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can someone please update me on this term and what it implies, i have seen it within a few adds but not wanting to enter blind prefer to know what I'm getting into before hand.
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As far as I can tell, it refers to all non-swingers and the world they inhabit wink
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I am sure it means friends outside of swinging circles.
But others will correct me if I am wrong.
At one time I thought and took Vanilla to mean outside of the 'normal' with sex. This could mean anything considered a little avante garde or risque. I think now though that the term is used, as stated by others, in the broader sense of people not involved in swinging in some fashion. The thing is I have heard it used by people who are into bdsm and dont swing to refer to those not into bdsm.
I guess it just means those not involved with the particular scene that you are involved with. A term for outsiders biggrin :D
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I guess it just means those not involved with the particular scene that you are involved with. A term for outsiders biggrin :D

Or in the Forum...................
.....We call them Lost's bolt
Dave_Notts
Quote by Lost
At one time I thought and took Vanilla to mean outside of the 'normal' with sex. This could mean anything considered a little avante garde or risque. I think now though that the term is used, as stated by others, in the broader sense of people not involved in swinging in some fashion. The thing is I have heard it used by people who are into bdsm and dont swing to refer to those not into bdsm.
I guess it just means those not involved with the particular scene that you are involved with. A term for outsiders biggrin :D

vanilla fudge ....slang for dont judge ......
steve
Quote by travlinmanukok
At one time I thought and took Vanilla to mean outside of the 'normal' with sex. This could mean anything considered a little avante garde or risque. I think now though that the term is used, as stated by others, in the broader sense of people not involved in swinging in some fashion. The thing is I have heard it used by people who are into bdsm and dont swing to refer to those not into bdsm.
I guess it just means those not involved with the particular scene that you are involved with. A term for outsiders biggrin :D

vanilla fudge ....slang for dont judge ......
steve
sorry fella I dont get ryhming slang link to my post steve?
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I guess it just means those not involved with the particular scene that you are involved with. A term for outsiders biggrin :D

Or in the Forum...................
.....We call them Lost's bolt
Dave_Notts
Nur nur nurnur nur :D
Quote by travlinmanukok
At one time I thought and took Vanilla to mean outside of the 'normal' with sex. This could mean anything considered a little avante garde or risque. I think now though that the term is used, as stated by others, in the broader sense of people not involved in swinging in some fashion. The thing is I have heard it used by people who are into bdsm and dont swing to refer to those not into bdsm.
I guess it just means those not involved with the particular scene that you are involved with. A term for outsiders biggrin :D

vanilla fudge ....slang for dont judge ......
steve
Cockney slang for a judge.
Vanilla is different..........it doesn't have fudge at the end lol
Dave_Notts
Genuine single male vanillas are a rarer species than swingers rolleyes
bolt
vanilla
is your standard cone with no sprinkles, flake or other adornment, no chocolate fudge source. In short un-adventurous, within excepted norms.
Bugger, that's me out.