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Quote by Mister_Discreet
Where is your evidence to suggest that +ed people are more likely to report uninvited pvts? I've had a few myself and I have named and shamed, each time the ops warn them and all is sorted. Come on, let's stick to valid arguements shall we! rolleyes

1) Newbies tend not to know/folow follow the rules, or be confident enough to name and shame.
2) none of the + people are newbies
Therefore
3) non + people are more likely not to report an unwanted pvt.
Mr _D,
What a load of Bollox!
How insulting for the newbies........ how would you feel coming to an adult site where a group of established people treated you like morons! The gen ones will read the rules and follwo them to the best of their abilty regardless of little symbols/ labels beside their name!
Give people credit for having some of the intelligence they were born with please!
Quote by Mister_Discreet
Where is your evidence to suggest that +ed people are more likely to report uninvited pvts? I've had a few myself and I have named and shamed, each time the ops warn them and all is sorted. Come on, let's stick to valid arguements shall we! rolleyes

1) Newbies tend not to know/folow follow the rules, or be confident enough to name and shame.
2) none of the + people are newbies
Therefore
3) non + people are more likely not to report an unwanted pvt.
One of the best rooms I was involved in used the +V to verify ages ... immediately upon entering the room a newbie received a pm outlining very brief rules / conduct expected. At the end they were asked to pm an op and confirm they had read this pm and confirm their age / dob. Any newbie not complying was kicked and anyone abusing the conduct code was banned.
All in all it was a fantastic atmosphere rarely were the rules/conduct abused and the room has been established for about 9 years, originally for 5 years on one of the worst servers for spammers!
If we adopted a policy in the chatroom there would be no need for treating anyone differently as all people receive the same information and newbies now what is
expected of them immediately.
How anyone can justify treating newbies so differently is beyond me ....... but to treat regular chatters the same as a newbie and "dumb" them down is frankly insulting.
Quote by little gem
What a load of Bollox!
How insulting for the newbies........ how would you feel coming to an adult site where a group of established people treated you like morons! The gen ones will read the rules and follwo them to the best of their abilty regardless of little symbols/ labels beside their name!
Give people credit for having some of the intelligence they were born with please!

Hang on a moment. I'm only reporting what I see in the chatroom. Im my experience, the likelyhood of reporting a pvt is based on how experienced people are in the channel rather than how 'genuine' they are.
'Gen ones' as you put it are probably quite intimidated at first, and I'm giving them the credit to assume they won't want the first line they say after hello to be an accusation against somene who (for all they know) might be a highly respected elder member of the site.
I know it took me a while to get used to naming and shaming when I arrived, partly because it's human nature to be nice to people unless you are sure they deserve what's coming to them.
Quote by Calista
to treat regular chatters the same as a newbie and "dumb" them down is frankly insulting.

That seem to be an argument for the + not against it!
Quote by Mister_Discreet
to treat regular chatters the same as a newbie and "dumb" them down is frankly insulting.

That seem to be an argument for the + not against it!
More twaddle.
Quote by Mister_Discreet
to treat regular chatters the same as a newbie and "dumb" them down is frankly insulting.

That seem to be an argument for the + not against it!
I'm def not against the +V but not for the reasons it's currently being used for ..... everyone who read the conduct/room rules was awarded a +v ... it just meant that they had agreed to abide by the pm ......
giving a +V to someone who will fuck to get status is just as much an abuse of the +V system as unwanted pm's and doesn't make them anymore genuine .... (that isn't me saying all those currently with a +V are status fuckers either)
I am, like many others in this debate, against the use of +V to denote "players" when the system was initially introduced as a denotion of genuineness. The more the debate goes on the more it is less about genuineness and more about "players".
Quote by Jags
TWADDLE!!

Quote by little gem
What a load of Bollox!

Quote by Jags
More twaddle.

Quote by Bluexxx
Utter nonsense!

I'm finally surrounded by gorgeous sexy women... and what happens? I'm winding them up by discussing this topic.
So much for me fighting the admin's battles on this one, I'm out of this thread from now on.
:happy: :happy: :happy:
You're not winding me up - I'm a person of few words.
:P
Quote by Mister_Discreet
TWADDLE!!

Quote by little gem
What a load of Bollox!

Quote by Jags
More twaddle.

Quote by Bluexxx
Utter nonsense!

