vanilla environments

Sexpert

0 likes 26 Dec 2009

Well I guess most ppl on here will be going to at least one over the holidays.
So does everyone else have the same problem we have with them dunno

, that is once we,ve had a few drinks and the juices are flowing you start looking at ppl in a different way. At a vanilla party or even just out in the town for a few drinks, you chat to ppl and notice the way they look at you,(the glint in there eyes) the way they talk to you,(the surgestivness and tone in there voice) there body language (being defensive or open to you). At a club or "gathering of perverts off here" :grin: you know the score and get stuck in or make your excuses.
That,s where the problem starts because in a "vanilla environment" how do you broach the subject of getting them into your bed without getting slapped. We,ve been in this situation a few times and never had the bottle to just ask them.
Getting a "vanilla" into bed with both of us has to be #1 on my to do list for 2010
This is Mr writing but am sure Mrs will agree
K & W
xxx

noladreams

Sex God

0 likes 26 Dec 2009

My problem is being in a vanilla environment with non-vanilla friends... that's when the lines get a bit blurry for me! wink

poshkate

Sex God

0 likes 26 Dec 2009

Quote by noladreams
My problem is being in a vanilla environment with non-vanilla friends... that's when the lines get a bit blurry for me!

Yes!

That can cause a few problems! Especially after a few drinks you have to keep reminding yourself that although non-vanillas are around, not everyone is! :giggle:

Nicekat

Sexpert

0 likes 26 Dec 2009

I have to keep reminding myself of the fact that I am in a vanila enviroment because when drinking alchol sometimes ya can forget and make mistakes, for example, this woman gave me a kiss good bye and I went straight for the lips and I lasted longer than it should have and my vanila mates just stared at me with open mouths oops lol

mrs_cream123

Sex God

0 likes 30 Dec 2009

Quote by Nicekat
I have to keep reminding myself of the fact that I am in a vanila enviroment because when drinking alchol sometimes ya can forget and make mistakes, for example, this woman gave me a kiss good bye and I went straight for the lips and I lasted longer than it should have and my vanila mates just stared at me with open mouths oops lol

Yeah, I was at a school reunion last month. Now in a "swingers" situation when saying goodbye, it's usally a hug and kiss on the cheek or lips (depending on the person). A "vanilla" person is and always has been a hug. But at this school reunion when saying goodbye to ppl, I kept kissing ppl on the cheek. It sounds harmless but it's just something I never ever do with them friends, espesh ones I hadn't seen in 10yrs!
I so know where you're coming from there Kat!

Unknown User

0 likes 30 Dec 2009

I am no different in any environment.
Umm much to the displeasure of a friend of mine recently. wink

Those who know me well, expect the unexpected.

Witchy

Sex God

0 likes 30 Dec 2009

Oddly enough, I was just thinking of a recent incident where I did the reverse...I took a 'nilla into a non-nilla environment.
Never, ever again. :dry:

Unknown User

0 likes 30 Dec 2009

Quote by Witchy
Oddly enough, I was just thinking of a recent incident where I did the reverse...I took a 'nilla into a non-nilla environment.
Never, ever again. :dry:

It was kinda 'nilla. But it was my 'nilla.
and I did apologise a lot...... but I kinda sorta kinda can't help being me.

Witchy

Sex God

0 likes 30 Dec 2009

Quote by splendid_
Oddly enough, I was just thinking of a recent incident where I did the reverse...I took a 'nilla into a non-nilla environment.
Never, ever again. :dry:

It was kinda 'nilla. But it was my 'nilla.
and I did apologise a lot...... but I kinda sorta kinda can't help being me.
But you can help being so fecking loud! lol

Actually, you weren't guilty of the worst bit. That was down to your friend, who couldn't have known. I have never wanted the ground to open up so badly. redface

Unknown User

0 likes 30 Dec 2009

i hear the best vanilla environment is at ben & jerry's hq :moon:

OnlyUs

Sexlightened

0 likes 30 Dec 2009

Or worse and misinterpreting what was said!
True story from a short time ago....
To us: "....at a party run by a gay guy we know and his partner, there were loads of gays there and even gay girls - didn't know there were that many"
(Us looking at each other smirking thinking "you do know girls who like girls")
Them continuing "...they had really nice food, good finger buffet and a big spit roast"
(Cue us bursting out laughing unstoppable for a few minutes with rather confused looks from the others).
Ooops.

Lost

Sex God

0 likes 31 Dec 2009

Quote by Kaznkev
Or worse and misinterpreting what was said!
True story from a short time ago....
To us: "....at a party run by a gay guy we know and his partner, there were loads of gays there and even gay girls - didn't know there were that many"
(Us looking at each other smirking thinking "you do know girls who like girls")
Them continuing "...they had really nice food, good finger buffet and a big spit roast"
(Cue us bursting out laughing unstoppable for a few minutes with rather confused looks from the others).
Ooops.

Makes me think of christmas day,,,,,opening presants ,my mum hands me a pacel" we think you could use it" inside a lovely new gold make up bag... me and kev catch each others eyes and think "new fuck bag" we still not able to expain why we collapsed in giggles on xmas morning lol

I wonder if my ex's new guy thought......no Lost no best not go there :lol: :shock: