2007

Who said the V word ??? :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
ok,ok, am retreating back under my stone! biggrin

23 Jan 2007

Quote by anais
Ive had the one liners and unsolicited cock shots rolling through my pm box since the day I became a member, and it hasnt always been single guys!!! I just blocked them as they arrived...depending on my mood that day! Other times, Ive had fun replying an got to know some guys/couples by doing so. I found the majority of guys are new to the site and not sure how *things work*, others have been here years and just trying their luck on someone they see as new to the site...
Most recent pm's Ive had are on the lines of *for ffs what you doing on this site then* :lol: :lol: I dont even bother justifying mysef to anyone for being a member here.
xanaisx

That stinks and i thought we were members of a liberarted and open lifestyle,where everyone who thinks outside the box should be accepted dunno

Nicky

23 Jan 2007

Quote by northwest-cpl
However, if you fill in a profile or advert on a subscription sex site you cannot be surprised if you get responses that you do not want. It's not pleasant but hardly life threatening and easily ignored.

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