I'm finally surrounded by gorgeous sexy women... and what happens? I'm winding them up by discussing this topic.
So much for me fighting the admin's battles on this one, I'm out of this thread from now on.
sobs quietly into her coffee ..... ny name wasn't mentioned ... sob sob sob
;) Mister_Discreet
You used too many words Calista and won the battle - I just couldn't be bothered.
But you are the victor, and to the victor, the spoils. Go feed yourself on sweetmeats and penises.
DOH!! Wrong thread again, sorry!!
biggrin
Jags smackbottom Stop it now :smackbottom:
Dawn :silly:
Quote by Jags
You used too many words Calista and won the battle - I just couldn't be bothered.
But you are the victor, and to the victor, the spoils. Go feed yourself on sweetmeats and penises.
DOH!! Wrong thread again, sorry!!
biggrin

LOLOL as stated in the other thread Jags, my penis oops Morbius is at uni tonight ... he's mine when he gets home though :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Quote by Dawn_Mids
Jags smackbottom Stop it now :smackbottom:
Dawn :silly:

redface surprisedops: :oops: Sorry, it's jus the idea of fried penises seems strangely tempting - especially when such bollox is being written here. Can someone get me a recipe for fried balls too??
:P
If you had fried balls on a menu, would someone have the job of ball shaving first?
Dawn :silly:
Quote by Dawn_Mids
If you had fried balls on a menu, would someone have the job of ball shaving first?
Dawn :silly:

Nah... we'd have to pluck 'em to make sure we got rid of all the hair.
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Thats gonna be a bitch if your in a chinese trying to eat with chop-sticks lol
Quote by Jags
Jags smackbottom Stop it now :smackbottom:
Dawn :silly:

redface surprisedops: :oops: Sorry, it's jus the idea of fried penises seems strangely tempting - especially when such bollox is being written here. Can someone get me a recipe for fried balls too??
:P
look! no way am i coming back into this bloody thread if it's gonna descend to the level of fried penises and balls! :shock: is that the point? eh? well is it? :mad: lol
neil x x x ;)
Neil as long as it's not your fried penis and balls on the menu, I'd keep these girlies on side if were you hunnybunch! lol
Neil sweetheart -you NEVER talk bollox so you shouldn't worry about the safety of your dingly-dangly bits. Mind you I have it on good authority that your penis tastes especially nice, think how much better it would be with a Chiliand garlic sauce!
:P
Edited by Jags to avoid Sarge fainting!!
smile
Quote by Jags
Neil sweetheart -you NEVER talk bollox so you shouldn't worry about the safety of your dingly-dangly bits. Mind you I have it on good authority that your penis tastes especially nice, think how much better it would be with a mushroom and garlic sauce!

NO!!!!! Not Mushrooms!!! :shock: mad :x :x :x
Jags! smackbottom
Can I have a taste too??? lol
Sorry Neil....... us girls have to stick together sometimes.......
*Smears garlic butter on Neil's bits in preparation.......
Quote by Sgt Bilko
NO!!!!! Not Mushrooms!!! :shock: mad :x :x :x

redface surprisedops: :oops:
SORRY SARGE! Forgot... will go and change it to garlic and chilli
:oops:
kiss
Unless Sarge is eating Neils balls does it mater if there are mushrooms in the sauce????
Quote by little gem
Jags! smackbottom
Can I have a taste too??? lol
Sorry Neil....... us girls have to stick together sometimes.......
*Smears garlic butter on Neil's bits in preparation.......

noooooo I hate garlic ... can we have sweet and sour instead????
Quote by little gem
Jags! smackbottom
Can I have a taste too??? lol
Sorry Neil....... us girls have to stick together sometimes.......
*Smears garlic butter on Neil's bits in preparation.......

I'm sure we could share Neil's bollox - they're big enough.
:P
Quote by Calista
Jags! smackbottom
Can I have a taste too??? lol
Sorry Neil....... us girls have to stick together sometimes.......
*Smears garlic butter on Neil's bits in preparation.......

noooooo I hate garlic ... can we have sweet and sour instead????
OK - we can divide up Nei's penis between us and make a sort of tapas dish out of it and his bollox - how's that?
:P
Quote by Jags
Neil sweetheart -you NEVER talk bollox so you shouldn't worry about the safety of your dingly-dangly bits. Mind you I have it on good authority that your penis tastes especially nice, think how much better it would be with a Chili and garlic sauce!
:P
Edited by Jags to avoid Sarge fainting!!
smile

rotflmao
jags i reckon there's a good few on this thread might disagree with you there!
now who's been telling tales on the tastiness or otherwise of my willy eh? can we have no secrets! rolleyes :lol2:
n x x x ;)
Who's been telling me how tasty your penis is???
EVERYONE
:shock:
rotflmao :happy: :happy: :happy: